Insights: It’s Not How Much You Get Done, It’s What’s Profitable!

What are the essential factors to consider to become a successful sales leader? Join Lance Tyson in this insightful short-form series ‘Lance Rants’ as he dives into the essential elements of effective sales leadership. Discover the keys to not only achieving success but also fostering growth within your sales team. Are you and your team reaching the desired results? Lance shares invaluable insights on cultivating successful leadership by investing in your own skills and empowering your team to excel. Tune in now and unlock the secrets to impactful sales leadership!

Lance is the bestselling author of Selling Is An Away Game and The Human Sales Factor.

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Lance Rants: It’s Not How Much You Get Done, It’s What’s Profitable!

It’s Not How Much You Get Done But What’s Profitable

You are using this massive amount of time to have one-on-one. You’re having all these one-on-ones, but are you hitting your number? You only have 86,400 seconds a day. You’re not going to get any more time. What it really comes down to is profitable action. It’s not how much you get done. It’s what’s profitable. You have to feel the best players.

It’s like leads. Do you guys get leads every once in a while? How do you give leads out? Do you share them equally or are you socialist? Are we a socialist utopia? Give leads out. Let’s give them out. Everybody should get the leads. You’re like, “What are you? A charity?” I give leads to players. If we’re in bad shape, I need the hitter-up. You’re like, “That’s not fair.” That is fair. That’s not equal.  3rd liners do not get 1st-liner time ever. You’re like, “That’s not fair. They score more goals because they’re out.” When I put them out, they score. You ask, “How do I get there?” Figure out how to be a first liner. Maybe you should have skated more[1].

I’m very public about who gets the leads too. They never figure it out. I’ll be like, “We got three leads that came in this week. This is all going to you.” You might be like, “What do you mean? The guy’s appointments were off the charts for the last three weeks. His closing ratio is higher than everybody’s. His pipeline is 3x. That’s not fair.” That is fair. That’s not equal. You’re like, “He’s going to even sell more.” I go, “I know. It sucks, doesn’t it?” You then might be like, “I’m going to have a bunch of people that will complain.” I go, “Complain. Good luck.”

I might change it up and then spread it across. I get all your automation systems and stuff like that. Screw around with it a couple of times. Remember. Sometimes, you need to turn the heat up. There are all kinds of ways to turn heat up. Sometimes, you might want it cold because frigid causes action too. When you start getting cold, you’re like, “How do I get warm? What do I need to do to get warm here?” That causes action too.

Achieving Desired Results

I’m throwing some stuff at you. My job in 45 minutes is to get your perspective to change. Is that fair? Let me show you a couple of thoughts here. In sales leadership, your job is the ability to enlist the willing cooperation of people to achieve desired results. Is that fair? Why does your job exist? That’s not in any order. It could be to build people and get results in the flip-flops all the time. You three are there under Derek to get results.

Let me show you how org charts work. Results aren’t there at a board meeting or senior leadership meeting. They’re looking at income and revenue. There’s then a conversation right at Grissom’s level with people. That starts rolling into Derek and then Derek rolls into you, and then you roll into your people. That’s the progression of gravity.

If you look at the inside sales team, I’m pretty sure that Derek didn’t put an inside sales team together to develop careers inside pro sports. That would be very utopian of him. You are like, “We’re in broken careers.” No. You’re getting results too. This is not like Goger results. That’s why it’s there. It’s why you’re spending so much money on these people. It’s to get results. That’s why your job exists. Is that fair enough?

Where you got to be is not just to take the temperature, but you need to set the temperature. It’s the difference between a thermostat and a thermometer. The thermostat takes temperature and sets the conditions in the environment that are necessary. As you look at where you spend your time, how you’re developing people, and how you’re communicating with people, are your meetings set up to take a temperature? You have to decide that here.

You have to understand what motivation is. You might need to create a motivational environment. Anger and competition are motivators. I’m pretty sure looking at all three of you and looking at your LinkedIn profiles that there have probably been plenty of times that you’ve moved up the ranks because you were flat-out pissed off. Anger’s not sustainable. I’m not saying cheating, but let’s move the needle. What’s the difference between that word and that word? Do you want to be known as a manipulator? You’re all wrong.  You do. You don’t understand.

Sales Leadership: Create a motivation environment. Anger and competition are motivators.

Motivation Vs Manipulation

The thin line between motivation and manipulation is in the definition. In motivation, moti in Latin means for within. In manipulation, mani means hand. It’s manual. One of the definitions of the word manipulation is to act in a skillful manner. I believe it’s the second definition. Do you think you’re purely motivating when you run a contest? Wake up. You’re manipulating.

The thin line between motivation and manipulation is in the definition.

My dad was an excavator. I worked labor from the time I was 12 until I was 24, so I do what I do. My dad used to yell at me with the shovel and everybody that worked for him. You couldn’t lean on the shovel. We’d cut them so that they weren’t really short shovels because you’d have to go down to lean on them. He didn’t want people to lean on shovels. He wants you to work.

He would always say, “Are you going to manipulate the shovel or is this shovel going to manipulate you? Get a hole. Fill up the shovel. It’s not half a shovel load. It’s a full shovel load. It’s the same with a wheelbarrow. Are you going to manipulate the wheelbarrow or is it going to manipulate you? You need to know how the wheelbarrow works. You have to load it evenly. You have to spread it across. You need to know where the dump part is. You can get a little high there so it’s easier to get up at the end and it pulls down the front.  That’s the difference.”

There is a dark definition of manipulation, but I’m not talking about that where you’re actively trying to hurt somebody, be nefarious, and things like that. That’s not what I’m talking about here. I’m talking about acting in a skillful manner. What motivates your people? If you go to Maslow and want to understand motivation, if people don’t, at some level, worry that somebody may take their job or that they’re replaceable, then salespeople get adaptive[2]. Salespeople get lazy. You can’t even afford it.

The manufacturing company I am working with, I had their VP start marching people in the interview in front of everybody. He goes, “We’re not hiring.” I go, “You’re always hiring.” He goes, “Why would I do that?” I go, “Why wouldn’t you march a bunch of people in here? You got a bunch of salespeople that have been here for fifteen years and make gobs of money. They’re not hitting their performance standards and they think they’re irreplaceable. Why don’t you start marching people on and interviewing them?” He goes, “I don’t think it’ll work.” I go, “I’ll bet you $1,000 it works. I’ll take it off my bill, but you have to do exactly what I’m telling you to do. Plus, you’re going to find some good people.”

He started it once a week with 2 or 3 people right after the sales meeting. People were like, “Who are these people?” He was like, “We’re interviewing them.” They were like, “For what? There are no openings.” He was like, “No. There are always openings for sales. We have a feeling some people might leave, so we’re interviewing them.” Some people wake up. All of a sudden, they’re like, “Is my job okay?” Do you think your job’s not okay?

You can play it any way you want, but you have to understand this. Have you created such an environment that people aren’t looking over their shoulders? With what you guys should be playing, you have the perfect system if you think about it philosophically. Our inside sales team, even if they’re not ready, they need to be ready to go.

It’s not a time thing either. If you’re sitting there going, “They have to be here for 8 or 9 months.” The whole system of inside sales when it was created by Scott O’Neill and Chad, which are the earliest versions of inside sales, was created to be a brush fire that this group here presses on the groups above them, like account execs which presses on the group sales or however you hit.

I argue all the time to go outside. For instance, if Matt’s group has an opening, you should never go outside. You should immediately pull from inside sales whether they’re ready or not. Why take somebody else’s trash? Plug them in because that’s what it’s for. It’s a moneyball system. If you play it correctly, you pressure the other groups because they’re looking at the bottom two tiers of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs and going, “Somebody can replace me.” It doesn’t matter if they’re ready or not. Plug right back in and move. That’s why it was originally created.

What’s happened over the years is sales managers got to this point that they’re slow playing the inside team and are like, “They’re not ready.” You should have your 4 or 5 people. You guys should all be in agreement like, “Here are the 4 or 5 people that come out of inside sales. Madison, you got to be completely okay with these guys taking your top person. At the end of the day, you’re triple-A, and then there are juniors and pros.” It’s a movement because you want to create an environment where everybody is looking over their shoulder. You don’t want them to be comfortable.

Building Teams With Candor

In this captivating episode of Against The Sales Odds, Lance engages in a thought-provoking conversation with Brad Luttrell, the Co-Founder and CEO of GoWild. Brad shares his remarkable journey of evolution and discovery as a budding entrepreneur. From navigating various roles within the organization, including sales, marketing, and revenue generation, he imparts invaluable insights into the essentials for entrepreneurial success, spanning from the formative stages to achieving productivity. Overflowing with wisdom, Brad shares profound quotes, recommends enriching books, and offers a treasure trove of insights during this enlightening interview.

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Building Teams With Candor

Creativity Is Key With Brad Luttrell Co-Founder & CEO of GoWild

I’ve been looking forward to this episode for a while. I have Brad Luttrell who is the Cofounder and CEO of GoWild. We did some business with them, a little bit of business, a few years back, but his story is amazing. I follow all the stuff he does on LinkedIn and podcasts. It’s an interesting story.

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Welcome, Brad. I’m glad you’re on.

Thanks for having me. I am excited to be here. I am excited to be a part of it and share a little bit of what we do. I know you told me not to mention the client thing, but I hope to share a little bit about how you guys helped us. What may have kicked this off with you and me is that was such a turning point for me to learn that I was not a good salesperson. It’s been fun. This is a fun bow on top of it all for me. I learned from you guys. I go out and do that for four years and it’s like, “How’d that pan out?”

GoWild And Entrepreneurial Journey

You have your own signature on it and your own journey. I appreciate you saying that. I love the name of your company, GoWild. Tell everybody what you do.

In the simplest terms, we’re a social media app for hunters and anglers. If I were to put my tech hat on and go to the investor pitches, we’re a social commerce company that empowers hunters and anglers to shop smarter. If our audience were to tell you what we do though, it’s like, “That’s a cool place to hang out online.” They get to share their stories. They get to talk about their bucks, bass, turkeys, or whatever they’re into.

As they’re posting and sharing on our platform, they earn rewards. As they get rewards, they get, sometimes, free stickers from our sponsors. Sometimes, it’s 20% off of some binoculars that they were looking to buy. It’s a pretty cool program and platform. It’s an awesome community. I’ve learned a ton from being a member of the community. It’s an app. You can download it from the App Store. If you like to hunt, fish, hike, camp, or whatever, you might enjoy the platform.

I love that. Your entrepreneurial journey, how did you arrive at this spot? What was the inception of the idea? What said, “We’re going to form this platform. We’re going to form this community.” How did you get there?

It’s a long journey. I have to go back years before I ever started GoWild. Fresh out of college, I was a contractor. I was a photojournalist. I did that for a while. It was in the Great Recession, which was not the best time to be trying to work for newspapers. Everybody I knew was getting laid off. I started my own business. I started a wedding photo agency. I did that for a while, but I was not quite ready to run my own business at that point. I was too young. The sales part of it was something I didn’t like as well as the operation side. I liked the work but I didn’t like all the business end of it yet.

I got into an ad agency as a social media coordinator and I met a lot of people who work with me at GoWild. One of the guys that I’ll call out is Zach. Zach, at the time, was a big data guy. Data science wasn’t the term. It was big data that everybody was talking about. He and I realized an opportunity to take data and tie it to marketing. I’ll simplify it there so we don’t spend twenty minutes talking about this failed idea. We started working on it on the side. The company wasn’t doing well, so Zach got laid off. They found his personal Dropbox and found our operating agreement for this side hustle company, and then I got fired over the whole thing. They didn’t like that I was working on the side.

Zach dragged you with him.

I still give him a hard time about it for getting me fired. His last words before he walked out were, “I need to unsync my Dropbox.” They said, “Don’t worry about it. We’re going to wipe the computer,” and then they didn’t wipe the computer. They found all these documents of what we had been working on. I was probably getting laid off anyway. It was a nice, “We got cause now. We’ll let this guy go.”

That’s exactly what I was going to say.

With my CEO hat on, I can see, “This was convenient. It fell on our lap.” The reason they go all the way back to that, and that was in 2013, is I landed my next job at another agency in 2 weeks. I told them upfront, “I don’t know when but I’m going to start something on the side again and I don’t want to get fired for it.” They said, “That’s fine. We don’t care how you use your personal time.” That was permission for me to go out and do something.

Zach and I did try to get that company going again. It never really worked out. The timing was bad on it.  What we wanted to do was to use data in a lot of ways that I see Google, McDonald’s, and a lot of these companies are doing. The concept of that company was great, but Zach and I, honestly, didn’t give a crap about the restaurant analytics. It was a restaurant company. I could not get excited enough to work until 1:00 AM on it. That was what as a side hustle we had to do. I gave it up and started going down this rabbit hole of learning. I knew my weakness was the business side, so I started reading a lot about that. I didn’t know where to turn to. At the very beginning of this, it was like, “I’ll watch Shark Tank. That’s a good place to start to learn business,” because I knew nothing.

What a great place to learn it. One thing with Shark Tank is I don’t always agree with what the valuations people come up with. Things like, “Where the heck did you go to school?” I’m a graduate at the end of the day. You do appreciate a good pitch with a lot of enthusiasm.

Zach and I were traveling together. Do you know what we did when we got to the hotel and we had an hour before bed? We were sharing a room together because we were still in startup mode and cheap. We watched Shark Tank. You can still see really good stories sometimes in there. They’ll go through their unit economics. Nobody talks about valuations in the way they do on Shark Tank.

I started there and I started weaving my way through business books. I was trying to find a business model that I liked, something I thought I could do and be excited about. It was years. I did this for years, listening to business podcasts. I eventually got into podcasts. Once I discovered audiobooks and that clicked with me, I started reading 30 books a year.

Eventually, I was trying to learn to hunt simultaneously. I grew up hunting and fishing, but it was all small game. I was trying to figure out whitetail hunting. I had no one to teach me this. I was diving through this miserably. After a couple of years of sucking at that, I was like, “This is insane. I want to find an online community that can help me out.”

I remember where I was standing. I was in southeastern Kentucky, I can tell you the exact spot in this field. It hit me. You asked, “When did you think of this idea?” I can tell you when I thought of it, but it was a 2 or 3-year journey of thinking through what I wanted to do. I had a ton of ideas that had come up before. The amount of URLs I had purchased because I was thinking through all this stuff.

This was the first one that I went home and spent hours researching it and put my son to bed. My wife worked the night shift and I would work from 8:00 AM until 1:00 AM. I would get up at 5:00 and I would start working on it. I spent a month doing that to really look into the market and try to understand, “Is this big enough? Is this what I want it to be?” By September 2016, I was convinced it was and started putting it together with some co-founders. August to September was that timeframe in 2016.

Number one, I always carry a couple of things. I always have dice above my door. I’m not a gambler. I like to avert risk. That’s probably who I am as an entrepreneur. It sounds like you may have a higher risk tolerance than other people, which entrepreneurs and decent salespeople always do. It sounds like you worked for yourself. You took some risks. You were able to figure it out. That entrepreneurial journey, which everybody talks about, when everybody sees somebody where they’re landed, they don’t see the pain that they went through before or the things that they went through before. Up until that point, you mentioned the Great Recession. You were in the ad space around 2008 or 2009.

I graduated college in ‘09 in May.

You were coming right through it. You had the ad side, so you understand that, and then you had some side hustles going. That’s interesting. Finally, you found something you are passionate about. You’re starting to get back and getting into hunting. I had a younger person on my staff go, “How do you figure all this out?” It was all the stuff I had on my plate. I was like, “First things first, what do you prioritize?” You’re sitting there going, “My family’s a priority but I’m going to work through tonight and figure this out a little bit.” I always find with entrepreneurs, it is a lust for learning. It is a desire that’s so strong. You’re like me. I’m always in an audiobook. I have ten books on my desk that I’ve half-read and am taking notes on. I take notes of stuff and write it down.

On the book front too, you can burn out on any of that. Anything you mentioned too, you have to be careful. I’ll read five business books in a row sometimes and I’m like, “I can’t touch it anymore.” I’ll read like six novels. It could be like zombie apocalypse stuff. I read a Barbara Kingsolver book and I’m on my second one in a row. I go heavy on heavy.

I am so with you. I told my wife. I tore into this really big thick business book and then I read this bio from this guy. She goes, “What will you read next?” I go, “In high school, I never read Huckberry Thin or Tom Sawyer. I’ve watched Disney movies and stuff like that.” She goes, “You’re seriously going to tear in.” I said, “I read something that those two books are very different from.” She goes, “You’re going to read them.” I said, “Your grandma left a bunch of books. I’m reading Tom Sawyer and Huckleberry Finn.”

I  read it with my son for the first time.

You have to take it with a grain of salt because it’s a different time with the language they use and stuff like that. That’s awesome. I’ve never read it myself. I’m going to read.

I read Moby Dick for the first time. I’m the same way. I’m like, “I don’t want to die and have not read all these classics.” People still talk about Moby Dick. I’d never read it. There are a lot of books like that I’m working my way through a lot.

There is a lot of symbolism in there and deep concepts. I’ve gotten into it too. For the last couple of years, I read a lot of books about stoicism. I got Marcus Aurelius’ Meditations on my desk.

I haven’t read that.

Becoming A CEO

I have to dig into the language a little bit. I don’t get very far. I’m like, on ChatGPT or something like, “What the heck does that mean?” I love that. That is awesome. That’s great. You wear the CEO hat. You started GoWild. I have to ask this BEcause I love the name. How long did it take you to come up with the name?

I wrote about this in my newsletter. It was a matter of weeks. I was a branding guy. I was a creative director at an ad agency. I’ve named tons of companies. That’s the part I really understood. When you’re starting a company, everybody always asks me, “What do you do first?” The real answer is whatever gets you started.

If you’re an operator, start thinking through that portion of the business. If you’re a finance guy, go out and build your P&L projections. What would the model be? If you try to start with something you’re not familiar with, it makes it hard to get going. The first step should be the baby step of whatever’s tangible for you. For the name, honestly, it was easy. I had 40 names that I came up with. I had three that I liked. One of them was taken by a different industry for something else. Once I came up with GoWild, it was pretty well done. I knew I had it.

If you start with something you are not familiar with, it will be hard for you to get going.

That’s so interesting. It’s similar to when I write a book. If the title is not right, I can’t even start writing. I had a company called PRSPX. It was a hybrid sales demand organization where we’d be on the front end of a funnel for complex sales processes. When I wrote my first book, the publisher was all over me like, “You don’t want two master brands. You’re going to be a master brand as an author if you’re going to do what you said you’re going to do.”

He goes, “You got to change the name of the company.” I changed it to Tyson Group. It’s one thing I struggled with because I don’t love that name. I’m with you. Start where you’re familiar and with what drives the moment. You come up with a concept, and then you have to build and execute. For you personally, what was the cultural journey you had to run through?

That comes in 2 waves for us, or maybe 3 even. The first was, “How the heck do I start a company?” I’d never done that part of it. In a lot of ways I look back at my job as a creative director and I haven’t done creative in the way that I did it back then since I left the agency in 2018. I would be a lot more impactful this time because I understand all the impacts downstream of the decisions that the creative makes.

I’ve learned so much. I started the whole thing though by Googling how you raise money for an idea. I had no clue. Going back to Shark Tank, that’s what I thought fundraising was. I had to learn LLCs versus incorporating. You have to figure out equity with your founders and operating agreements. I’ve screwed up a lot of stuff.

You file taxes. You file as an ad. You file as an LLC. That’s a whole thing in and of itself.

I screwed that up one time even with my personal taxes. When we first started, I had a bad CPA. All of a sudden, I got hit with a $12,000 tax bill that I didn’t see coming because I had somebody who wasn’t built for startups. Even the 83(b) election was something we screwed up. It is a document that tells the government when your company is founded that it’s not worth anything. When you start allocating shares to your cofounders, they’re not worth anything. They don’t pay taxes on them. I screwed that up and we had to find ways to fix that. It cost me close to $5,000 or $8,000 in legal fees back in the day to fix these problems.

Nobody even has a real opinion of it either. I was talking to a financial advisor. Nobody wants to give you a strong opinion either way. I’m on a lot of boards. How do you bring somebody? Is it a tax event? Everybody lays out all the ways to do it, but nobody wants to say, “Do it this way,” so you still end up having to pick, correct?

Yeah. Usually, what you’ll find is somebody like you will say, “I’ve been on a lot of boards. This is the way we’ve always done it” It’s one group’s mindset. It’s like, “Your experience is better than my experience. I’ve never done it so we’ll go with what Lance says.” You don’t think about all the things like that when you start a company. People see entrepreneurs and they’re like, “They’re out there and they’re chasing their dream.” It’s like, “I don’t know. There is a lot of that, but there’s also a lot of sight-unseen stuff that you have to plow through.” Figuring out all those mechanics of how to legally operate a business, how to pay people, and all that stuff was hard.

Building Teams: People see entrepreneurs as people who got everything figured out. However, there are also a lot of unseen difficulties along their path that they have to plow through.

I had a guy come to me. He lives down in Tennessee. He went on to form a coaching company. I’ve known him for years. He’d be a great coach. I go, “What’s the reason up until 55 years old that you haven’t started a company?” He goes, “I’m not sure what you mean.” I go, “Why at 55 did you want to start this company? Are you sure you want to do it?” He goes, “It’s a great idea.” I said, “It is. I’m not trying to kill the dream, but you operate it with a net and a ladder that you can see. Now, as an entrepreneur, the ladder goes up where you can’t see. The problem is there’s no net.” You have to be okay with that at some level.

It’s not even a ladder. It’s more like Ninja Warrior.

That’s true. You find a rope while you’re doing it.

The water has crocodiles in it. That’s such a true thing. You read these books. Startup books are so dangerous because everybody wants to sit down and say, “This is how I did it.” With the bias that comes with reflecting on your own past, it’s like, “We did this because it was so obvious we needed to grow this part of the business.”

A lot of times, what I find that those books leave out are all the other decisions that they walked away from to make that one that turned out to be right. Some of my favorite books that don’t leave out those details are That Will Never Work by Marc Randolph, the Founder of Netflix. He talks about everything that they screwed up. It’s a fantastic book. It’s a true look at entrepreneurship. Shoe Dog is another one. The number of times that Nike almost died in the eleventh hour and a check came out of nowhere.

That Will Never Work: The Birth of Netflix and the Amazing Life of an Idea

They’re begging to stay on with Tiger. He’s back to stay on with that one brand. I don’t tell many people this. I collect signatures and notes from entrepreneurs I respect or generals. I have a check from Thomas Edison for $23 that he signed. He is my favorite entrepreneur of all time.

That’s awesome.

The number of times that guy failed. I have a note from P.T. Barnum.  I’m not endorsing what these people did in their life. P.T. Barnum was a racist. There are all kinds of things. I admire his entrepreneurial journey. I’m not endorsing him. You look at the number of times that guy failed. He bought Jumbo the Elephant, the greatest attraction in the world, and walked out on railroad tracks in the middle of the night after all his animals were burning and died from a train crash. He went out of business nine times. I’m with you. I love when people are like, “This is how I effed up. I’m not saying you should go down the same path.”

Sometimes, you read these startup books and it’s like, “We all lived in an apartment together. We ate ramen and then raised $15 million from Andreessen Horowitz.” I’m like, “No one’s journey looks like that.” We all get sucked into the Silicon Valley mindset. That’s all the tech blogs want to talk about. I know that’s where a ton of the funding is, but when you look at the percentages of overall companies, most people’s journey isn’t going to look like that.

I try to remind people of that when I talk about what it was like to start. I told you when I first started answering this question that there are multiple phases of difficulty. The first was figuring that out. I’ve even joked to my cofounder, Zach, that one day, I might get my MBA. He’s like, “Why?” I’m like, “I’d like to see if I’m up to it.” He is like, “You’ve already done it.” There is some truth to that.  I learned stuff. We had a great hire who had an MBA and his brain often would work in ways that mine didn’t. There is some truth to the fact that a lot of MBA programs would even have you go through the process that we did. We had to figure all this out on how to get started. That was one of the harder things about the process of it.

COVID comes in and blows up the whole business model that we spent two years building. In 2020, We were on pace to do our revenue goal for the year, which was going to be $500,000. We came out of our trade show season in January and February 2020. We had almost all of it committed to sales and ad sales. Maybe it was the first three quarters of 2020 when something crazy was committed.

COVID happens. The outdoor industry implodes at first and then erupts. All these advertisers go and hold. First, they all told us in March 2020, “Ad budgets are frozen. We’ll be back in June.” They didn’t come back in June 2020. In fact, a lot of them got laid off. Our contacts were gone. Come August 2020, we were like, “We’re going to run out of money because we’re not going to be able to raise money again because our business model died with COVID.”

We came up with our eCommerce concept that we have and launched it in 90 days from start to finish that year and had it live by November 2020. That was hard.  I didn’t sign up to build an eCommerce company. I didn’t want to build an eCommerce company. At that time, we were looking at it and were like, “We are using all this data to funnel to other companies to sell stuff. Let’s cut out the middle effort and sell it on our platform.” We did that and it has worked really well.

There has been a third phase which has been tough. If you weren’t in startup land, you may not have realized COVID ended up being this big boom. There’s all this money flowing around. You can throw a term sheet in the air and have three investors sign it. We raised in that environment, and we raised a lot of money by Silicon Holler standards.

The fallout that came at the end of ‘22 and ‘23 has been really rough. That’s the third era of what’s been a hard phase for our business of plowing through. We’ve been through one major black swan event but also, in the last few years, I don’t care if the Feds want to call it a recession or not. It’s royally sucked whatever it was. It’s had a lot of impact on startups. I’ve got friends who are closing companies. I’ve got friends who have sold their startups for scraps or for IP. They’ve walked away. We’ve so far been able to avoid that, but it has been tough.

Biggest Challenge Pre-COVID

There’s no doubt. I want to land back where you are. A couple of things that you said, going back to the failure thing. ’m with you in getting your MBA and learning. There’s an entrepreneurial think tank up in Dayton, Ohio called Aileron. If you ever get a chance to check it out, it was founded by Clay Masthile. He’s the guy who sold Iams for $1 billion to Procter & Gamble. It’s his legacy.

I went through this course for presidents. I’m not probably going to top the course, but I went through it. He was really big on privately held companies having a board. I don’t know how your funding goes or anything like that. I never had a board, but I hired a board. I’m on my third iteration of a board. They challenged me so much. You’ll appreciate this. What I did to him is I said, “Anytime I’m selling to you, as a board, tell me you’re selling and call me out on it.”

I had my board meeting not long ago and they are smarter people than I am, or at least collectively, they can duel with me. I’m with you. Go and get an MBA. Go to one of these business schools and learn something new or a different perspective. It’s so critical for an entrepreneur because there are so many obstacles out there. Before you hit COVID, what was the single biggest obstacle that you had to overcome that was a win? Go back to the COVID and the economy thing and how you morphed your business. Was the single biggest thing switching to a platform or your sole merchandise? What was the one before COVID?

Was the question what’s the biggest challenge pre-COPID?

Pre-COVID’s biggest challenge or obstacle, whether it be a marketplace or internal.

The biggest challenge for the business, not for Brad, has been I did all the research. The industry’s ginormous. It’s way bigger than I would’ve ever imagined. I knew all that going in. What I  underestimated was how antiquated our industry would be. We were trying to sell advertising opportunities on this niche social media platform to people who had found out about Facebook groups. They thought this was the latest and greatest thing.

A big part of our sales position is that as an industry, you’re building communities or your business. If you’re acquiring through Facebook, TikTok, and all this stuff, you’re doing it by building glass houses on sand because the social platforms are going to crack down on what we do, which is hunt and fish. That’s played out. Every bit of that is played out.

In 2018, we were having a hard time resonating with these old-school marketers who weren’t digital people to begin with. I underestimated that. It’s been far harder than I ever could have imagined. While a lot of them will nod and say, “Silicon Valley hates us,” they still won’t take any action to do anything with it. I’m really glad we got away from that ad model when we did because we took control of our own destiny.

Going through that, I remember taking it on the chin time and time again back in the day. That was old-school Brad. It was the spray and pray Brad before Sheila beat me down and helped me reshape. Sheila with you guys saw our pitch and was like, “The decks are great. What you guys can do is great. Your approach is not great.” I’m coming in and yelling at everybody about how much we can do for them, but if your audience doesn’t know that they even want that or they don’t want that, you’re wasting your time. We were spending all this time. A lot of it was a bad approach.

Once we started to refine the approach, we did start landing really big deals. We landed deals with companies like Polaris. At that time when we landed that deal, it was a six-figure deal. It was the biggest deal we’d ever done. I remember walking out into the parking lot. We flew out there, me and the four cofounders. We got outside, looked at each other, and went, “We did that.” We were scared that we had signed that like, “We got to go do all this stuff.” It’s a great moment. If we hadn’t listened and built what they wanted and catered to it, we never would’ve gotten that deal.

It goes back to when we’re working with entrepreneurs or salespeople. You set a difference between spray and pray as opposed to taking the scope out, hitting some targets, and tailoring the shot. I almost call it the Amazon effect or the app effect, how to tailor your move to the audience specifically. That’s good.

Biggest Challenge As An Economy Company

The second part of your question was once we become an eComm company, what was the hardest part? I’ll answer that from the business standpoint too. One of the things that comes to mind is how difficult it is to compete with Amazon. It’s been challenging in a lot of ways because Amazon has reshaped consumer expectations.

Sometimes, you order something on Amazon and it takes 5, 6, 7, or 8 days. That does happen every now and then. When it happens with us on your first order, you’re like, “These guys are slow.” Honestly, our average time for delivery is 2.8 days anyway, but the consumer has been trained that Amazon’s going to get it there in 1 day or less or 2 days.

Amazon’s ability to compete on last-mile delivery is unmatched. They’re telling you that they’re fourteen stops away. They’re telling you it’s going to be there within this hour. They’ve got all that mastered. You get a nice little picture of it on your doorstep. They have an app and you can check all of it. It’s super easy. Most companies cannot compete with that logistically. Those are examples.

Competing with these modern giant companies on the eComm side is a lot harder than people think.  A couple of years ago, you could throw up an eComm company, run some Facebook ads, and sell the crap out of whatever it was. It was a much different business to start. The cost per acquisition changed. Apple’s battle with Facebook has been horrendous on companies like us because of what it’s done to jack up the acquisition fees.

Not to mention a number of other challenges we’ve faced in eCommerce through social channels and trying to acquire customers. The biggest thing has been trying to compete as a brand and meet expectations when you have one of the biggest, most valuable companies that’s ever been created that you’re battling against. It’s tough.

Raising Capital And Company Innovations

I can imagine. Off of that, where do you spend your time in terms of leading the company? Where are you spending most of your time? Is it strategy? Is it a focus on winning customers? What does that look like for you?

For the last few years, it has looked a lot different than it probably even should have. It’s been such a hard time for startups. I’ve spent a lot of my time capitalizing the company and figuring out the funding rounds. Everyone I know has been in a pretty similar spot. We’ve all been raising these bridge rounds trying to figure out where we should go.

The markets have shifted a lot of founders to maybe go in directions with their company overall that funding wanted to see versus what the CEO wanted to do. What I mean by that is investors might be more interested in one aspect of your business than another. Even though you think that the one they’re not interested in is where you should go, if you’re not profitable yet, you’re going to go where the investors want to go, right?

Markets have shifted a lot of founders to go in different directions with their company, prioritizing what the team wants to see more than what the CEO wants to do.

Yeah.

I’ve spent a lot of time over the last couple of years staying focused on keeping us capitalized and getting us to where we need to be. One thing about the shift to eComm that sucked is the margin difference was huge. You may make $100,000, but with your margins, depending on the product mix, you may only pocket $20,000 to $30,000 of that as a retailer. It could be less depending on the product mix and where you’re shipping to. With advertising, when we were selling that, if I sold $100,000, I made $100,000. We have operating expenses but the margins are different.

As we’ve shifted into that, it’s reset capital expectations. I’ve spent a lot of time working on that. Putting that aside to give you an answer that maybe the rest of your audience would want to hear, I’m highly involved in our biggest customer. We landed our biggest ad deal ever in 2023. We are working through what that relationship is going to look like for 2024. In my day-to-day, I’m working a lot with that customer directly. I’m the top contact for them. Our director of strategic partnerships manages the relationship in the day-to-day with their team, but I am highly involved in that partnership.

It’s then road mapping. We came up with an opportunity in 2023. We’ve been chased to white label our business ever since we launched our eCommerce product. I haven’t really talked about it, but what we did is we didn’t have millions to spend on inventory. What we did was we went out and said, “How can we sell?” Drop shipping was the answer.

Drop shipping gets a bad rap because people think it’s shipping from China and you’re getting a bunch of cheap crap. That’s not what we do. All of our facilities are in the United States. We ship directly from manufacturers and distributors. We’re probably right at 50 distribution centers that your products can ship from across the country. We’ve built integrations with Shopify, WooCommerce, BigCommerce, and Magento. We can do EDI, which is the API for eCommerce, to simplify that for anybody who doesn’t understand that. We’ve even got some manual integrations with some big brands. We do have the API as well. What it has done for us is we have more than $150 million in inventory that we can sell but I didn’t pay for it. I don’t pay for it until I sell it.

We’ve had a lot of brands approach us and say, “I love what you’ve done. Could you do that for me? I would also like to be able to sell without buying inventory.” They don’t want to go build it because they realize how complicated it is. In 2023, we spun this up as a new product. It’s called Holler Commerce. From December of ‘22, a good portion of my job has been working through, “How are we going to spin up this new product? Is it going to be its own division? Is it going to be under GoWild?” We ultimately decided it needed to be its own brand, so we spun up Holler Commerce.

We landed our first partnership, which is with Outdoors.com. If you go to Outdoors.com, you can see our shop is running their shop. They’re an outdoor gear review website. You can see the shop in action. We’ve since spun out one for creators. Creators can use our product. They can sign up and sell products and make a cut of that money. We give them a cut of the gross profits. It’s a sliding scale instead of a flat commission like Amazon. We’re able to pay more than Amazon on this model.

We’re launching our second enterprise store with Sportsmen’s Alliance, which is a big nonprofit in the hunting and fishing industry. I’ve got a couple of other ones that are really huge opportunities for this. A lot of my job over 2023 has been figuring out how to do this. It sounds really obvious the things we should do, but it took a lot of work to figure this out.

We spent a lot of time reading the Category Pirates book. It’s awesome. I’ve really bought into this whole process of category design and shaping your product. It’s what Salesforce did. Everybody was using software and they became anti-software. They branded this category and they’ve completely owned it. They are Cloud-based software. It’s the same mindset. We came up with this concept of commerce as a service, so social commerce as a service. If you use our subscription, you get access to our products and we give you a cut of what you sell. A huge chunk of my job has been designing that out over the last few years.

That’s interesting. If you frame up where you’re spending your time, it’s raising capital and raising money, which you’re selling the company at all times to position it. You’re focused on your biggest client, which you’re cross-selling yourself into. You become the face of that. The whole road mapping piece with Holler Commerce is still creating another avenue to sell the organization. The hat you’re wearing is that revenue hat. You have that revenue hat on for the organization.

That’s right. My cofounder, Zach, I always give him credit. That guy was our data scientist in the beginning. I told you that was his background. Zach is also our contact for legal. All of our legal documents are flowing through Zach. I’m involved in that, but he’s the guy. He’s running all of our HR and manages all of our finances. He is a CFO. He manages our engineering team. He is wearing a lot of hats too.

It sounds like he’s operating the organization.

That’s right.

Building Teams With Candor

The Chief Operating Officer or COO faces outward. The president looks inwards or the CIO. It sounds like you guys have to be high energy too. I understand that world. I get you. That’s a fascinating story. A few questions for those budding entrepreneurs out there or leaders. With the way you’re operating, a lot of leaders I talked to in established companies are dealing with a lot of the same things. What is your operating philosophy? What is that leadership philosophy? I don’t know. Maybe it’s a cliche. Maybe it’s an analogy. What’s your approach there? I have three more questions to land on the plane.

The book I was thinking of is Play Bigger. It’s an awesome book. To answer your question, I’m going to reference another book called Creativity, Inc. It’s by Ed Catmull. It’s my favorite business book. I would recommend that book before anything. I get asked a lot by people like, “How big does your team need to be before you start thinking about culture?” I would argue if you’re in a position of leadership, you should buy the book. It doesn’t matter how big your team is. If it’s a team of two, you still need the book.

Creativity, Inc.: Overcoming the Unseen Forces That Stand in the Way of True Inspiration

Even if you’re founding a company and it’s going to be you for a while, I still think you should read that book because it’s going to impact how you work with your contractors. It’s going to impact how you work with your vendors. I haven’t re-read it in a couple of years. I’m a big fan of the core tenets of it. It changed how I led my team in advertising. That book teaches you to build teams on the basis of candor.

Teams that have candor, can speak up without feeling intimidated, and they’re not worried about their boss firing them for disagreeing with them tend to solve problems a lot faster than teams who stay in their own lane. That’s not my job. They only take care of the task in front of them that their boss is asking them about. They don’t raise red flags when they see them. If you have a team that is empowered to speak up, they will outperform any other team that’s not doing that every time.

If you have an empowered team who have the courage to speak up, they will outperform any other team.

Ed Catmull has this great quote where he says if you hand a good idea to a great team, they’ll make it great. They’ll always push it further. This tenet, this single thing that I’m talking about, is the reason that Pixar has had nearly no duds in the history of 30 years of making movies. It was not long ago that they started to come out with some films that were not absolute blockbuster hits. Some of that has been leadership change. I would first recommend people focus on their culture. It sounds fluffy. It sounds like, “You would put culture over unit economics and all the business mechanics?” The problems in all those other areas will not come to light, at least not as well, if your team does not operate well together.

Another great book that backs this up is The Culture Code by David Coyle. He focuses on multiple types of teams. The Pixar team is one of the ones they focus on as well as Navy SEALs. They talk about a gang of thieves that worked really well together. They even compare this to how kindergartners work, which is amazing.

The Culture Code: The Secrets of Highly Successful Groups

Kindergartners, if they have to solve a problem, don’t come in and say, “Lance, you’re going to be in charge, Timmy, Stevie, and Bobby, you’re going to answer to Lance. You guys got to have a deadline.” They start solving the problem. That’s what all these other great teams do too. They move in unison. That’s how they draw a comparison to the SEALs. The SEALs move as one unit. They all know how each other is going to operate.

When I say I’ve spent two years fundraising, I never worried that my team wasn’t moving towards what we wanted to do because they always know what we’re working towards. We meet once every two weeks in an all-hands and lay out everything for them. I told you I’ve been deal-making with a client. They raised the flag. They’re like, “We haven’t talked about the next steps of the roadmap in a while. We’re getting to the end of the one you guys drew up. You got to tell us what you want us working on.” They’re not afraid to tell me that I’ve fallen down on my job and I need to give them better feedback. It all boils down to what Creativity, Inc. is about. That’s my number one thing for anybody before they do anything. You have to get your culture right.

I agree. The culture you’re talking about is constructive tension. It’s not artificial harmony. It’s constructive tension. You’re going to get things done with friction a lot of times.

I give feedback all the time. We do 90-day reviews with our teammates and then we go into annual reviews. We also do one-on-ones with them all the time. Anybody that comes here and isn’t speaking up, their feedback, more than the code they’re writing, the marketing they’re doing, or whatever, is like, “I’m not hearing from you. You have to speak up. I know you know we’re doing something wrong or we could be doing something better. You got to speak up in meetings.”

Our team is so bought into that that if we get somebody like that who’s really talented but still isn’t vocal enough, when we get into those 90-day, 100-day, or those 1-year reviews, their teammates will give them that feedback. It’s like, “I want to hear from you. I want you to tell us when we’re screwing up.” That’s so great when you have teammates who collectively are advocating for that conflict. They want to hear where they can improve and be more efficient.

Brad’s Idea Of Success

People keep a score. We’re programmed to know where we stand, and that’s so important. People don’t value what they can’t compare or contrast. That score and that feedback is what does it. I have a couple of last questions. I love your story. I love the intensity too. If intensity is the force by which we do things, I’ll feel it. If you had to give advice to a 6, 7, or 8-year-old and you’re sitting on the edge of a dock with the 6, 7, or 8-year-old, whether it’s your own child, niece, or nephew and they said, “Uncle Brad, what does it mean to be successful?” What would you tell that 6, 7, or 8-year-old in words they can understand?

This is what comes to mind. I did not prepare. Lance didn’t give me a heads-up on this one. In my mind, it is, “Success would be when I’m old like your great grandma, Gigi. When I’m old like her, I want to be able to look back and have very few regrets on things I didn’t do.” To me, you’ve chased the things you want to do and you didn’t hold back and made opportunities for yourself. To me, I don’t want to have any regrets about passing up any opportunity that I was passionate about. To me, that’s successful.

I’ve thought a lot about this. There’s never a dollar amount. I’ve read enough about this. I think of that Jim Carrey quote where he says, “I wish the whole world could make all the money that they think they deserve so they could realize that it’s not what they thought.” I’ve matured enough, and maybe my kids have helped accelerate this for me, to realize that money up to a certain point is life-changing.

To me, that’s elevating you out of poverty. That’s keeping you from living paycheck to paycheck. After a certain point, it, if anything, can bring in more problems. I think too much about legacy. Maybe this is because I’m such a big Alexander Hamilton fan. That’s one of my favorite business books. You mentioned some of these old-school guys of yours. The number of things he founded blows my mind. I do love the musical.

I’m 100% with you on legacy though. My board asks me every freaking meeting, “What would you sell the company for?” I’m like, “It’s so far removed because it’s about legacy. It’s about the people that work here. It could be about my kids.” I’d rather this be if there was a McKinsey at some time and he doesn’t exist anymore. I’m with you. I think about that all the time. Money follows. It doesn’t necessarily lead, at least that’s how I feel about it.

I think about that a lot. I was talking to one of my mentors and an investor. I don’t think I’m done with 5 years or 10 years down the road or whenever my time at GoWild is done. I know this will be the first successful phase. The whole company could go belly up tomorrow or we could sell for that $100 million. No matter what, I’ll consider this my first successful phase and my part of the legacy. I know I’ve got a lot more to do. I’d drive my wife nuts if I did sell for those big checks and retired. She would be like, “You have to go do something else even if it’s selling entrance door to door. You got to get away from them.” High energy would get on her nerves. I think about it a lot.

You probably heard the chip on my shoulder towards Silicon Valley earlier. I’m from Southeastern Kentucky. I grew up in Appalachia. I’m in a state that consistently ranks in the bottom twelve of everything. I’m looking twenty years down the road like, “How do I get to where I can have philanthropic value here? How can I mentor here to bring more value to our state?” That’s the long-term legacy for me and what I want to be able to do. I’m nowhere near there yet. The most I can do is give time.

I try to do a lot of mentorship with other entrepreneurs. For me, the best way I can do that is through people who started their company. I cannot tell you how to exit a company or how to maximize that value. I’ve never done that. What I have done is raise $8 million in this very immature ecosystem here in Kentucky. I’ve raised in tough environments. I’ve raised through COVID. I’ve raised post-COVID. I’ve raised pre-COVID. In that amount of time, I’ve figured out how to do a lot of stuff. If I can help someone even by, “File your frigging 83(b) election. Around here, we don’t have great startup attorneys. They may not even tell you about this, but I’m going to save you $5,000 down the road,” that kind of stuff is rewarding.

It’s that giving back piece too in your future boards and all kinds of things where you can be helping people. I agree. This is the last question. Ready?

Yes.

You can answer this either way. I’m going to pose it two ways before I bring your brand down for a landing. You answered my question on what book to read and what book to gift. I’m going to say Creativity, Inc. That’s the one, right?

Yeah. I could list off twelve more.

Sales And Funeral Song

You sold me on it too. The Culture Code, I went into it. I know I have Creativity, Inc. that I haven’t picked up. It’s a shame I haven’t. I’m all over that. This is the last question. At your funeral, because you went to legacy, what song do you want to be played at your funeral? What’s your sales song that plays in your head? Go.

I wasn’t ready for the funeral, but I could answer the sales song immediately. I can give you the sales song immediately. It is Born of a Broken Man by Rage Against the Machine. My car is old enough to where I have the flash drive I can put into it. That song is on there. I have played that song countless times to hype myself up for investor pitches.

I remember in one of my first big pitches I did, I was still trying to figure out what I was doing. I sat out in the car. It was July. The sun was baking. It was hot. It was all good out. I even remember that I had boots on. It was leather boots I shouldn’t have worn that day because my feet were already sweating. I got there 30 minutes early because I was so intent on driving across town and being early. I sat in my car and played that song on repeat to get myself hyped up. It also weirdly helps me burn off negative energy. I love that song. Was the other one at my funeral?

Yeah, at your funeral. Sometimes, it’s the same one.

It’s not Rage Against the Machine at my funeral. The song that comes to mind is Follow You to Virgie by Tyler Childers. I love Tower Childers. I’ve been going to that guy’s show since before anybody knew about him. I’m a Kentucky guy through and through. He used to open up for one of my friend’s bands. He would play in these basement bars and is now selling out stadiums across the world.

I love that.

There’s an entrepreneurial journey there with him. I love that song. I don’t think it was his grandmother. I can’t remember exactly if it’s his friend’s grandmother who died, but the song’s about reflecting on her life and all the things that she taught them. He’s trying to live a good life to impress her even though she’s up singing. That one comes to mind. I probably would’ve had a different choice if I thought more about it, but the Rage one is easy. That Rage Against the Machine song, if I have to burn negative energy, I’m queuing that one up.

Closing Words

For most successful people I know, it takes them two seconds to get that sales song and that business song that dials it in. I can’t tell you how much I appreciate your time and all the insight. You’re a lifelong learner. Your ability to work in the future and drive that life of the business, which is revenue, and focusing on the future and seeing around the corner, I hear it here. Your candor is there. I interview a lot of people. Sometimes, there’s an act that goes on there. There’s no act here with you.

I always say I’m not smart enough to lie. I would forget what I said.

I’m with you there. I love the candor. Thanks so much for being on. I appreciate it.

Thanks for having me. This was fun.

Important Links

Brad Luttrell GoWild LinkedIn – Brad Lutrell Moby Dick Meditations That Will Never Work Shoe Dog Outdoors.com Play Bigger Creativity, Inc The Culture Code Alexander Hamilton

About Brad Luttrell

Brad Luttrell was an award-winning writer, photographer and creative director, but quit his career in advertising to chase his dream of building a community. He’s now the Cofounder, CEO, of GoWild, a social commerce platform for outdoor enthusiasts.

Luttrell is from a family of coal miners in Appalachia, where he grew up. After winning college journalism’s most prestigious award, he graduated from the University of Kentucky and worked as a photographer for several years, founding a wedding photo agency. He eventually started a career in advertising, working in social media for a small ad agency. Luttrell was fired from the agency when the company found out about his side hustle, a marketing analytics company. After getting canned, Luttrell became a copywriter at a competing firm, where he worked his way up from copywriter to Creative Director in three years.

Luttrell founded another side hustle, GoWild, while working for the agency. In 2018, he went full time with his startup. Today the company is building its community, and scaling its latest product, Holler Commerce, which provides commerce as a service to publishers and creators.

Prepare for Impact: Steps to Sales Success with Ryan and Chad Estis

Are you looking to separate yourself from the pack? Then you have to start preparing for impact as leadership opportunities come your way. In this first episode of Season 3 of Against the Sales Odds, Lance Tyson talks with Ryan Estis and Chad Estis about growing into their current roles along with their leadership philosophies. Ryan and Chad recently released Prepare for Impact: Driving Growth and Serving Others through the Principles of Human-Centered Leadership, where they guide us through the thirty steps that have helped them (and many others) throughout their careers. Along with these thirty steps, Ryan and Chad also have nine additional steps that help leaders show up for their teams. If you are a young business professional, a seasoned sales vet, or a leader, this is a must-listen and must-read!

Listen to the podcast here

Prepare For Impact: Crucial Steps To Sales Success And Leadership With Ryan And Chad Estis

Are You Looking To Separate Yourself From The Pack?

I’m excited about this episode. I have a good partner and friend on this show, Chad Estis, the EVP of the Dallas Cowboys, and his brother Ryan Estis, who’s the Founder of ImpactEleven and a keynote speaker. Guys, I’m excited you’re here. I appreciate it.

Thanks for having us.

Why we’re here, Chad, this is your second round of the show. You were on the very inaugural episode of this thing. This is the second time you’re back. Ryan, this is your first time. I’m probably as excited about this episode as any because why we’re here is you both put together a book called Prepare for Impact: Driving Growth And Serving Others Through Principles And Human-Centered Leadership. I have the book in front of me here. Thinking about your careers at this point and you both are in very different businesses, why together and why this book?

We’re in different businesses but our careers have run a pretty parallel track. We both started in entry-level sales positions, struggled mightily at first, defied the odds, and began to have some success. I went first. I’m a couple of years older than Chad. When you have some success in selling, what does a company do? They promoted you into management and leadership. We had to figure out an entirely new job. That journey that we took in separate industries, but we very much took it together. There was a lot of intersection, which I’m sure we’ll talk about as we get into the discussion, but that precipitated the why. Part of it too was I gave Chad a little hand at the onset of his career a little boost. That kicked off I think why we ended up working on the project.

Before we hop over to Chad, your struggles in sales. We talked a little bit early in both of our careers, what industry did you start selling in and what did you go up against right away?

I worked in advertising. It was an entry-level position. I was covering Minnesota, North and South Dakota. I literally went 9 or 10 months and hadn’t made a sale. I received very little training and development. It was a couple of days at corporate. I sat through one demo with my manager and was given a list of leads and said it was good luck. I was 22 years old. I wanted to succeed, but I had no skill, no competency. I caught a break. I ended up by accident at a Jim Rohn seminar. He exposed me to ideas, insight, wisdom, and sales best practices that I hadn’t previously been exposed to.

That started my learning journey. From Jim Rohn, I bought every book on tape and on professional selling that I could get my hands on. I became a student of the craft. That was the unlock for me. I started to have some success. Two or three years later, when Chad hit the same brick wall out of the gate, I was able to offer some support and counsel to get him started.

I want to quote Chad’s interview from when he first came on this. He said he’s working for the Cavs. He told his whole world that he was going to succeed in sales with the Cleveland Cavaliers. This is Cleveland Cavaliers, pre-LeBron blue seats. I asked him, “Where were you on the board?” He goes, “I was a solid 5, 6, or 7 on the board at one point.” What was your struggle on sales, Chad, coming off of that comment from your last interview?

I got into sales only because people suggested that was a path to get into the industry, which happens to a lot of people in sports. I didn’t know what I was getting into. I had no idea if I’d be good at it or if I had the skills. I came to find out I was very uncomfortable with it. I was completely out of my comfort zone. I didn’t like picking up the phone. I wasn’t comfortable talking to people. I didn’t think I was saying the right things. I was second-guessing myself. Quite honestly, I created some anxiety and then that led to a lack of success, which led to fear of my job, career, and the whole thing. Anybody starting out in their career can get into a quick downward spiral if it’s not going well and you don’t have the proper support around you.

I had nothing against the people there when I started, but back then in ticket sales and sports, it was how it went. They throw you on the phones and sink or swim. I reached out to Ryan and the story he shared with you was to my benefit, his struggles, then him finding a route and some learning and one of the 30 steps, which is self-education, which we both preach to people now in a big way. He shared his wisdom with me in the form of a written document called 30 Steps, which is the first half of the book we put together, which is a valuable guide to life, but certainly sales, early-level sales, and early-level career. It framed up some things for me. It’s not the ultimate solution, but it gave me a mindset to approach my day. That was really helpful.

That’s a bit of the story of why we did a book together because I thought those 30 steps were valuable. I then used them when I got into leadership with all the people I was hiring into the industry. It became, in the group of people that have worked at the Tampa Bay Lightning, the Pistons, the Lightning, the Calves, and the Cowboys and Legends, a pretty familiar document that we’ve often trained around. It’s helped a lot of people. Certainly, that’s something he gifted to me 30 years ago. The thought to put it in a book and gift it now to others was something that we thought would be pretty cool to do together.

Prepare for Impact: Driving Growth and Serving Others through the Principles of Human-Centered Leadership

As I know you both, and Ryan, listening to you speak and your messaging, I’m going to flip it back to you. Anytime I listen to your messaging about leadership, sales, and how you market, there’s always a human factor to it. It never comes off of that. There’s always that human connection inside it. Whether it’s people skills or understanding people, it never comes out of the message. Chad, what I know about you as a leader, and you both alluded to it, and Ryan you have this too, is this complete candor like, “I’m human.”

I think that creates loyalty. I know that’s created my connection with both of you and Chad, all the business we do together is this human-centered piece of it. Talk about that for a minute because I think you both have zero issues. I do a lot of these interviews where people posture. They do a rags-to-riches thing. You guys don’t play that card. You play like, “I’m human. The people I work with are human.” As I read the book and went through it, the human was never disconnected. Ryan, talk to that a little bit about your side of the business and your view of the world.

My core philosophy is people first and humans at the center of everything you do. The second half of the book is a thesis on what we’re calling Human-Centered Leadership, which is my perspective, certainly the most effective way to lead in a host pandemic, constantly changing world. Candor is part of that. We unpack nine tactics in the second half of the book that I did a good job of describing human-centered leadership.

Honestly, even from a sales perspective, you have to put the customer at the center of everything you do. From my perspective, the best salespeople in the world are simply helping customers make the best decisions. That’s what we do for a living. We help people and we help them make decisions that are good for them and their business.

If you think of it that way, and then in terms of leadership, you think about your role to serve and to guide others and to help others become the best they’re capable of being. It’s all about the people. I know that’s counter to a thesis. I’m not anti-technology, automation, machine learning, or artificial intelligence. In fact, I think those are wonderful tools that can make us more effective and efficient, but at the end of the day, I think the best leaders in the world have great connections and relationships with people.

The best leaders in the world have great connections and relationships with people.

I want to bring that a step further because I think it’s interesting. With that EQ, Emotional Intelligence, I think Stephen Covey took his first three principles in The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People, I would say those last nine line up well, it’s all dealing with you as a human, but first things first be proactive. Begin with the end of mind, that’s all inner centered. Chad, if we flip it over to your leadership, and when I ask people and I build models out and I say, “Who knows Chad and what is he known for?” It’s an immense loyalty thing. When you look at the people that work for you, they work for years, people have a lot of opportunities. Talk about your human-centered philosophy around how you lead and create that loyalty factor.

First of all, it’s born out of my own experiences. A lot of our philosophies are born out of the experience we have. When I was younger in my career, I had people mentoring me and helping me. It stood out to me. Those people are willing to spend some time, show personal interest, and invest in me. How much that meant to me created loyalty. Those are the people that I admired and wanted to follow and emulate. When I got an opportunity to have my own team, one of my first thoughts was, “If I genuinely show these people I’m going to help them with things that are important to them, 1) Being successful in the job, investing time in that and 2) Their career development, which when I was young, figuring out how to navigate a career was important to me,” I thought I had something to offer and give back around that.

That became the real foundation for the philosophy. It was to spend enough time with someone to understand what their goals and objectives are to then use my resources to help guide them to those objectives. I’m talking about career objectives beyond the task of generating revenue, selling tickets, or whatever it was at the time, a couple of things would happen.

I could hire more talented people because people would want to be a part of something like that. I could develop incredible loyalty because people appreciated what I was investing back in them. It would help with the culture overall of the office, which means we’d be more successful at the goals and objectives that were set out for us. The last thing would be, which I don’t know if I knew at the early stage but I certainly know now, it would be by far the most rewarding part of my career. It gave me a sense of purpose.

Generating revenue, making owners money, or achieving results in business is nice. That’ll go away someday when you’re not doing it anymore. You move on to something else, but the relationships and the friendships that have developed by putting that philosophy first gave me a lot of purpose and reward. It all adds up. I don’t find it to be that difficult. I think it’s natural. As we know, unfortunately, in business it’s not as prevalent as we’d like it to be.

You work for owners as if you take the fandom out of sports. My family is from Philly. They always get agitated when I post anything about the Dallas Cowboys. I have changed colors or something. You don’t know their business very well because I think of how many people have stayed there for decades and the loyalty that’s created. I think you’re in an environment of that. This is a weird thing I have when I read books. I always go to chapter seven. Every book I ever read, I go there. Most books have a chapter seven.

I’ve done this before. I give these value cards out and I have people do a deduction exercise and there are about 35 values. For about 10 minutes, I stress a group and they have to eliminate with these cards and these definitions what their values, who they are, and not who they want to be. Every time I do it for myself, I land on legacy. Leave a legacy. I open up to your chapter seven, Leaving A Legacy.

I’m curious since you and I are probably almost the same age, I’m going to ask you first, Ryan. I have three brothers. I had a hard relationship with one of my brothers and your brother challenged me to fix it. I did and he got at me. I have three brothers. We’re in very different spots and we have very different philosophies. It doesn’t come by accident that you guys are on the same page with certain things and eerily have philosophies that came from somewhere. Ryan, speak to that.

The truth is we went on this journey together. Chad and I had an inflection point when we grew up. We shared a bedroom. We didn’t get along great. We unpacked some of this in the book, but we ended up at the same college together and became friends. Ultimately, when I left and moved on with my career when he reached out for support, I dropped everything. I said, “I got you.

I got through my first year where I was struggling and thought I was going to get fired and I know what you need to do. The truth is, when I sat down to offer support to Chad, I never thought beyond that. I was just trying to help my brother. The fact that these ideas came through to support him and he thought enough of them to take him and use him throughout his career ultimately became the foundation of the book. We’ve made a commitment to support each other.

Since we graduated from college, we’ve never lived in the same city, but we’ve remained incredibly close. If I ever needed anything or I was struggling, he’d be my first phone call and I hope I’d be his. We went on these parallel career tracks. We were both sales guys, who got promoted into management, different industries, but we constantly were talking about what worked, and what didn’t, and ultimately I think we got to a place where it was fun to put that leadership philosophy together.

It’s necessary. Employee satisfaction is plummeting. It’s worse today than it was in the pandemic. Many people are overwhelmed, burned out, stressed, and unhappy in their jobs. People talked about The Great Resignation and the pandemic. I said, “That’s a leadership crisis. That’s the problem.” The second half of the book integrates our shared philosophy to solve for that.

The great resignation in the pandemic is a leadership crisis.

I’m curious. I never asked either of you this, but now you made me think of it. There’s something that you both were taught by somebody. I got to meet your mom. Ryan, you posted some pictures on Facebook that you were back home in Aurora. I saw that. There was something you guys were taught by the time you got to middle school that you just got to share it. I need to know who was it, what was it, and what was the lesson. I’m not a psychologist by any stretch of the imagination, but I’m curious because you don’t get on parallel success paths like this without an underlying foundation somewhere. Go Ryan and I’ll come back to Chad because something wrote this book and it’s deep.

If it was something all the way back then, it was very high expectations were placed on us. Our parents were school teachers. They didn’t know a thing about business. Neither did we until we got into it.

It is interesting. When I heard both your parents were school teachers, I was like, “Something went on there,” so expectations.

In terms of the expectation, the bar kept moving up. In some ways, you could never meet or fulfill them. At times, that was hard. Growing up in our house wasn’t easy. Our father was hard on both of us, but there probably is something about what you talked about. You had something to prove and you could never quite get to that place of acceptance. That instilled a drive in both of us that was pretty relentless.

You can feel that in the book. I read it from end to end. The expectations of self are there, “I expect more from you and the people we work with.” It’s the underlying principle, but you can feel it moves from principle to principle.

The other thing around that is as much as I love Chad and he’s my brother and I do everything for him, there’s a competitive energy between us too. I don’t think he was content with watching me go off and have some successful business career when he sat over there and struggled. in his mind, “If he could figure it out, I could figure it out.” There was something about that with both of us. We celebrate the hell out of each other, root for each other, and support each other, but there’s also a little bit of competitive sibling energy there that is healthy in that way.

Expectations and competitiveness. Chad, talk to that question.

Our dad was part of that. I had to put it in a quick story. I remember I became the VP of sales at the Cavs. I called my parents to tell them. My dad’s first comment was, “What’s the step above that?” I said, “I’m reporting to the president.” He goes, “How do you become that?” It was a congrats first or I mean it could be that aggressive and biting. There’s no doubt we talked about this at Christmas after a bunch of wine, the pros and cons of father that you could never appease. There’s something there. There’s always feeling like you have to prove yourself. It is an energy that can lead to some success. That’s there.

When I think about our mom and her dedication to giving, being a teacher, education, and watching that from a front-row seat gives me a desire. In some ways, we’re both teachers in a certain way. Ryan is doing it on a big stage. I’m doing it a little more one-on-one with people that work for me. You’re trying to help people grow. Being around what I think is one of the greatest teachers that I have ever seen, which is our mom, Phyllis has to have something to do with a little bit of the desire to give back and be a teacher in some form.

Maybe a little combo of both then I’ll second Ryan’s comments about competition. We wrote about it in the book a little bit. It’s interesting how naive we were in our twenties. With the internet, anybody can look some stuff up and have a lot more information about what’s going on in the world. I laughed because this is a true story. I had a Master’s degree graduating from college. Someone said, “Do you want to work in business?” At that point, it was the sports business. If someone had then said what does that mean and what do people do when they go into that office building, I would have been in trouble.

I didn’t understand the functions of business. I thought I wanted to put a suit on, have a briefcase, and walk into an office building. Unfortunately, college, and we could talk about curriculum, it didn’t get you much further. To then be in the world growing up in a medium-income to public teacher household and not traveling much. I mean we didn’t get out of Ohio much at all and you didn’t know what was going on. We’d drive around to another town and see some big houses and I’d be like, “I wonder what those people do.” We were very naive but with a competitive desire to figure it out. That is a big part of it.

There’s no doubt. I even think back to when Ryan, I first met you, I remember the office I was sitting in and you peppered me with questions. You were going to figure out that business like you were ready to go. I think about that preparedness. As much in people as I interview and inside sports, outside sports speakers, and things like that, I’ve never taken from either of you an unrealistic expectation with a raising of expectations.

I can’t speak to anybody’s pressure they put on themselves. Dr. Seuss said, “You’ll play lonely games to games you can’t win because they’ll be against you.” I can’t speak to that. I don’t like to let myself down very often. That’s a different game. I don’t think when people listen to either of you, it’s unrealistic. I go back to that legacy thing. Chad, I’m going to start with you and Ryan coming to you and I want to tie this back to the book. What is your core leadership philosophy? Without quoting the book at this point, I have a reason I want to do it this way. What’s that core leadership philosophy in two sentences for yourself?

I want to serve the people that are on my team. I want to help them achieve their goals, objectives, and dreams.

That requires you to get to know people. You have to spend too much time.

You cannot have surface relationships with people and accomplish that. Obviously, this is written in the book, but I’m a big believer that a significant percentage of your time should be spent talking to your people about those things. That’s part of the job. Some of the demands that we place on leaders of work product take them far away from that.

Prepare For Impact: As a leader, a significant percentage of your time should be spent talking to your people.

The last thing they’re doing is spending time with their people. If you have it set up right and you have to be in an organization that can support that, I am here with the Jones family and the way they’ve set this up, but I’m in a position where I can spend a significant amount of time with my people on understanding what their issues are, what they’re dealing with, and how they can best achieve what they’re trying to do both personally and professionally. I wouldn’t want to do it any other way than to develop personal relationships with the people on my team to the extent that they’re willing and interested in that as well.

Don’t shortchange yourself there. I don’t think you behave any differently than you did when you were running the Cavs. I don’t see a difference there. You always spend time with people.

I’ll tell you one thing. I don’t think I’d worked very long at a place that had such demands on me and I did not have the ability to do that. That’s probably became, at some point, a principled aspect of how I want to operate. By the way, there have been times when I’ve had very tough demands on my time. I’ve often said, “If you want to do it this way, then be prepared to have early morning coffees, use your lunches with people, and meet people after work.” Some of this stuff can happen on the off hours. If you’re that committed to that, then you’re willing to do that. That’s something I’ve always done.

You’re the person who taught me, “How many people are going to be at your funeral? That’s the key to success.” That’s that piece. Ryan, how about you?

Leadership philosophy in 1 or 2 sentences. We have an operating principle at ImpactEleven. It’s leave it better than you found it. It’s one of my favorites. For me, it applies to people. If you could sum up a philosophy, leave people better than you found them. That’s part and parcel of human-centered leadership. People are going to invest their time and talent with you. Hopefully, they become more of who they’re capable of being.

Prepare For Impact: Leave people better than you found them.

It is that investment. I echo Chad’s sentiment about time. I was reading this statistic that over 70% of managers and leaders identify with being burned out. When I’ve talked to teams or management teams about human-centered investment that takes, the pushback I immediately get is why I don’t have time for that. That’s a real thing. That’s not realistic in my world. I wouldn’t have time to do that one.

You got done hearing Chad say something I agree with, but that’s the job. When you look at where we are nowadays in terms of engagement, employee satisfaction, and quit rates, I mean leaders have to orient themselves toward that investment of time. Some of it is leadership development. Not every job is leadership job structured the right way. Not every leader is oriented or developed. That might come naturally to Chad, but it doesn’t for everybody. Certainly, the candor part that you mentioned earlier doesn’t come naturally for most people. It’s something that you have to cultivate.

People don’t air to constructive tension. They air to some level of backing off. They don’t like the Candor at all. The other thing is what you said about taking time with people, that’s a heavy investment. If you want to understand what motivates people, you have to spend a lot of time with them. That’s not urgent but important. Most people are caught up in deadlines. You got to see your job for what it is. It’s to get results and develop people or develop people and get results. It’s literally both.

I’m going to bring this back and Ryan, let’s start with you here. When you look at these 31 principles, what’s the hardest one? There’s a human theme to it. If you had to pick one that says, “I think this is hard,” or maybe it’s a combination of a couple of “This one’s hard. This takes a lot of time. This takes blueprinting. This does not come naturally,” what is it? If you need time to think about that, Chad, flip it over.

My answer is the combo. I’m glad you gave me room for that because it’s the balancing of the effort that’s required to get results and the education that’s required to continue to stay relevant, develop yourself, and advance your skill and competency. Balancing those two things, putting forth the energy, effort, and commitment that’s required to drive a real result, but also to continue learning, growing, and advancing.

The world is changing so fast. if you’re not investing in yourself, you’re going to fall behind. I think balancing those two things, given the demands that we’re under and the pressure of life. That’s why you see people burned out, exhausted, and overwhelmed. I’m going to ask people, “You got to invest five hours a week and continued growth and self-development.” That seems like a lot and it’s a challenge, but managing that challenge is ultimately what’s required.

If you’re not investing in yourself today, you’re going to fall behind.

I think so much information comes easily to people. They don’t know the difference between learning something and training it, teaching yourself a skill, and dealing with that. I would say the way you even talk about that balance of getting a result, most people struggle with even the process of how to plan. They plan differently every single time. they don’t blueprint and have that vision. Chad, how about you?

I won’t point to one because of the 30 steps, some are overarching life type of things. Some are focused on skills and focal points. What I like to think about them is once you read them and adjust them the first time, then it’s a document that would be good to go back to occasionally, once a quarter, maybe once a month. You don’t have to read through them all. You could go down the list of the 30 steps and you do a self-check. Your own mind will tell yourself, “I haven’t been doing much of that. I need to do better at this. I haven’t sent any notes out, follow-up notes, or follow-through. I’ve been practicing my pitch enough. I haven’t been working out enough. I started a relationship with a mentor but dropped off, maybe I should pick that back up.”

Your own motivated self is going to say, “I need to focus on a few of these things a little more.” That’s it. It’s a great overall all-encompassing like, “How am I approaching my work life?” That’s the tool. If you’re struggling, it can get you back on track. It can give you some things that immediately can put into play that help you start to approach your day differently.

Back when I was struggling, effort wasn’t a problem. My skillset was a real problem. The step of self-education to learn the skills more and practice them, and then approaching the day a little differently became mentally a much better approach for me. It can turn around the struggle a little bit or if you’re not struggling, if you’re feeling very confident and having success, it can help you decide, “Do I have a few holes in my game that I need to brush up on?” That’s what I think is a great self-check. That can be used for the longest time. Individually, they can be different for different people.

There’s no doubt like chapter six and this is where I took most of the notes. Nine Tactics on being a more human-centered leader, which is a subtitle of the book. You guys are quoted saying that 20% of employees that their leader takes an active role in helping them develop their full potential. There’s a culture of learning. Two-thirds of employees believe their management doesn’t care about them at a personal level, then there’s a theme and I have circles meet people where they are.

If I heard what both of you said, like Ryan and especially the burnout, and Chad you brought it up, if you’re focused on getting a result and you don’t see your people are there to get your result because you’re going to work through them to get a result. If you only drive the result, you lose the people. It takes so much time to understand where they have to go. I think that whole middle piece that we keep referring to, and Ryan you said those last nine principles too, that’s where you got to dive in. That’s where what stood out to me is where the legacy comes out. You build the legacy through the people, not through yourself. It goes back to how many people are going to come. How many people are you going to have?

I talked about this, but I like to talk about it. The things that prevent you from being a human-centered leader are ego and low self-esteem. I would tend to think we’re talking about the whole funeral analogy. People who have high egos and low self-esteem probably have fewer people showing up for them. I think you pointed out a couple of things. If you get to know people personally and you invest in the things that are important to them and they genuinely believe you have their best interests at heart, that gets the best result, in my opinion.

I feel like I’ve seen that plague right out in front of my eyes. By the way, it allows you to hire a more talented team because work gets out. People are like, “You know what, that’s a good place to work. The culture’s good, they’re developing talent, encouraging people to grow their careers, whether it’s in the company or out.” Once that becomes a known thing, you have people swarming to join the team. You have your pick. It all comes full circle. We see a lot of people with high ego and low self-esteem. Let those things interfere with everything that we’re talking about.

It’s a mirror as opposed to a window. As what you’re saying, I’m looking out the window. You got to look and see the people and not see yourself. Ryan, go ahead.

When he gets into this idea of ego and low self-esteem, being an effective leader requires some measure of self-awareness. Doing some real internal self-inspection, holding the mirror up to yourself, and understanding where your ego, fear, protectionism, low self-esteem, or lack of confidence get in the way. Two of the principles in chapter six are vulnerability in creating psychological safety. You can’t.

That starts with you. Leaders have to go first. You’re not going to create safety with a leader who’s not vulnerable, open, honest, and whom you can trust. Some of that starts inside of the manager or leader. I always say a great leader would be improving their confidence and their humility simultaneously. If you’re doing that, you can get your ego and low self-esteem out of the way because it isn’t about you. It’s about helping other people become the best they’re capable of being. That’s leadership.

The things that prevent you from being a human-centered leader are ego and low self-esteem.

There’s no doubt. It’s that Greek mirror or ethos, pathos logo. You need to know what that is in yourself. I would sum this up and I’d like some final thoughts from both of you because I looked at the book and the things you’re asking to do. I don’t think they go as far as common sense because the combination that you put in these principles is a pathway.

Chad, you’ve always taught me about pathways. You’ve taught about launching and celebrating things. That’s all critical. That’s having a vision. Ryan, what you’ve done for me is you got to have that vision for yourself first. If you don’t know where you’re going and what you are all about. As you said, in order to have humility, candor, and vulnerability, you have to be okay, but then if you flip back to what you’ve been saying, Chad, you also have to have that much of a connection with people that you can show your vulnerability.

What I think about a lot of times is this motivation that you’re talking about. In the word motivation, moti means from within. That’s what it means. It’s not outward, it’s inward, and you never can motivate people if you can only understand it. The key with these principles, and this has been a blueprint for every successful company that I know you’ve been involved with, Chad since I have my original copy that you launched at the Cowboys. I have my binder downstairs, I saw it with a low black binder, then Ryan, everything I know that you’ve talked about, and then the connection here. Final thoughts. What is the biggest thing or message you’d like to send about this book as we send you both on your way? What’s that message?

My perspective, when I was trying to figure things out and Ryan sent me the 30 steps, and that helped get me guided in a good direction, then I started reading books about sales and that helped me. Certainly, you’ve taught me more about sales than anybody. There’s this constant learning, then there were books that influenced my approach to leadership. I didn’t know what leader I would be or what the right approach was. I was experiencing leadership from other people. Frank Pacetta wrote Don’t Fire Them, Fire Them Up with his quotes on the front of the book. It was a heavily influential moment for me when I read his book. It was all these learnings that helped mold how I wanted to be when I showed up in the office to get the result I wanted. Meaning the result of having it be a great place to show up every day.

I’m a firm believer that if you’re going to spend 8 to 10 hours in a place around a bunch of people, that should be good, basic, and simple. Let’s pair it right down to that. It’d be nice if that was a place where you felt comfortable and safe. You were around people you enjoy. You accomplished and celebrated goals and objectives together, where you were rewarded, and all those things. It can be phenomenal. It can be fun. I hope that the book is in the hands of some people who are trying to navigate those things, whether it’s sales or leadership, they’re self-educating. They’ve decided to invest their time in a book.

This gives them some thought about an approach that can be rewarding if implemented. That would be what I think. By the way, there’s a brotherhood aspect to it. When I signed up to do the book with Ryan, I said, “There’s one thing that we’re going to make sure we do if we do this together. We’re going to have fun doing it,” which we did and we are right now. It all goes hand in hand with my approach.

I love that. Ryan?

Final thought. We talked about the 30 steps and the 9 tactics of human-centered leadership. The last thing on the inside jacket is one book to make work better. I hope that’s what the book does. I hope it’s a tool that sellers, leaders, and managers can take and make the world of work a better place because it captures such a lion’s share of our time, mind space, and heart space. It needs to change. It needs to improve.

You got an early reader testimonial or piece of feedback. A guy sent me an email who had the book and he said, “I had finished your book over the holiday break. I want you to know we’re going to start using the 30 steps. Our new leadership philosophy is human-centered and we’re going to start training on the nine tactics. Thank you.” That’s my hope. I hope that people who get the book read it, get some ideas they can use, and everybody gets a little bit better.

Prepare for Impact: Driving Growth And Serving Others Through Principles And Human-Centered Leadership provides a pathway and guideposts to get there. Gentlemen, I appreciate you being on. Ryan, where can people get the book?

Everywhere books are sold. It’s on Amazon and the website for the book is PrepareForImpactBook.com.

Ryan, how can people get in touch with you?

RyanEstis.com is the best way.

Chad, can people connect with you on LinkedIn?

Sure.

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About Chad Estis

Chad Estis serves as the Executive Vice President of Business Operations for the Dallas Cowboys and AT&T Stadium and Executive Vice President for Legends, a global premium experiences company that specializes in delivering holistic solutions for sports and entertainment organizations and venues. Though he’s had much success growing teams’ bottom lines, the largest impact of Chad’s career has been on his people.

About Ryan Estis

Ryan Estis is a globally recognized sales and leadership expert, keynote speaker, and co-founder of ImpactEleven, a hyper-growth startup community of thought leaders. A former Fortune 500 Chief Revenue Officer, Ryan has spent his career in the trenches, leading high-performance teams and building a client roster of category-leading brands.

Transforming Your Perspective: A Fresh Way to Understand Your Audience

In this episode of Against the Sales Odds, Lance sits down with Loren Feldman, the Founder and Editor-In-Chief of 21 Hats. Loren brings us through his journey as an editor in a newspaper, magazine, and more, from his time at Inc. to his founding of 21 Hats. He enlightens us on how to have the right mindset and how to understand your audience honestly. We can see Loren’s unique ideas on how to approach challenges, ask questions, and listen to and understand feedback from others. As Lance and Loren move through the episode, we see the different engagement philosophies of being proactive in business! Learn more about Loren and 21 Hats by subscribing to his newsletter at http://21hats.substack.com.

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Transforming Your Perspective: A Fresh Approach To Understanding Your Audience With Loren Feldman, Founder And Editor-In-Chief Of 21 Hats

I’m so excited about this episode. I have Loren Feldman on, the Founder of 21 Hats. He’s going to tell you what 21 Hats means in a second. What it’s about my experience with Loren is he gave me an opportunity when I wrote my first book. He was on the Wharton network on SiriusXM radio and he gave me a couple of shots to get on the radio with him and talk about some things about business, which I was so grateful for. He then started his platform, 21 Hats. Welcome, Loren, to the show. I appreciate it.

I am so happy to be here, Lance. Thanks for having me.

We’re two Philly guys around Philly so we have that in common. Tell the audience what 21 Hats is.

It’s a community for business owners. The 21 Hats, not everybody gets right away, refers to the fact that to build a business, you’ve got to wear a lot of hats. We’re here to try to help with that.

There’s no doubt, I can tell you. During the pre-game of this conversation with Loren and me talking about wearing 21 Hats, he and I were at a whole deep end that I brought up to him because I know he has such a wealth of knowledge on it with his guests and his community. I was talking about succession planning and protecting the organization.

I was getting asked by a board member questions I couldn’t ask. I had to go back and ask other people. We were talking about retaining employees and protecting the organization and what it looks long term. Loren is always dealing with business issues and the different hats that people wear. When I first met you, you would have me deal with the sales and marketing hat. That was the hat I was wearing with you.

On that radio show, we used to take questions from callers. You were good at your feet.

I remember talking to one of your callers and the guy was like, “I’m on the Pennsylvania Turnpike right near Fort Washington.” I’m like, “I know exactly where you are.” He was a live caller. You’re running an organization. You run this community and you have a powerful podcast. Tell everybody what your podcast is real quick so they want to dive deeper into this.

Our main offerings are the daily email newsletter, which is for business owners in which we highlight the most important news of the day, specifically for business owners. Not everything is out there. Just all in one place. Some of it is from obvious sources like the Wall Street Journal. Much of it is from obscure places that we find, things that we think are useful for business owners. The podcast is primarily a weekly round table peer group discussion. I have 10 regulars and I talk to 3 of them each week.

Unlike a lot of business podcasts, it’s not about people who’ve had huge success, who are remembering their careers and talking about a few of the bumps on the road. These are people who are fighting the good fight in the trenches every week, figuring out how to do this and that, and kicking around ideas. It’s a lively conversation. Sometimes people are happy because things are going well. Sometimes we have tough conversations because things aren’t going well at all. I do have one-on-one experts from time to time, such as you, Mr. Tyson.

Me truly, yes. I always appreciate you asking tough questions. Like anybody on here, the whole audience, we have business leaders, entrepreneurs, and salespeople who are budding entrepreneurs but if anybody knows anything about my philosophy, you’re constantly running your business. It’s the business of one. A lot of your advice is timely and the way you frame things, I love it. Loren, I like to ask everybody this. Where did you start? How did you get 21 Hats? Bring us through a little bit about your journey and story.

I’ve always been a journalist. I went to a good business school called Wharton, where I spent way too much time working at the school newspaper and didn’t learn as much business as I probably should have. I was a sports editor of the school newspaper and I loved that. I started as a sports writer. I did that for maybe 4 or 5 years and realized that there were a lot of other people who wanted to be sports writers but there weren’t as many people who wanted to be business writers.

Understanding Your Audience: There are a lot of other people who wanted to be sports writers, but there weren’t as many people who wanted to be business writers. There was a lot less competition, and it looked like the opportunity to move up quicker would be much greater covering business.

There was a lot less competition and the opportunity to move up quicker would be much greater covering business. I switched and was glad I did. I love sports but I found that covering business was very similar in a lot of ways. There’s a scoreboard in business too. It’s not always as public or obvious but it exists for everybody. Ultimately, they’re people’s stories as they are in sports. That’s what I liked about covering sports.

When you were at Wharton, you were writing sports but you went to Wharton School. Your first role coming out, was it a sports role or a business role?

It was a sports role with a newspaper that no longer exists, The Patterson News.

You’re up in Jersey. Is that a Jersey newspaper?

Yes. I then spent about three years working for a newspaper you’ve heard of called The Columbus Dispatch.

I did not know you were at The Columbus Dispatch. Every time I talk to you, I learn something new about you. I’m curious and I always meant to know this story inside. You’re a sports writer at The Patterson paper. Do you have to pitch your story to get your stories in? Are you assigned stories? Is it both? I’ve watched enough TV to think I understand the process but I was always curious about how it worked.

Like anything in most industries, you start at the bottom rung. When I started in Patterson, I started on the sports copy desk. I was reading the stories and editing them for the other sports writers there. Over time, I pitched ideas. Occasionally, they were accepted and the story was assigned. Eventually, I got a beat. I didn’t stay there that long in part because there was a very difficult labor battle that broke out there. When Bricks started going through windshields, I decided to look for something else. Luckily, I had a couple of contacts that put me in touch with the sports editor of The Columbus Dispatch. That’s how I wound up in Columbus.

You lived down here for four years?

About three years in the ‘80s.

Where did you live? What area? Were you downtown?

German Village.

It’s good food down there.

It was a lucky time to get there. I had a great experience in Columbus for a couple of reasons. One of which was I was a very young staff. I got there in my early twenties. While I was there, there were a bunch of people who had their 25th or 30th birthday working at the paper. I fell in with a good group of people. Some of them are still there. Some of them I’ve kept in touch with. It was a great group and experience for me.

With the transition, were you still in sports when you got to the dispatcher?

I was but it was in Columbus where I switched to covering business. I had a great time there. A lot of people don’t know this but, in many ways, Columbus is the fast-food capital of America.

They have no clue, do they? They don’t even know. Nobody even knew that White Castle was from here.

I did. I wrote about it in the ‘80s. Wendy’s started there. It was a little bit like the dot-com bubble, believe it or not. Wendy’s came out of Columbus and made a whole bunch of people, including the governor of Ohio, millionaires pretty quickly. When that happened, it made it possible for almost anybody to raise money to open a fast-food chain. Everybody started throwing ideas and I started covering the craziest ideas you ever heard.

My favorite was there was a fast-food chain called Prosciutto and Chins. The idea was to sell both Italian food and Chinese food that would be cooked in a central kitchen and distributed through Fotomat kiosks around the city. That was the idea. They wanted to replicate it around the country. Somehow, it didn’t work out for some reason.

It was ahead of its time. You get a lot of these fusion restaurants like Chipotle. What’s interesting about Columbus too is it’s a retail capital. You got Abercrombie & Fitch and all of the Les Wexner brands and retail pieces of stories inside Victoria’s Secret to limit it.

The other thing was that it was a test market. That’s in part because it’s not surrounded by a lot. Especially when I was there, it was surrounded mostly by cornfields. That meant that P&G in Cincinnati could come up, test a product, advertise it in Columbus, and not worry about those ads bleeding over into other markets. It was clean. That was part of what worked for fast food because the belief was that if it worked in Columbus, it’d work anywhere.

It’s a crossroads. It’s within 500 miles of 50% of the population in the US so people have migrated to this state. That’s why I’ve stayed. I didn’t know we had two areas of the country in common, Philly and Columbus.

It’s remarkable.

We’ve talked five times and I didn’t even realize that. I’m curious back to something else. When you’re pitching those ads or stories, do you pitch the headline first or the concept first? It’s writing books. I’m talking to publishers and I’m always wondering what’s the move. Where do you go with the attention-getter?

Usually, the concept. It helps. It’s a joke in the business. A lot of people come up with a headline first. If you come up with a great headline, you’re going to find a story to run under it because great headlines are priceless. We don’t want them to go to waste like with book titles.

Great headlines are priceless. You don’t want them to go to waste, just like with book titles.

That’s why I ask because sometimes as entrepreneurs, they’re very product-heavy and sales-poor. They don’t connect the branding to it. My first book, Selling Is an Away Game, took off right away because it has a great title. We went through iterations of the human sales factor. As we built the book, because the title was off, to begin with, it became a little bit of Frankenstein.

When I say Frankenstein, it’s my favorite book that I wrote because it’s so wide but because the title was off, it was hard. I linked that to so many things in business. I linked it to the concept of product, go-to-market, and how to sell things. I look at menus when I go out to eat and I’m like, “Only The Cheesecake Factory or BCakes can pick off these monster menus that are hard to sell.”

A good headline is a good elevator pitch. Until you have those things, you don’t know what you’re doing. I talk to business owners all the time. I often help them with their communication and talk about how they’re trying to describe what they do. It’s surprising to me how many business owners are not as good as they should be at stating quickly and efficiently what exactly their business does. It’s so important. You have to be able to do that, both to sell the idea but also to think about what your business should be doing, what falls within the walls, and what falls outside.

If you think about the cousins to that, I did a seminar and somebody had asked me, “What’s one of the key skills to hiring salespeople at this point?” I said, “One of the key skills is very fundamental problem-solving and critical problem-solving skills. Being able to state the problem is the key to both.” Even if you’re dealing with stress and worry, fundamental problem-solving comes in. What is the problem? What is the opportunity? What are the causes of it? What are the possible solutions? What’s the best possible solution?

You get very Stephen Covey with things. Stephen Covey says, “With anything, begin with the end in mind.” I think of that headline or concept as a business owner or salesperson. Thinking further, people struggle with where they’re going with their careers. It’s because they chase money. Money follows but never leads because fundamentally, they haven’t begun with the end in mind. There are so many cousins to that so wide. That’s why I was curious from your end. To get where you are with this community that you built and these people who keep coming back to you for advice, I don’t think you get to 21 Hats without knowing the analogy that it takes 21 hats as a business owner. I love that.

I knew something about business. I was in business journalism for a while. Many years ago, I wound up at Inc. Magazine where I first discovered entrepreneurial journalism. I thought I knew something about business but I knew nothing about entrepreneurship. I had my eyes open there. I fell in love with it. My strategy was I find the smartest person and the best writer there. I stayed by his side and learned everything that he was willing to teach me. I got introduced to all kinds of great people through him. I fell in love with it. Without that experience, I never would’ve had the understanding to come up with 21 Hats.

In a nutshell, what is the difference between business journalism and entrepreneurial journalism?

Business people and journalists come from different directions. Business journalism can be a little bit of a leap to understand for many journalists. What it’s like to be a business owner is an even bigger leap, especially for journalists. I’ll give you an example. Look at something like a business that has to go through layoffs. Most journalists will react to that instinctively with a reaction along the lines of, “That’s terrible for the employees,” which it is but without any understanding of how terrible it can be for the business owner as well.

Understanding Your Audience: Business journalism can be a little bit of a leap to understand for many journalists, but what it’s like to be a business owner is an even bigger leap, especially for journalists.

Laying people off may be harder for the employees who lose their jobs but it’s no picnic for the business owner who has to go through that and has to face up to the realization that something hasn’t worked right and something probably has to change. It’s about that. Being a business owner is an entirely different experience and civilians of all stripes, including journalists, don’t naturally understand and realize all that it takes.

Here’s another example. I worked with some of the smartest business journalists in the world at Forbes, The New York Times, and Inc. Very few of them had any idea that it’s routine for a business owner to put their home up as collateral for a bank loan. For many journalists, the idea that you would risk your home to try to build a business sounds like crazy talk. They think people on Wall Street and Silicon Valley are taking risks. They are but they’re taking risks with other people’s money. They’re not taking risks with their home. It’s understanding things like that that is essential to understanding entrepreneurship.

That is so well stated. I was in a conversation with one of our board members. Usually in a two-year stint, I pick whatever skill that the business is going to need and we add a board member that would bring that level of expertise. One of my board members owned at one time a very large Professional Employer Organization or PEO, where essentially, they did a lot of consulting but they’re taking on the risk of having employees. From an HR standpoint, they can protect the company, which may not be solvent or successful enough. I’m probably going to explain it as well as I do.

He was asking me about disability insurance. My controller was looking at it more as an expense. He said, “The worst place to be on is if you had somebody that you had a struggling business, something happens to somebody, and you need the role but you can’t afford if somebody’s not working in the role because they bring a return on investment.” I said, “The theory of souls.” He goes, “What do you mean?” I said, “Typically, if you’re ever at the front of an aircraft and you listen to a lot of captains, they’ll say, ‘We have 231 souls on board’, not passengers. What you’re saying is there’s a different EQ or empathy that’s tied to an entrepreneur because, godfather one, it’s all personal.”

Not that other businesses aren’t. Everything comes with a different zero. I read a book by a guy who was called Boyd. It was the guy who invented modern warfare and dog fighting. He says, “Everything in life comes down to either conquest or survival.” If you go to the very basis of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs, it’s always survival first. We’re all trying to survive at some level. There’s also conflict inside that survival.

That’s why I fell in love with doing this. Those stories I thought were moving. Once you understand what the owners are risking, what they’re trying to do, and the ideas that they come up with, it’s a whole different world. It’s something that most of my colleagues did not understand. They understood that small business is important in the aggregate. It’s half the economy or close to it but why would you care about any one small business? It’s exactly for the reasons you articulated. Everyone is a story, a journey, and somebody’s passion. That’s what I love doing.

The other tricky thing about it though is that they’re hard to cover, the privately-owned businesses. Think about it. If you’re covering a public company, any idiot can go to Yahoo Finance and find out anything they want to know about what’s working or not working at that business. With a privately owned business, you’re not going to get all the numbers that you would like to have. Some owners are more generous about sharing that than others but they’re not going to give you everything. In many cases, an owner may not fully understand why the business is succeeding or failing. If they always knew, there’d be a lot fewer failures than there are.

If you look at them, 90% of most businesses fail after the first year to make it. I heard a statistic that only 4% of companies get above that 1 million to 2 million. There’s not a big percentage who get over that million-dollar mark. You’re right. You’re speaking of Inc. We were very proud of this. We made the Inc. 5,000 in 2023 but the questionnaire for Inc. 5,000 was invasive. Not in a bad way. I’m excited and I hope we go in 2024 but you could tell that Inc. understood small businesses based on the questions that were asked. You’ve got to certify your results because anybody can claim anything. You’ve got to share some things you’re not necessarily comfortable out there in the ether with. You were at Inc. for how long?

About 4 or 5 years.

From there, you went where?

I was there until two weeks after Lehman Brothers fell in 2008 when I was laid off along with the entire digital division. It seems like a weird time to lay off the digital division. The media business was being turned upside down. Every legacy publication had a difficult transition adjusting to the internet. Inc. was no exception. I saw that as the future. Around 2007, I seized an opportunity to switch from being the number 2 editor on the print publication to being the number 1 editor on the website, which I thought was going to be a good career move until I was laid off.

I wasn’t happy about that but it made sense. I wasn’t responsible for this, fortunately. We had some technological difficulties. We were trying to reinvent the website. We are trying to turn it into more of a community like what I’m doing. Back then, the software was much more rudimentary. Now, you can do everything yourself. Back then, we were hiring these expensive developers to try and build something from scratch, and it didn’t work. The project was years late, millions of dollars over budget. The owner of the publication eventually said, “I want to start from scratch.”

Doesn’t the owner of the publication own Inc.?

I’m not sure what you’re thinking. The owner of Inc. is the Founder of Morningstar Investments.

He owns the Chicago Fire.

I did not know that. He’s based in Chicago, I’m sure you’re right.

I heard a podcast with him on it.

Joe Mansueto.

You talk about a guy that has some common sense.

He’s done very well.

He does, especially how he grew Morningstar. Thank you for that. I couldn’t remember his name.

I was going through a tough time. I got laid off. It so happens that about 2 or 3 months before I was laid off, I was approached by the New York Times, which offered me the chance to come and start their version of Inc. Magazine as a web vertical. My answer was, “Thank you. I’m flattered.” I learned everything I know about entrepreneurship at Inc. I just don’t feel right about going somewhere else and creating a competitor for the people who taught me what I know. I got laid off and called back the Times. I said, “I’ve been thinking about this. If that job’s available, I’d be willing to take it.” Fortunately, for me, it was available 3 months later. I took it and spent about the next five years or so at the New York Times.

From what you can remember, what was the biggest culture shift between Inc. and the New York Times, in your opinion?

The Times was much further along in terms of figuring out the internet. At Inc., they were still in the stage that most legacy publications went through where they were thinking of the internet as a dumping ground. Their main product was the print product. They would publish it in print and a month or so later, dump it on the internet. They were not taking advantage of any of the tools or advantages that the internet and the web offer you, whereas The Times was slow on certain things but was way ahead of the game on this.

The Time was slow in certain things, but they were way ahead of the game in terms of figuring out the internet.

They saw where it was going. They had a vision for that.

By the time I got there, they had already concluded that breaking a big story on the internet is as good as breaking a big story in print. A lot of publications are still holding their best stuff for print. The Times wasn’t doing that. They were publishing the same thing online as they were in print but also looking for ways to take advantage of the tools that the internet offers you. One of the things I did was to start a small business blog where I hired a bunch of contributors, business owners, experts in particular areas, and journalists who covered aspects of business ownership and entrepreneurship. We published 2 or 3 posts a day and built a community around that blog.

You asked me about the culture shift. The biggest shift was although I had been editor of the website at Inc., we were still doing that dump thing. I wasn’t figuring out how to use the internet yet. We did do that at The Times and one of the things I figured out is that I had to up my game. I realized that because I published a blog post that had a mathematical error in it. We added up a couple of numbers incorrectly. A commenter corrected us on that within 30 seconds of publishing it. That’s a huge change. At a monthly magazine, if you get 3 letters 2 months after you publish something, you think, “I hit a chord with this.” With a blog, especially at the New York Times, we’ve sometimes got thousands of comments on a good interesting blog post.

It sounds like you started to realize from a community thing that this is a live conversation going on.

That’s exactly right. Part B of that is I realized that the response of the community was as important as what I published as a journalist. I had smart business owners and people writing for that blog post but the best post always elicited some conversation. Sometimes we’d get feedback saying, “Technically, that’s right but here’s a better way.” We always learned as much from the comments from the community as we did from the initial post. That was a huge difference.

If you took the first two roles at Dispatch and Inc. and then all of a sudden, you go to building this community New York Times. How did you change your leadership style, communication style, and perspective? What was the main thing you had to make an adjustment on?

The main thing was thinking differently about the audience. Traditional journalism had been very much a one-way street. We lecture. You listen and absorb. Some of it was ridiculous.

Part of the reason why media companies had such a difficult time with the transition to the internet is that they had this idea, especially in newspapers, that readers had a responsibility to read the publication. You as a citizen have to read the New York Times or The Philadelphia Inquirer. How else are you going to be an informed citizen? That’s your duty. That’s a terrible way to think about a business. It went about as well as you would expect it to go.

I switched from newspapers to magazines. Magazines had more competition and were a little bit ahead of the game. They were more aware. We’re competing for people’s time. Inc. may not have another business publication exactly like it to compete with but we’re competing with TV, movies, newspapers, and all the other ways that people can spend their time. We have to engage people but then it went a whole another level with the internet because suddenly, your audience can talk back to you right away. If you do something stupid, they’re going to let you know.

You’re in this proactive model where you intend to engage, not to dump but you got to be patient enough to let the audience respond and take care of itself, and then you’re going to have to back that up or respond on part as the author or organization.

You also have to have the mindset that you’re not the oracle and font of all wisdom. You are a part of a conversation and you’re talking to a lot of people who are, no doubt, a lot smarter than you are. You have to respect that, try to incorporate that, and think about ways. One of the things I did at the New York Times was introduce a case study feature where we would introduce a difficult business challenge that a business had gone through. They had either surmounted it or failed to solve the problem but it was in the past. We knew what the answer was but we wouldn’t give it away in the initial story.

“Here’s a challenge. What would you do if you faced this challenge?” We would solicit opinions. People would spend remarkable amounts of time offering advice and talking about what they would do. A week later, we would have the owner of that particular business come back and explain what they did and how it worked out. It created this learning experience that you could never do something like that in a newspaper or a print publication of any kind. I learned so much doing it. It was fun and great.

What’s interesting about what you’re saying is businesses struggle with social media and all these vehicles with how to respond to customers. Salespeople struggle with all the vehicles that a prospect can communicate with them. I’ve often said there are three levels of control. Reacting is probably the lowest level you could ever be. It’s your lowest odds.

Responding is probably you have some space in between a thought and an action. Being proactive is having a philosophy, strategy, or tactic that deals with a lot of the possibilities.

You learn and incorporate that so early in the way of the world. Leaders, especially small business leaders, struggle when you have a group of people coming in. I train a lot of Gen Z-ers and Millennials. Part of me says that it’s no different than our generation. The biggest difference is the fact that they’ve been the chief technology officer in their household from the time they were four years old so they think they have a seat at the table. There’s nothing wrong with that because we’ve said to all of our younger folks, “What’s the password to the internet?” They’ve always had a seat or some control.

A lot of organizations struggle with how to respond live because everything is so live. With everything that’s going on in the world, you get a retail outlet that all of a sudden has an opinion on something and they post it on the internet and they get a negative response one way or the other. Maybe you shouldn’t have put your politics out there.

I was taught a long time ago, “Don’t ask anybody how much they make. Don’t ask anybody about their religion. Don’t talk about politics. You’re probably in good shape.” I don’t know what we have forgotten at that but if you’re going to put it out there and then tether to what you believe, you are going to get opinions and you maybe should have thought of that proactively. You learn that way early with that engagement philosophy.

That’s true but that’s one example of many. You’re right on target with that. One of the things I learned doing this, and I’d love to know what you think, is I don’t think there’s any perfect training ground to be a business owner.

There’s no perfect training ground to be a business owner.

I don’t either.

MBA can help. I’m not going to say that doesn’t have any value. It does but there’s nothing like being in the owner’s seat and having to make those decisions. You’re talking about social media and what you share. That’s one particular but there are a million different examples like that.

Positive or negative. Some people can say, “My company went viral because I did.” I agree. People come to me and say, “I want to be an entrepreneur.” I ask them, “How did you arrive at that word? What’s precipitating this?” “I’m sick of working for the man or the woman.” “What does that mean?”

It means you’re a bad employee.

A lot of times, it could. The other thing is I had a guy come to me one time and he went to work for me. He was like, “I want to be an entrepreneur.” I said, “Let me ask you one scenario. Let’s say our revenues aren’t hitting this and we have payroll. Say we have $20,000 in the bank and the payroll is $35,000. How do you get there if you don’t have the money? Who gets paid first?” He kept including himself. I said, “Lesson one, you may not get paid.”

I had a partner one time where there was a minority stake in the business and a company wanted a refund. He goes, “I need it right away.” I go, “We’ll payroll next week and we’re not quite where we need to be.” This was years ago. He goes, “The customer always comes first.” I said, “That’s the biggest difference between you and me. I don’t believe the customer comes first. I believe the employee comes first. That’s probably why you sold me your business anyway.”

He goes, “We disagree. Unfortunately, for you, I’m okay with having a disagreement but this isn’t an equal partnership so thanks for your feedback. We’ll take care of the employees and then they’ll take care of the customer.” I’m not saying that’s right either. Some people say the customer comes first but like you’re saying, Loren, there’s no learning ground other than the learning ground you’re on.

What I’ve concluded, and tell me what you think because you would know better than me, is the closest thing you can come is to be part of a peer group and have other people around you on similar journeys that you can talk to. You can have the conversation that you had with your partner and open somebody’s eyes to the idea, “Wait a second, you haven’t thought about this. Maybe you shouldn’t pay yourself first. Maybe you should make sure those other people get paid and see what’s left.”

You nailed it, because philosophically speaking, there’s a difference between an abundance mentality and a scarcity mentality. If you’re going to be an entrepreneur, you probably need to have an abundance mentality. For being an entrepreneur, the ladder’s high but there’s no net. That comes down to risk at some level and how much risk. The last thing is Robert Kiyosaki said it the best. He had that frame like, “You’re either an employee or self-employed.” There’s a difference. Self-employed is when you have a job that you pay yourself for.

If you’re a business owner or an investor at some level, you’re going to migrate to all those things. You might need to make some leaps in all that thinking but you’re right. If you’re not talking to somebody, it’s a theory of AA too. Some people do well in AA because there’s a peer group and you’re talking to other people that you could empathize about your disease with. You can say, “I’m not alone.” That’s sometimes a good thing.

One of the principles of AA is you don’t give advice or tell people what to do. You say, “I’ve been in a similar situation and this is how I handled it and how it worked for me.” That’s exactly the most valuable thing and experience an entrepreneur can have. That’s why at 21 Hats, I have a monthly CEO forum that people can join. We have a couple of people around the world. We compare notes. Somebody has a question. Somebody has a challenge. I sometimes bring in guest speakers. That’s the idea on the podcast.

We do occasional in-person events where I don’t bring in speakers. I have a three-day peer group session. We start with dinner on Wednesday, go through lunch on Friday, and vote on the issues we want to discuss. In the one we did in May 2022, the issue that most people wanted to discuss was, “How big do you want your business to be?” We spent a lot of time. It got into a lot of issues like, “Do you want to take investors or not? Do you want to be your own boss? Do you want to bring somebody else to the table to control? Do you want to sell this? What’s its legacy?”

Let’s sum it up this way. Your career has been forming an empathy and an understanding or an EQ around this entrepreneurial person.

Yes. I like the puzzle-solving idea of, “Why do some businesses succeed and some fail?” Going back to when I covered fast-food in Columbus, one of the first things I learned about Wendy’s was that Dave Thomas started that chain with the idea that if you see a car pull into the parking lot, you immediately throw burgers on the grill and start cooking them. If they don’t order burgers, you throw the meat into the chili pot. The chili was part of the business model so that that meat wouldn’t go to waste. To me, that was solving a puzzle. That helped explain why the business succeeded. I always appreciated that part of it, plus what you said.

To bring this bird down for a landing, one of the things I always appreciated with you as you left some of those bigger publications was when I met you when you were on the Wharton Network on SiriusXM Radio. One of the things I admired when you were there and I still admire is that you are following that AA thing a little bit. You ask opinions for understanding as opposed to giving advice. You’re extremely good at guiding somebody to a conclusion. That’s your superpower. I’ve listened to you enough times. I’m racing to give advice all the time as a trainer.

That’s because you know stuff, Lance. All I know is how to ask questions.

No, but you know stuff too. If I cornered you, you give an opinion but I like how you get your audience to arrive at it, which is a superpower. It’s Socratic. It’s genius. I need to be doing more of that. I even appreciate how well you did that in a live conversation like this. You’ve been able to translate your career in writing to communicating it in several different ways through several vehicles, and then to pull expertise together to do that. That’s a superpower.

Here’s one big question for the audience. If you had to take an entrepreneur, a business, a leader, or a salesperson, moving forward from 2023 to 2033, what are the 3 to 5 skillsets or attitudes that you feel are going to set somebody apart moving forward? It can be things that they have in the past but I’m curious because you hear a lot of people.

Most people who start businesses start them because there’s something that they know well. It could be a skill like how to fix cars, frame pictures, make something, or cook food.

People don’t usually go into business because they do not know accounting or even sales necessarily. If you’re good at sales, correct me if I’m wrong because you’re the expert here, you probably become a salesperson and work at somebody else’s business at least initially.

If you start with starting a business, you’re doing it because you’re good at something. The interesting thing to me is you probably have to be pretty stubborn to do that because a lot of people are going to challenge you. Even some of your best friends. Maybe even your significant other is going to say, “Why do you want to do that? Go get a job. What are you thinking?”

It’s an expertise that you have.

If you’ve got this, you decide you want to start a business, you’re stubborn about it, and you’re not going to listen to all the naysayers. You’re going to do it. Here’s the thing. At some point, you have to stop being stubborn. You have to open your mind and listen to advice and other people’s experiences. That’s a difficult transition because entrepreneurs are headstrong. They know what they want to do. They have a vision. You can’t do it without that. You have to have that. At some point, you have to realize that you don’t know everything that other people have had relevant experience and you might have to listen to them. That’s a difficult transition. Having that open-minded mindset is crucial.

I also think that’s humbleness too because you usually get somebody confident and know exactly what they want. They have alpha traits but there has to be this humbleness. The hardest thing I had to do as an entrepreneur was to put a board together. I took a program by Clay Mathile who founded Aileron. I took a board class and they said, “Put a board together.” I remember my first couple of boards would go, “Stop selling.” I go, “I’m not selling.” They’re like, “Stop giving yourself advice. Do you want advice from us or do you want to give the advice?” That level of understanding or that humbleness to even ask for advice is important.

You were ahead of the game, Lance, because I know a lot of successful business owners who never constitute a board. Some of them want to be their own boss. They don’t want to be challenged. They want to do it their way. They know they’re going to make mistakes and they don’t want someone telling them that they’ve made a mistake.

I kept finding myself defending myself early on. I’m like, “This is why I did it.” They go, “Why do you need us? You got it.” I’m like, “You’re right.” It’s hard to do. That’s why getting that peer group like you talked about is so critical. Have expertise and humbleness. Seek understanding. You’re listening to understand, not to respond, it is probably if we’re going to bring it down to skillset. Give me one more.

The way things change so fast with all that we’ve been through, you have to be open-minded. It’s complicated. There’s somebody on my podcast who makes high-end conference tables. When the pandemic hit and everybody stayed home, there weren’t a lot of people looking to buy custom conference tables for $30,000, $40,000, $50,000, or more. It turned out his business held up for some interesting reasons. A lot of people told him, “You got to do what everybody else is doing. You have to pivot. People are working from home. You should be making a desk for home offices.”

He thought about that. He gave it serious thought and he decided, “Other people are doing that. They’re in mass production. I don’t do mass production. I can’t compete with IKEA or some other furniture manufacturer. They’re all way ahead of me. I got to stick with what I do and I’m going to stick with what I do.” It’s the company’s decision. It worked for him. It was the right decision for him. You have to know when to have an open mind and when to stick to your guns.

You have to know when to have an open mind and when to stick to your guns.

The open-mindedness comes through. It doesn’t mean you have to change. It means you have to consider the change. That’s genius. The one thing you don’t want to be, taking that gentleman for instance, is you don’t want to be the last of the buggy whip salespeople. If there are no more buggies or horses, stop selling the buggy whips.

You’re not going to believe this. I got a story for you real quickly. When I was a reporter with the Columbus Dispatch, I stumbled upon a guy in Columbus who was in his 80s and was still selling equipment for horses and buggies.

There is a large population in Ohio.

He had one customer. His customer was Anheuser-Busch.

No way. It’s so good. There’s a big Anheuser-Busch plant in Columbus, too. Here are the last two questions. If you had to advise a niece, nephew, or grandchild who’s 5 to 7 years old, maybe 8 years old max, and they said, “Uncle Loren, what does it mean to be successful,” you say what?

You find a way to do with your life what you want to do with it. You find a way to live and enjoy the things that you enjoy the way you want to enjoy them. You make yourself happy.

On your terms, you’ve been telling us about entrepreneurs. Here’s the last question. Besides my books, if you’re going to recommend a book and you could gift a book, what book do you gift the most?

There’s one that’s not as well-known as many books which is one of the reasons I like to recommend it. It’s called No Man’s Land. It was written by Doug Tatum. He founded a fractional CFO business, which allowed him to see the inner workings of hundreds, if not thousands, of businesses. What he found is that every business that grows goes through a very difficult stage, which he called no man’s land where the things that worked initially stop working. It can be everything from employees to relationships with vendors and software tools across the board but the toughest ones are employees.

No Man’s Land: Where Growing Companies Fail

When you get into no man’s land, you end up having to have conversations where you say to someone who might be a relative or a close friend, “You helped me start this business. You’ve helped me build it. You’ve been incredibly loyal. You’ve worked hard but we’ve grown and reached a level where your experience is no longer sufficient. We need to bring in people who have a deeper understanding of whatever it is this person does. I’m going to have to figure out a way to make a change here.”

There’s no harder conversation than that. You can avoid it by not growing. If you grow pretty much at all, you can still stay relatively small and end up going through no man’s land but it’s inevitable if you grow. It’s difficult. He wrote a book that takes you through the best ways of dealing with those situations. I recommend that book highly.

I love it. I put it down on my list. Loren Feldman, I appreciate it. 21 Hats is great. I love everything you bring to the table. You made me rethink some things because I’m in a couple of those spots but the biggest thing with this conversation is from an entrepreneurial perspective, at least what I got is with your time at the New York Times and this ability to engage with the live community, it is what business is about. That can be proactive. It doesn’t have to be reactive. Having to do that means you have to listen and be aware and willing to make adjustments, change, or stand your ground. It’s well said. I love it. Thanks for your time.

Lance, this was an honor. Thank you so much for having me. I enjoyed it.

How do we get in contact with you?

You can go to 21Hats.com. That’s our website. You can subscribe to the daily email newsletter at 21Hats.Substack.com. You can find the podcast at 21 Hats Podcasts and wherever you get podcasts.

I’m going to be on soon. Yours truly, I can’t wait. Thanks. Loren, I appreciate your time.

Thank you, Lance.

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About Loren Feldman

Loren Feldman is the founder and editor-in-chief of 21 Hats, an online community for business owners. He hosts the 21 Hats Podcast, which has been tracking the experiences of eight business owners in weekly conversations throughout the pandemic crisis, and he edits the 21 Hats Morning Report is a daily email newsletter for entrepreneurs. (More information here.) Previously, he was a senior editor covering entrepreneurship at Inc, Forbes, and the New York Times. He has also been editor-in-chief of Philadelphia magazine and executive editor of George magazine. He has spoken and moderated discussions on entrepreneurship at numerous conferences and seminars.

Better Humans Make Better Leaders with Jerry Colonna of Reboot.io

Better humans make better leaders. In this episode of Against the Sales Odds, Lance sits down with CEO, author, and entrepreneur of Reboot.io Jerry Colonna. Jerry brings us his story and the hardships he faced throughout his career, providing valuable lessons and quotes on his philosophy in leadership and how to overcome forces in your systems. From moving out of the venture world and into the coaching world, Jerry works with his clients to help them grow up, be better humans, and become better Leaders–topics discussed in his book Reboot: Leadership and the Art of Growing Up. Join Jerry Colonna today, and let’s unpack more valuable insights together! Also, don’t forget to grab a copy of Jerry’s new book, Reunion: Leadership and the Longing to Belong.

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Better Humans Make Better Leaders With Jerry Colonna: CEO, Entrepreneur, And Author Of Reboot.io

I’m excited about this episode of the show with Jerry Colonna on with us. I first heard Jerry with Tim Ferriss in his podcast, which I’ve religiously listened to. Jerry is an author and the CEO of Reboot.io. He also has a new book coming up. Jerry, welcome to the show. Thanks for being on.

Thanks for having me on, Lance. It’s a delight to be with you.

Jerry, before we start all these, we have an interesting audience here. We’re up and comer especially in sales. We also have a lot of leaders who read this. Give us your background in the venture. You’ve started your firm. You’re in the coaching and training space, especially around leadership. That’s what your firm is all about. Tell us a little bit about how you got to this spot in your life.

My career has bounced around a bit. In my twenties after college, I was a journalist for a technology publication. After a number of years of doing that, I became an early-stage venture capitalist right at the beginning of the internet wave. Some folks reading this may not know that there was a time before the internet.

I remember my Brother P-Touch and Word Processor.

I have a pretty successful career doing that but inwardly struggling emotionally to the point of depression in my late 30s. I walked away from that business. I sat on my own in many ways trying to figure out what I wanted to do with the rest of my life. It was during that period that I discovered that I was pretty good at this thing called coaching. I had trained to become a coach and then became a solo entrepreneur coach for about ten years. A few years ago, a couple of cofounders and I launched a business called Reboot.io. It’s been a blast. That’s my story.

I have two questions because you brought up something when you were in the venture world. You walked away. You had depression. Was that a product of the environment you’re in? Was that because you’re in your head? One of my customers said to me one time that sometimes your head is like a bad neighborhood. It’s not always good to be alone in it. What was that because it sounded like that was a threshold moment for your threshold time?

It was a threshold time. I was about 38 years old. We had gone from everything I touched turning to gold to everything I touched turned to coal. That turn happened pretty quickly. If I’m honest, that wasn’t the source of the depression. The source of the depression was I didn’t like the neighborhood I was living in. That fact was true back to my childhood.

Starting around 2002, it was catalyzed by everything from the collapse of the market to the 9/11 attacks, to be honest with you. What ended up happening for me was I could no longer avoid the neighborhood. It’s great to say I don’t want to hang out in that place but when you can’t avoid it anymore, then what do you do? I spent the next 4 or 5 years learning how to listen to the stuff that was going on in my head.

I had a similar experience. I was working for Dale Carnegie Training for years. I am one of their biggest franchises because that’s what they are. It’s the book How to Win Friends & Influence People but at the same time, I was building a real estate rental investment for low-income housing. I was in a bad space on the rental stuff because the business didn’t feel right to me.

You have people lying to you all the time. I got into a bad head spot and I was there. I couldn’t avoid it because I was so tethered financially to it. You said, “I became a solopreneur? I got into the coaching business.” Philosophically, tie what you went through back to your philosophy on coaching because it had a connection.

If we go back in time travel, in my late 30s, I’m very well-perceived and successful. Even though I joked that things were turning to coal, I was still a very successful investor. The problem was that the voices in my head were pointing out all the things that I wasn’t dealing with. The model was to move fast and be successful. I had been so successful in my 20s and early 30s that I ran out of gas. I found myself living in a way where the inner version of me and the outer version of me weren’t in alignment.

This is something I work with clients on all the time. The irony is the more successful I was outwardly, the more miserable I became inwardly. That’s a distortion field for you because we’re taught that the way to internal happiness is through external accomplishment. It’s important but that doesn’t create this. You wanted the connection back to the work I do. A core principle of everything that I do is that better humans make better leaders.

I joke. It’s obvious when you think about it but if it’s so obvious, why do we have such crappy leadership? We have crappy leadership because, to go back to your friend’s metaphor, people don’t want to do the work. They don’t want to go visit that neighborhood which is a requirement of being a better human for you and me. We have to go back in and say, “How will we organize? What are the belief systems we carry from childhood?”

People should visit the neighborhood to be a better human.

If you want to get somebody thinking hard, ask them to consider what their relationship to money is, their career choices, and where that relationship to money first formed. I’ll ask them, “Which of your two parents was more anxious about money?” You start to unpack through what I refer to as radical self-inquiry, “That’s what’s driving me here.”

There are a couple of things you said there and everybody should inch as we get into this philosophy, especially your coaching philosophy. I work for Dale Carnegie and the book outward-facing probably is the most popular, How to Win Friends & Influence People. It’s the 30 ways to deal with people so it’s all outward-facing. It was self-help up to that point before that though. If you go back to even Benjamin Franklin, he was like, “My value is who I have been trying to work on.”

All of a sudden, self-help and leadership became outward-facing. You said it so well that we got to deal with ourselves first. If you can’t lead yourself, you can’t lead anybody else. If you have a bad conversation with yourself, that’s a problem whether the metaphor is a neighborhood or a conversation you have with yourself. That’s where that becomes so important.

It’s interesting about the money thing. I was coaching somebody before. It was a younger person on my team. I said, “Money follows. It should never leave.” It can follow where you go because it’s that choice. My dad used to say, “Money is not the root of all evil. Sometimes the lack of money is the root of all evil too.” That’s well said.

It sounds like one of your core principles. How are you having a conversation with yourself? How are you leading yourself? The most important thing you said is where does it come from? It’s your current and the legacy or history you’re coming from, and then it’s looking forward. That core principle or something that with all your partners that you start at, is that a starting point for you?

It is primarily, whether the client is coming to us because they’re unsatisfied with their life or leadership or the people around them are unsatisfied with their leadership. The most important first step is to start to unpack, “How did I get here? Who am I?” We’re huge fans of a Carl Jung quote, which is “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.”

Better Leaders: Make the unconscious conscious. It will direct your life, and you will call it fate.

What we’re talking about is surfacing and making conscious. All of the belief systems that drive us we think are facts. Your father quoted Saint Paul but with all respect to him, it was a misquote. What Saint Paul didn’t write was money is the root of all evil. What he said was the love of money. That’s a profound difference.

I was talking to a client. He was hugely successful for a while. The last round valuation of his business was $4 billion. The company is being sold for somewhere between $50 and $100 million. It’s in the AI space. What happened was that the investors got greedy. Without revealing too many details, what ended up happening was they started to guide the business in inappropriate ways. It was growing at all costs and not being mindful of profitability.

We had started working together and I said to him, “What’s your path to profitability?” He said, “Jerry, in the four years I’ve been doing this business, you’re the first person to ask me that.” That’s greed writ large. Whereas, you’ve got a business. I’ve got a business. We’ve got employees. You have obligations to your employees. I’ve got obligations to my employees.

Our obligation is that they can pay their mortgages and that we can build a sustainable business that doesn’t harm the world. Also, allows people to have a full feeling that they’re contributing meaningfully to the world so that they can go home at night, play with their kids, and not worry. Isn’t that a gorgeous reason for having a business?

It is. When I put my first board together, I owned the company but I was following a formula that Clay Mathile put together when he formed Iams. One of the first questions that my board member said to me was, “Lance, what’s your social mission?” I go, “What do you mean?” He goes, “What’s the company’s social mission?” I said, “Are you talking about if we’re going to paint fences?” That’s all I got.

My social mission at this point, and I’m with you, is my folks feel confident that what they’re investing time in will allow them to do their social mission. That’s my number one obligation. It’s the belly buttons that work in the business and that they feel that they’re contributing. To me, that’s the inner circle of once you get yourself fixed or look at the world the right way and know where you came from, that’s the next piece. I agree with that. Carl Jung’s quote was so profound.

It’s a mantra I live by. What he’s saying is we are all directed by our internal forces, those voices in your head that your friend was a little bit reluctant to hang out with. We’re directed by those forces. We don’t regard them so we don’t have an understanding of our belief systems. We don’t ask the question, “What is it I believe about money and how did I come to that belief system? What is it that I believe about leadership and how did I come to that belief system?” We’re trained not to ask that question so we end up waking up one day going, “How did I get here?” Do you know the moment when you’re driving long distance in a car and your mind has been drifting off and then you’re like, “I missed a turn?”

Yes. It’s because you’re so invested in it.

To come back to the point you were talking about before about your board members’ question about your social mission, one of the challenging points is what is it that we value about the world? The social mission should be associated with that. I could see. I warmed you up when I said, “Imagine your employees being able to pay their mortgages.”

How do you define paying their mortgage? It could be paying anything or that comfort level and confidence. You’re exposing this passion and core philosophy. I want to go back to when you made the leap. You walk away from the venture world and get into the coaching world. It sounds like some of that is tied to what you’ve gone through. You become mission-oriented with it at some level. This becomes a passion or mission. It’s something you want to teach and share. Did you want to expand that philosophy when you started the firm? Did you want to grow it? What made you come out of more of a solo coaching to grow on that? What was the thought there?

To refine the context a little bit, we tend to be socialized not to acknowledge what I’m about to acknowledge. I started to explore the work that became my coach training because I wanted to alleviate my suffering. I say that we’re trained not to look there because somehow, the message that we often receive is that that self-indulgent. I want to turn that on its head a little bit and to be clear, I’m barring a little bit from my Buddhist teachers.

When I work to alleviate my suffering, I’m working to alleviate other people’s suffering. When I work to alleviate their suffering, I’m working to alleviate my suffering. This is especially true for those of us who hold power because we are unwilling to go there and do the work necessary to feel better, grow up, and be a better human. My first book is called Reboot: Leadership and the Art of Growing Up. When we as adults are unwilling to grow up, we can damage the people around us.

Reboot: Leadership and the Art of Growing Up

You said something that you forced me to ask. I’ve been in the training industry since I was 25 years old. I specialize in sales leaders and salespeople. What you said to alleviate my pain and what I’m not good at is why I will continue to always teach. No matter how big the company gets, I’m going to always do that because it does relieve my pain. Seeing somebody successful, I can work through that but also, it raises my bar. The mark of somebody’s character is what you do when other people aren’t around. I’m exposing myself at a higher level.

When we define leadership in that context, what ends up happening is we see that one of the truest measures of a good leader is how many leaders they’ve helped create. I don’t know about you but I’m in the back nine of my life.

One of the truest measures of a good leader is the number of leaders they’ve helped create.

I’m about there, too.

At the end of my days, what I want my descendants to think is he did everything he could, first, to grow up as a human and second, to do good work in the world. Remember that better human phenomena. A better human isn’t just one who completes the process of becoming an adult. A better human makes it better for those around him.

They do. I do a lot of value exercises internally with our clients in their company. We have these value cards through a simple exercise and we play an elimination game. The values are not what you aspire to be but who you are. I get down to two every time like a lifelong learner and leaving a legacy. You can leave a bad legacy or a good legacy. That was with a very dear friend of mine. His name is Chad Estis. He runs the Dallas Cowboys. He’s probably the highest non-family member that runs the Cowboys.

We’re talking about another executive and he said, “Lance, I wonder how many people will come to his funeral.” I said, “What do you mean, Chad?” He goes, “He gets results but there is a heap pile behind him and it’s a deep gorge.” I said, “Chad, you judge yourself.” He goes, “Yeah. I’ll know how many people I develop depending on who’s willing to come see me when it’s over.” That ties into what you’re saying because it is your legacy.

It is. You bring to mind a story that I don’t think I’ve ever told anybody. I’ve got a new book coming out. I was in the midst of writing this book. I was on a flight from San Francisco to Boston. I was sitting in first class because I indulged myself and this older man came in. He had the window seat and I had the aisle seat. I had to get up. I had already unpacked. I was stupidly annoyed. I was being a jerk.

He makes his way to the chair and then starts pressing the entertainment screen. He somehow sets it up for Portuguese instead of English. I lean over and help him figure it out. We’re flying a little bit and he says to me, “Are you headed home?” I said, “No. I’m stopping off in Boston. I got to see my son and do this.” He goes, “I’m going to a funeral.”

The guy is in his 80s. He was with a squad in Vietnam. He was headed home to bury the second to last member of that squad. All I could think was, “This is a good man,” and I was the jerk. I realized that to your friend’s question, “Who’s going to fly solo when you’re feeling sick and you’re 86 years old?” He had land in Logan and then a car taking him to Cape Cod, which for those who don’t know is a long drive. It’s because he was not going to not be at his squad member’s funeral.

Back to something you said and you mentioned your Buddhist teachers, through understanding yourself, and I’m no great meditator, but I have learned one thing. I was being a jerk. My wife and I got back from a small trip and I got irritated with her. I looked at her and I said, “I’m sorry.” I’m not trying to be the hero. I’m more self-facing but it’s getting to that point though of realizing when you are. Shame to the people who don’t even realize that. They are so selfish.

Start talking about your book. It’s interesting because, in our pregame, you started to talk about your new books, ascension, and how polarizing things are. We sound like two old guys like, “We grow up.” That’s what we talked about. I even mentioned to you that with some of our clients, it seems like the newer generations aren’t afraid to go there but when’s appropriate to have a conversation and things like that? Talk about your new book.

The book is called Reunion: Leadership and the Longing to Belong. In some ways, what I try to do is so many of my clients come to me, especially in the last few years, and say, “There are protests in the streets. Let’s pause for a moment. There are Nazis protesting at Disney World.” My father fought the Nazis. We’re living in a very distorted world. There’s polarization and dissension. The term I used in my book is separation. There is a separation that goes on. A broad turn to hold on to which a professor out of Berkeley called othering is this notion of systemic othering. We’re constantly putting people on the other side.

Reunion: Leadership and the Longing to Belong

I want to hear this even corporately about the extreme nature of what we call things. I was looking at my son’s talk about socialist and said, “Do you know what a socialist is? You might want to go look at the definition.” I’m not defending anybody because with the othering, name-calling, and stuff you share, I’m like, “Do we even have a hold of the language? Do you even know what you’re talking about at some level either?”

I do. Despite our efforts to say, “We’re a business. We’re not going to talk about these things,” the fact is everybody’s talking about these things. What I argue is that the root or the reason people are all talking about this is what they want. If you remember from my first book Reboot, I talked about how we’re motivated by three things which are love, safety, and belonging.

Reunion: Leadership and the Longing to Belong

In this case, what I’m saying is that what we’re all wishing for is a sense of belonging. We know who we belong to. What is our group? Where do we stand? I suggest that better humans make better leaders is true but not enough. There’s an opportunity to create a sense of belonging within the organization that does not mean equivalency and everybody’s in agreement.

You don’t need to agree. You need to align at some level. You and I are so much on the same page because of love, safety, and belonging, I talk a lot about Maslow. When we talked about survival and safety, I owe it to my employees as the leader, that they feel safe and are going to survive beyond a check. That’s my first social mission. I am 1,000% and I choose the word alignment. We don’t have to agree with everything.

Alignment implicit in that is mutual respect and a shared sense of values. It’s the reason I call it Reunion. I found this line after I started writing the book. There’s a brilliant poem by the late bell hooks and the first line of which is, “When angels speak of love, all things are union and reunion. There is no separation. There is no end to paradise.”

Where did that come from again?

Her poem is called When Angels Speak of Love. What I suggest is that there’s a reunion process that first starts with us reuniting with our sense of self. Second, understanding the stories of our ancestors. What did they go through? Who are they? Who were they? How does that relate to the world as it is now? I had ancestors who came through Ellis Island, for example. How different were they from the folks who were trying to immigrate to the United States on the Southern border? Our border policy is broken but they’re still people.

They are and that’s the rub. They still are people. It’s hard to argue that any of us didn’t come to that.

Can we find the empathy within to understand and lift a better way to respond to things like that or things like murders in the streets? Lance, I don’t mean to end on a down note but gun violence in the United States is the number one cause of death for children under the age of eighteen.

Gun violence in the United States is the number one cause of death for children under the age of 18.

You go back to love, safety, and belonging. The other side of that argument, and I’m not advocating for anything, I don’t share my political views, are we have a lack of safety plenty of times and there’s no love. This hit me. When you told me you have a book that was Reunion, I heard it as re-union. I’m hearing the word so much differently. We got a re-union somewhere. That’s profound. I’ve said profound more on this show many times in the last few years.

As we bring this down for a landing, I’m curious because there are some of the secrets with any entrepreneur and you’re leading your organization. You also have to sell your philosophy. If somebody else says, “Hey,” your whole team has to. If I get a referral to me like, “You can talk to Lance. He’s a great guy. He does good stuff. You got to talk to Jerry. He is a great guy,” somebody else sells your reputation.

I’m sure you get into spots where you’re getting introduced. Maybe somebody is skeptical a little bit. You’re selling ideas and a pathway to things. When I say selling, I don’t want to mean it but we all have to convince or persuade people of who we are or about. What’s your approach to get people to start to buy into your philosophy, path, or the journey you bring them on?

You’re the sales training expert so I’ll tell you what I do and you tell me if this is sales.

Expert is going a step too far.

This is a quick story. I once gave a talk. Before the talk, I was standing in line waiting to get some lemonade. There was a guy in front of me. I’m wearing a name badge and I leaned over to him. I said, “I hear this guy Jerry Colonna is boring.” He turns around, sees my name, and laughs. He says, “You sound just like that guy on the podcast.” I said, “That’s funny because I am that guy.” Here’s the thing. Everything that we talked about that you defined is profound, Lance. Check in with your heart. Do I believe what I said to be true?

Yeah.

For me, I wouldn’t even call it selling. I would call it me being the guy in that podcast. You heard me first on Tim Ferriss. I hope I still sound like the guy on Tim Ferriss.

Absolutely. I feel like we’re just talking.

My approach if you will is I land on my belly and trust being me. If you and I disagree, what I see is to find a place of agreement because I want to reunite with you.

It’s so well said. When you said that last piece, we all have to convince, persuade, and get people to look one way or the other and gain alignment, especially as leaders. Somebody taught me early on that if you take the word enthusiasm and go back to Latin and Greek, it’s either a gift from the Gods or God from within. If you took the last four letters of enthusiasm, they mean, “I am sold myself,” and maybe that’s where it comes from. If anything, you can hear in Jerry’s voice that he believes in what he does and in this pathway. Jerry, I can’t thank you enough for being on. What is your newest book again?

Reunion: Leadership and the Longing to Belong.

Is there any spot where you want to direct people to this?

Reunion.Reboot.io. That’s the book website.

I hope to stay connected with you. I appreciate your time. This has been wonderful. Thanks for being on the show.

You’re welcome.

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About Jerry Colonna

Leaders are increasingly challenged to understand how to respond to a polarized world. They are grappling with addressing division while embracing otherness. But to create welcoming environments in which each member feels recognized and comfortable being their whole selves at work, we must face our own need for belonging — one that is often unmet.

In REUNION: Leadership and the Longing to Belong (HarperBusiness; Nov. 14, 2023), executive coach Jerry Colonna urges leaders to consider the ways they have been complicit in, and benefitted from, conditions they say they’d like to change, and shows them how to create new systems of inclusion for everyone. In today’s complex and divisive world, it is only through radical self-inquiry, a concept explored in Colonna’s first book Reboot, that leaders can forge systemic belonging for everyone.

Stay Prepared: Stay the Course to Succeed with Qiava Martinez

In this Against the Sales Odds episode, Lance sits down with Qiava Martinez, Las Vegas Raiders SVP and Chief Sales Officer. Qiava brings us through her journey from her education to her current position in the professional sports realm. Qiava stresses how building relationships helps determine not only your team’s success but your organizational success as well. Even through major moves and life changes, she has kept the same mentality that helped her climb through the Raiders organization. From staying prepared to building relationships, Qiava gives us insight on how to stay the course to succeed. Grab your helmets and ride into her inspiring journey to success!

Listen to the podcast here

Staying Prepared And Ready: Stay The Course To Succeed With Qiava Martinez, SVP And Chief Sales Officer Of The Las Vegas Raiders

I am so excited about this episode. I was sitting in this person’s office. I would like to welcome Qiava Martinez. She’s the Senior Vice President, Chief Sales Officer for the Las Vegas Raiders. Welcome. I appreciate you being on.

I’m so happy to be here with you, Lance.

We were just together. I got a tour of the office and was blown away by the practice facility. You walked me around. I appreciate you being on. You’re with an NFL team. You’re standing with the shield there of one of the most iconic brands in all pro sports, the Raiders. It’s probably one of the best logos too because it’s always in black. Tell us. How did you get to Senior VP, Chief Sales Officer? Tell us about your role. How did you get to this point?

It has been a long journey. I started at the Raiders back in 2008. I was hired by Jarrod Dillon, who will always have a special place in my heart, and the inside sales manager at the time who was Robert Davis. This is my third career, believe it or not. I was an entrepreneur for the longest. When Silicon Valley had the whole shakeup, I was unemployed, depressed, and all kinds of things.

One of my brothers had me go to a career fair that the Sacramento Kings were hosting and I met Robert Davis there. I don’t know why I did it but I went to the Oakland Raiders office and interviewed for an inside sales position. That was part-time, making $10 an hour. Never turn your eyes at the small beginning because I wouldn’t change that for anything. That’s where I was put into the dungeon and was making sales.

I love Robert Davis or RD. We got RD and JD or Jarrod. We love him. Before we start at the beginning because I want to get back to that inside sales role, tell us your role as SVP, Chief Sales Officer. Give the audience an idea of what falls under your purview, that org chart, and that human talent that comes up underneath you.

I have one of the best positions within this organization. I have a wonderful team. I am responsible for our corporate partnership, sales, and activation that falls underneath me as well as ticketing, premium, and premium seating. All of the sales and service efforts within the organization fall under my jurisdiction. I have a team of about 42 individuals. They’re all hustlers and wonderful. I learn from them every single day.

Tell us about the leadership team that reports to you. You named 3 or 4 teams there. If we start with sponsorship and work left to right, you have a VP who reports under you.

I have a VP of Corporate Partnerships. That’s Christian Howard. We call him X. Everyone in the industry knows him as X. He is amazing. He had been selling before I was born. He has two senior directors who report under him. That’s Dana Geary and Scott Erdmann. They’re both fantastic. On the premium side, I have Panos Pappas. He is our Vice President of Premium Sales and Service. I have a young lady named Kylee Chandler. She is our Director of Premium Hospitality and Suite Service. I can’t forget about Adam Feldman. He’s our VP of Sales and Ticket Operations.

That’s quite a bit of organization underneath you. It’s a large team. You have senior leaders who report to you too. Let’s do the comparison. We go back to 2008. That’s when this all starts and arrives here. On top of that, for some of our audience who might not be that into sports, it’s not Oakland Raiders anymore. It’s the Las Vegas Raiders. We are at the spot. We have a brand new state-of-the-art stadium. You make this transition over this period from new branding or new way. Let’s talk about this journey. Let’s go back. Did you grow up in the Bay Area?

I am from the Bay Area 510 forever. I didn’t leave. I went to UC, Berkeley. I was a poli sci major. I thought I was going to be an attorney. Look where I am.

I didn’t know we had that in common. I went to Penn State. I was a history major and a poli sci minor. I wanted to go to law school but never got there.

Right out of college, I went and worked for Morrison Foerster for two years as a legal assistant. I was like, “This isn’t for me. There’s something else outside.”

I love the liberal arts education. They’re great thinkers. There you go. You went the law school route and thought about working in that industry. What was the change for you? What happened?

What happened was that I realized that I wanted to do more. I didn’t want to go back to school. I wanted to get my career started. I come from a family of entrepreneurs. My mom was the biggest one. I had decided that maybe the route for me was to start my business. That’s when I decided that legal wasn’t for me. There’s a lot of trying to find yourself during this period as well. I started my business and became a self-publisher of a teen magazine entitled Culture. It was nationally distributed. I had a youth board where they wrote about their life issues. I would take them to the BET Awards and NAACP Awards, and we would work the red carpets.

Here we go. Turn it over, Acorns. Let’s go. I did not see that coming at all.

I was very passionate about it. That’s why when I went to the career fair, I was depressed. My brother was trying to get me out of that. My magazine had folded because all of my backers were in the real estate industry. Even though I had subscriptions, it wasn’t enough to keep me afloat. I thought that I was going to be the next Oprah. I was going to be able to say, “You get a car,” but that’s not what the plan was for me at that moment.

That is how I ended up going to the career fair because my business didn’t succeed in the way that I wanted it to but I had received a letter from a young reader who had read one of our issues about teen suicide. The writer wrote about how one of her relatives had committed suicide and how it made her feel. The teen reader wrote me a letter saying that they had contemplated suicide. With that issue, they decided not to take their life because they didn’t realize how it would make their family members feel. If my magazine was only around for that one person, so be it.

To get something like that and know that you have that reach, then you know as well as anybody that you might as well multiply that by 5 from the 5X people you didn’t hear from that it did have an effect on. It was a piece of the information they had. I also love the entrepreneurial spirit piece because I look at entrepreneurs and salespeople and think they’re cousins. I’m going to have you self-evaluate at the end based on your understanding of publishing media at this point. What advice would you give to yourself? It sounds like you had to sell. The subscriptions come along but the big piece of it is sponsorship. I want to hear the transition but I’m going to come back to that question circling that.

That’s what helped me get the job at the Raiders because I had to sell not only subscriptions but I had to get my distribution. I had to get advertisement placement within the magazine and get the backers. I did that all on my own. Jarrod Dillon was like, “You may have done that part and you haven’t had a chance to do sports sales but come on board, and let’s see what you have.”

Your brother says, “Let’s get you there.” Older brother or younger brother?

Older brother. I have seven older brothers.

He gets you squared up. You interview with RD and JD. They said, “We’re going to take you on,” but you get a part-time role.

I got a part-time role. I set a goal for myself. I was like, “Let’s set yourself apart from everyone else.” I wasn’t at the top of the leaderboard. I was coming in a little bit later. There were some great sellers up in there. Every week, we would get a list of people we should call on. Someone else could have called on that same person a month ago. I have that entrepreneurial spirit. I love working with youth groups.

I did YellowPages.com and Oakland youth groups. I printed out all the Oakland youth groups within that area and called every single one of them, asking if they were interested in group tickets. That’s where my sales journey began. I was the top seller when it came to group tickets. I was able to get all of the nonprofits to come out. I went to RD and worked on a fundraising program. If they were a legitimate 501(c)(3), they were able to raise money for the tickets that they sold. Back then in Oakland, we had lots of tickets to sell.

If you’re not in pro sports, group sales is when you’re trying to target an organization that wants to get a team of people together to celebrate something or it’s something they do every year. You correct me if I’m wrong. It’s a very customizable sale too because you can customize talking points to the group more so than regular tickets. Here’s a question. What are the top three things that you carried over from starting the magazine into that sale?

Relationship building is at the very top. It’s being proactive. The third is being consistent. It’s relationship building, being proactive, and being consistent in everything that I would do. The goal I gave myself was three months. I said, “I’m going to only do this for three months and see what comes of it.” Within two months, they promoted me to full-time. When I got to full-time, I was like, “I’m going to hustle hard, be the one who makes the most calls, turn those calls into sales, and give myself six months in this position.”

A little under four months later, Jarrod Dillon came to me and said, “We want to build a group sales department and we want you to lead it.” I was responsible for building the group sales department for the then-Oakland Raiders. It was because I set some goals. I built a niche that I was passionate about and they saw that. I was serious about what I was doing. Don’t discredit small beginnings because all of that made me who I am now. I built the group sales department and did that for a little bit. I was then called on to oversee our premium department and help sell out suites.

Don’t discredit small beginnings because that made me who you are today.

What timeframe was that in? You’re inside six months from part-time to full-time. They didn’t focus much on group sales at that point so there was a niche sale.

At that time, we did not focus on group sales. We didn’t have any programming around it. Two other sellers and I focused on youth football and multicultural activations. We put some activations behind the group sale and rewarded the group leader. This was back in the day when people weren’t focusing on that.

You’re an event planner logistics. You’re trying to pull some things together but it can be a big hit. It’s good timing for you also.

It’s the right place at the right time.

I’m not discounting the fact that your signature is all over it. They see you. If you know Jarrod Dillon, Jarrod is all about execution and so is Robert Davis. You go into the premium space starting to lead. What’s interesting about you is you have practical sales experience based on the magazine. You start pulling it off there and then you’re into a leadership position. Tell me about the premium endeavor. How long was that?

I became the Director of Premium Seating. I believe that was back in 2013 or 2014. I was able to come on that side. We had so many suites to move in Oakland. We had about 172 if I’m not mistaken. That was a lot. We didn’t have many annuals. We had our work cut out for us. I didn’t want to do it. I was like, “I’m good. I’m comfortable over here on the group sales side of things,” but sometimes you have to get out of your comfort zone. It makes you better because once I went over to the premium side, our sales team on the season ticket side was able to sell out that stadium. I wouldn’t have had a position in group sales because there were no more group tickets to move.

Sometimes, you have to get out of your comfort zone. It makes you better.

That’s based on a need thing for everybody. Without knocking the Raiders’ heritage, I want to hear from you your best description of the stadium. You have to compare and contrast. You’re in the lack of luxury at this point but you talk about coming up through hard knocks with that stadium. I grew up with the Vet Stadium in Philly. They were the same age at that point.

It’s an old building. I don’t have anything bad to say about it because it taught me so much. I don’t think that I would be able to have an outlook on where I am without the time getting buckets for leaking ceilings and making sure that rats weren’t running throughout. That helped us form better relationships with our clients because they could have easily said, “We’re not doing this,” but because of the relationships that we established with each and every one of them, they were like, “We’re bought in.”

I’m happy that we’re here in Las Vegas and embracing not only Las Vegas, Oakland, and LA, the three places that the Raiders have lived in. It has made us and shaped us into who we are. There was a time when I was selling. I also decided, “I’m going to go out in the parking lot and upsell all of these people out here who are tailgating. If they have a half plan, I’m going to put them into a full season.” I used to call that my parking lot pimping days. I have nothing but fond memories of it.

The reason I asked is because when I have some friends over and I ask the question, it’s like, “That stadium is a spirit.” Nobody will ever know it’s a spirit. You said it perfectly. I had to connect with the human. Sales aren’t B2B or B2C. It’s human-to-human. That’s what it is.

There’s a saying out there, “Don’t take business personally.” You and I may have talked about this a little bit but I take business personally because if you’re in the relationship business, then it should be personable. Every single day, I get up and take it personally.

Staying Prepared: If you’re in the relationship business, then it should be personable.

The thing is they’re asking people to move these things and it’s taking people to do it. It is personal. It’s logical and emotional. It’s both. People justify logically but make decisions emotionally. That ties in. It runs out of inventory a little bit. We start selling more tickets, which narrows what you can sell in group sales. You’re tapped on the shoulder to say, “We need help premium-wise.” You have approximately 113 to 115 suites.

A key thing that people have to understand is these suites for the most part are a lot of B2B sales. There are some individuals who will but it’s somebody who can probably afford to do it. They’re private and wealthy individuals. You’re selling not as many annual suites, which is interesting because if we talked about the inventory at the new stadium, they’re all annuals. You’re being very transactional about them there. Tell us what the strategy was.

You brought up a great point right there because one thing we knew we didn’t want to be was transactional. We wanted to make sure of relationships. Oakland is different from Las Vegas. In Las Vegas, we do have game-by-game suite sales. We renovated and added sixteen new additional suites on our club level. There’s a wonderful sight of the field from there. We have sixteen plus a couple of other corners that we’re able to sell event by event, which is great because that’s helping us build our database of those people who may potentially turn into an annual if something happens down the road.

Is that a little bit of the nature of Vegas too? You have so many people coming into the city who are traveling there. A lot of teams do that. A lot of teams have some extra suites there.

My main responsibility when we started selling here in Las Vegas was to close out Oakland. I was still in the thick of it in Oakland. We had a wonderful team here in Las Vegas. They were responsible for selling our personal seat licenses and the annual suites in our low-seat products. That team was doing all of the sales. When I transitioned over here to Vegas, I was responsible for, “How are are going to build upon these relationships? What is the service strategy behind all of the people who we have sold here in this new town and new building? What is the communication plan?”

We had to be very intentional about how we were going to start to communicate to this new base that we knew nothing about. They may not know much about who the Raiders are. We were able to build a wonderful team on our service side. In year four of the building opening, we’re finally in a place where it feels like our season ticket members know who their season ticket reps are. Our suite owners have great relationships with our suite managers.

Going back to the strategy, we looked at, “This is a lot different than Oakland. We have a lot more businesses than individuals. How are we going to effectively communicate? The point of contact may not be the person that we need to satisfy.” You may not be able to talk to Bill Hornbuckle. Even MGM is a huge partner of ours and they also own a suite. How do we also take care of the day-to-day contact to make sure that they’re happy?

We have our communication for our day-to-day contacts and our Bill Hornbuckles. We have gifts for our day-to-day contacts and our Bill Hornbuckles because we wanted to make sure that any person who touched this account also felt like they were part of the Raiders organization. We didn’t want them to feel like, “You’re just the admin. Thank you. Can you make sure that so-and-so gets this?”

You thread that in. I’m curious. Go back because you said something interesting and that’s probably an important part of the journey. Circa 2015, you get the premium job. You start managing and building that out. You mentioned also, “I was on the team that had closed out the stadium.” You weren’t even on the ground here. You were there. Talk about those years for a second. Talk about the strategy and how you had to develop leadership there. Let’s advance that to what you mentioned with relationships.

Developed leadership in Oakland or Las Vegas?

Go back to 2015. You had to close the stadium out. What kind of leadership strategy started to formulate? What was an overall sales strategy too? Is there anything you want to talk about that? That’s an interesting timeframe.

The organization wanted to make sure that the last year played in Oakland was a great year for anyone who came in and experienced it. We also allowed all of our Oakland annuals to have first right of refusal here in Las Vegas. We also allowed anyone who purchased a suite in Oakland maybe a rental for three games. It didn’t matter. We also gave them an opportunity to get in over here in Las Vegas.

The strategy was even though we’re leaving Oakland and coming to Las Vegas, you’re still a part of this legacy and story no matter where we go. We didn’t want to make it seem as though, “We’re gone. See you later.” I’m glad that I was a part of the team that closed out Oakland because as you can imagine, here is a group of clients that continue to purchase with whatever the play on the field was.

They were your loyal base. We wanted to make sure that we took care of them but at the same time, communicating to them, “You have a part in Vegas as well that we would like for you to get in on.” We had a lot take part in that. We still communicate with our Oakland base which has not transitioned over here to Las Vegas. At our game, we had one of our longtime suite owners, Linda Cole, in Oakland. She didn’t purchase here but she was with us for a long time. She purchased a single game. When I, Panos, and Kylee went into her suite to visit her, she was overjoyed. She was like, “You didn’t have to do that.”

That’s who we are. We have a slogan, “Once a Raider, always a Raider.” We mean that for our base as well. We still communicate with them. Hopefully, they will find an opportunity to purchase. If it’s not a Raider game suite, maybe it’s a third-party event. For the Pro Bowl, we invited a lot of our Oakland annuals that did not purchase. We invited them and hosted them in a suite. We’re making sure that the base who supported us for such a long time doesn’t feel like they’re left out.

Once a Raider, always a Raider.

When you start looking at your leadership style from that standpoint, what were some obstacles you ran up against? What did you start to realize? At this point, you had a career change. You ran your business. You start to perform. You’re given the opportunity to start putting the strategy together and lead a team there. In that transition period, what did you realize about your leadership style?

There were some ups and downs but there were all great learning experiences. I had great leadership in Marc Badain who was our president and now Sandra Douglass Morgan. I’m still learning but my leadership style is more along the lines of servitude because if I can help develop someone from my tree, and they’re able to go on, get a position elsewhere, and grow, that makes me proud. I want to make sure that I give my team the best resources to succeed.

For example, I implemented leadership breakfasts where any single person on my team, it doesn’t matter if you’re a coordinator or a VP, has the opportunity to sit down with senior leadership and have breakfast. There’s no agenda. Sandra and all of the other SVPs and chiefs have sat down with my team, and we got to know them on a personal basis. We’re implementing more training for them.

I also have a group of senior managers. They’re the eyes and the ears of this department. They come to me. I meet with them once a month and they give me feedback on ways that we can get better, “What are our challenges? How do we get through this?” I had great leadership also from watching my parents growing up and that’s where I believe I get the servitude from.

They had a nonprofit organization where they helped youth and that’s probably where I get that from as well. It was Youth Achieving Destiny. My determination comes from my mom and my dad. My dad played in the NFL. He played for the San Francisco 49ers. It was part of the first Super Bowl. I learned a lot from them. I also learned that your title is your title but how you treat people is how they remember you. You have to treat people the way you want to be treated.

Staying Prepared: You have to treat people the way you want to be treated.

You talk about your employees like the service that you give a customer, which is interesting because you have internal customers and external customers. We talked about this before. You have to recruit your people twice, once to be here and once to stay. That’s so important. It’s servitude or service. It’s selfless leadership from some standpoint. It doesn’t always have to be your idea.

You have to walk the talk. I can’t say it and not do it. I’ve been in this business for quite a long time. I haven’t always made the right choices and that’s okay. The key is, “Did I learn from them?”

That is okay too.

I admit when I am wrong. That is also okay. If more leaders did that, we would have better teams. I feel as though the output that I receive from my team is they feel like they also have a seat at the table. I know what it feels like to not have a seat at the table. I like to tell people, “If you don’t have a seat, build your table and invite those to it.” I don’t want to be the one who has the only idea in the room. If we’re going to get to the best solution, it’s going to take diverse thought. That’s what you have to do. You have to make your people believe in themselves so that they have the courage to speak up.

It’s the other thing too. I always find that in great leaders, it doesn’t matter what industry. They break bread. That’s the first thing you went to, “Let’s break some bread and sit down. Let’s have dinner, lunch, or breakfast.” I’m always telling salespeople too, “Have breakfast because that’s usually the cheapest meal anyway. At least have breakfast with them. Everybody likes an Egg McMuffin at the end of the day.” You close out that stadium. What year? Talk about your role in the new building from there.

We closed out the building in 2019, moved to Las Vegas, and came over here. I was in the offices for about two months and then COVID happened.

It sounds like we were creeping up on that. You opened the office. You’re there for two months and then everything slams in everything.

I didn’t get an opportunity to get out into the community. I had a plan, “I’m going to go to this mixer, chamber event, and gala so that I can start meeting people. I want to have lunches with all of our suite owners.” All of that was shut down.

Were you still in the role of the premium side of the business when you came over?

I was on the premium side of the business. We had to become creative. There were all of the regulations. We couldn’t do anything. When social distancing came out, we had an idea. We wanted to make sure that our suite owners had the opportunity to see their suites. We hosted a couple of away-game viewing parties. Each suite owner was able to only invite 6 to 8 guests. They were in their little pod. They were able to watch the NFL game even though we had a year with no fans in the building.

We wanted them to still have the opportunity to experience it. They’re paying all this money. We wanted them to experience it. We hosted a draft party. We started to do little things around a smaller group of people where we could make touchpoints with them. Everything was lifted. People were still a little like, “I don’t know if I want to come to this event or meet with you for lunch.” I had so many lunches and breakfasts. I had to get a Peloton to help myself.

That’s a good investment. I’m with you on that one. Did you change anything about your style? You talk about compare and contrast. You were going from a certain marketplace that looked at the Raiders one way to this whole new market. Did you change anything? Was it more of the same or less? What was it?

I’m glad you asked that question because there’s a little voice inside each of us that tries to bring in that self-doubt. Coming to Las Vegas, I was like, “Maybe my tactic isn’t good enough. Maybe I should start looking at what all of these higher-end people are doing and latch on to them,” but then I was like, “At the end of the day, it’s relationships. I know I keep saying that. I am who I am and my style is what it is. That’s because there’s only one Qiava and I’m going to continue to be that person.” At the end of the day, I didn’t change anything.

Staying Prepared: I am who I am, and my style is what it is.

I didn’t suspect you. When I was in your offices not long ago, we had connected once before. I felt like I had known you for 100 years. We sat down and relaxed. If that’s any marker of how you are with your people and the customers, I was like, “Don’t do a damn thing differently.” Let’s get back to the top then because we have taken this journey. I congratulate you on this. Your name has come up in a ton of spots in the circles I run with. I admire the fact that you’ve run the course with the Raiders. There are not many people who have run the course.

Everybody goes through their seasons in their career, the falls, winters, springs, and summers. There probably have been plenty of opportunities but I admire the fact that you stayed there. You planted the seeds and look where you are inside sales. You talk about a journey. That’s a hell of a journey. When did you get tapped on the shoulder? When did they say, “Think of this role?” Was there an interim move between premiums? What was it?

We had some changes. There was the opportunity for the Raiders to look at bringing in a chief sales officer. During that time, I was over premium, sales, and service. I was tapped on the shoulder to interview for the chief sales officer position. I never thought that there would be an opportunity to do that.

Did they ever have a chief sales officer before that role came into play? Was there one before that?

They changed it. It was a chief revenue officer over to the chief sales officer. Underneath the chief revenue officer position was Raider Image retail but retail falls underneath our CFO. This one is strictly all of the sales efforts for the organization.

You were setting on a role that wasn’t there. There were parts of the role. Without going into it, there are a lot of changes you have to navigate politically as a leader and things like that. That’s always tough, especially when you’ve worked for those people. You have a healthy respect for legacy, which I admire. You got tapped on the shoulder to interview and got it.

I would tell everyone to make sure that you stay prepared. You stay ready so you don’t have to get ready. I took this to heart when I was tapped and I said, “I’m going to go for it and give it my all.” I put together a PowerPoint, a plan, and a strategy and then took it a step further. I said, “I’m okay with PowerPoint. Let me hire someone to make this PowerPoint look a certain way.”

Make sure that you stay prepared. Stay ready so you don’t have to get ready.

There’s something to be said about the presentation. If I’ve learned anything, the cover of a book matters.

I interviewed a couple of times, and then it was decided that we were going to make the position interim to allow the next president to make that decision. I did that for a couple of months and then Sandra was named president. I interviewed her and then she made her decision. It was the right choice.

This role becomes wide. I’m curious. I’m going to assume you have to take your personal philosophy. That philosophy has to become part of your strategy and then you have to embed that into your leaders. What was the biggest adjustment you made to all that?

I can do ticketing and premium on my sleep. I can do backflips and all of that. It was the corporate partnership piece that I was like, “This is new territory for me,” but I’m comfortable with saying, “I don’t know this side of the business. I want to sit here and learn from each one of you, which I do. I want to hear what the challenges are and where our opportunities are.” I did that.

Christian Howard is fantastic. He can sell a t-shirt off of a person. He’s that great. I was able to come on board and put some processes in place. We also have two wonderful sales directors. They were promoted. Karen Fontana and Holly have been in this industry for a while. I was able to evaluate and look at all of their strengths and say, “This is an opportunity for people to be promoted.” We have Dana who has been running our activations team and I was able to learn a lot from her. I have a better hold on this partnership piece of the business.

I’m going to go back to what you said. Stay ready to be ready. If I’m going to analyze your career, you were made for sponsorship, and here’s why. You go back to the magazine. To be able to draft the strategy for that and see how it was going to enter the market, that’s everything you do with partnerships. On top of that, you then go to groups, which you gravitate to. That’s more of a partnership sale than a ticket sale because when you sell premium, it’s a box. When you sell a group, it’s a concept. It’s different. You’re already made for it. I am going to say one thing. You’re a people-first leader. I don’t think anybody has ever accused you of micromanaging unless you were uncomfortable with the results.

There have been times when I was uncomfortable with the results.

Everything you’re saying though says, “I want to listen to what you have to say.” I didn’t hear, “I’m going to have my opinion,” because you’re not afraid to give your opinion. I know that but when you talk about customers and your people, you’re not the classic micromanager. I can tell when somebody is a micromanager because I deal with so many. That’s so interesting. I love this. If you want to be ready, you better stay ready. Now that you’ve added this bigger executive piece to mid-level management, what’s the core philosophy that you communicate to your leaders on a day-to-day basis? You want them doing what? What is that?

I want them to walk with a certain air of humility because there are people who are watching you who you may not know are watching you. It’s the person who wants to be the next Qiava or the person who’s going to be the next whatever. Walk with integrity and humility. There’s nothing beneath you. If you see a piece of trash in the stadium, pick it up. Don’t walk over it. Make sure that you’re communicating with your team and leading by example.

Your repetition is your reputation. I’m going to ask you a tough question because I was watching your body language and we’re going to bring this down for a landing. You can’t answer both because I’m going to dive in here with you. When you start to talk about your family, your brother, your mom, and your dad, you have to pick one. Mom and Dad or whoever is reading, this means nothing else but on the back end, who’s your person? Who has helped you the most? You have to pick one. I know it’s going to be hard for you. Go.

I have 7 brothers and 1 sister.

You have a big range. You have to go. Who’s your person? Who’s your plugin?

They all mean so much to me in so many different ways. They all help me and their stories are my stories.

Where are you in the mix?

I am the oldest girl but I’m number four. I’m going to have to say it’s my mom.

How come?

She is the Kris Jenner of this family. I went to lunch and called her up. She was like, “What’s next? What are you working on next?” She’s always pushing us to be better and have more than one income stream. She’s like, “This is great but what’s next?” She’s pushing us. At the age of 72, my mother, Roxane Harper, got a US patent.

For what? What are you getting a patent at 72 for?

She invented what she calls baby bumpers that you put over the furniture and then you could take it off.

It sounds like she has had people in her life who have run into stuff.

She had nine of us.

Maybe we’re going to have to get Roxane on the show.

We have to get Roxane on. If you make me choose, I’m going to have to go with her but my mom and dad are one. If you see my mom, you see my dad. He’s right there with her.

When I talk to leaders because there’s a decisiveness that has to go, I’m like, “Pick one. That’s the toughest one you have to pick when you got all those family members.” My wife has taught me the concept of who is your person.

It’s my mother.

That’s probably the person you call when you want to celebrate summer and there’s nothing wrong with that. That’s your person.

She’s my person when I want to celebrate, cry, and all of the above. She’s always pushing. My husband too. I have to give him a shout-out, Jonathan Martinez. I wouldn’t be where I am without his encouragement. He also motivates me. There was a time when I was like, “I’m going to change my leadership style. I’m not going to be as personable and let people know who I am.” He was like, “You can’t do that.”

That wouldn’t work for you in a million years. I wouldn’t even believe it. It wouldn’t even work. Here are the last couple of questions. The first one is you have to pick a song. You’re going in. Your team is going to do a monster deal. What’s that song playing in your head?

I’m a Boss.

You didn’t have to think about it. Next question, I’m going to assume with that many siblings, you probably have some nieces and nephews.

Lots of them.

Take your nieces and nephews. It doesn’t matter who it is. There are two of them who come up to you, one niece and one nephew. They say, “Auntie Qiava,” or how they refer to you. Most of mine call me LT. They’re between 7 and 9. Think of that age group. They say, “What does it mean to be successful?” You have to give it to them like that.

It means that you were able to do the best of your ability for the one thing that you love the most.

You can do the best of your ability for the one thing that you love the most.

Here’s the last one down for landing. I don’t know if you gift books but if you had to gift a book, of all the things that you read and experienced, what book would you gift?

God Heals Cancer and Everything Else

There are tons of industry books out there but the one that means the most to me is the book that my mother wrote. She wrote a book, God Heals Cancer and Everything Else. It’s her journey of being diagnosed with cancer and also not having it anymore. I appreciate that story the most because when she was diagnosed, that was years ago, and my mom is still here. My person is still here.

I knew we would have so much fun. I know so much more about you now. I’m so excited. Thank you for being on. Thank you for two things. Stay ready to be ready and talk about extreme candor. You can see it all over your face. Thank you so much. I appreciate you.

I appreciate you.

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About Qiava Martinez

Qiava Martinez is in her 15th year with the Raiders. As the SVP and Chief Sales Officer, Martinez is responsible for leading and managing all sales and customer retention efforts for the Raiders and Allegiant Stadium events through monetizing corporate partnerships, suites, and premium and season ticket sales. Prior to being named SVP and Chief Sales Officer, Martinez was Vice President of Premium Service and Guest Experience for the Las Vegas Raiders. During the Las Vegas relocation period, Martinez was part of the PSL, Suite, and Loge Seat sales sales strategy.

Martinez began her career with the Raiders in 2008 as an Inside Sales Ticket Representative, then was elevated to Director of Group Sales and Fundraising for three years. Shortly after, Martinez was promoted to the Vice President of Premium Seating and Service. In 2022, Martinez was awarded the Inspirational Woman in Sports from WISE Las Vegas. In 2016, Martinez was honored as one of the Powerful Women of the Bay Area. The award celebrates women passionate about educating, empowering, and connecting with women in business and the community.

Prior to pursuing a career in the sports industry, Martinez was the publisher and owner of Culture Magazine, an outlet used by teenage writers to express their life experiences. Martinez also served as Executive Director for Youth Achieving Destiny, a youth organization that served underprivileged youth by teaching entrepreneurship training and development. Born into a football family, Martinez’s father, Willie Harper, played in the NFL for 13 years (11 with the San Francisco 49ers).

Her brother, Matthew Harper, is the defensive backs coach for the 49ers. Her youngest brother, Josh Harper, was signed as an undrafted free agent by the Oakland Raiders in 2015. Martinez earned her Bachelor of Arts in political science from the University of California, Berkeley. She also received a Master’s in Business Administration from the University of Phoenix, Bay Area Chapter. She also sits on the following youth and sports-focused boards: Teach For America Las Vegas Chapter and the Icy Baby Foundation. She and her husband, Jonathan, reside in Henderson, NV, with their daughter, Harper.

Intentional Mastery With William Buist: Mentor, Speaker, & Author

True mastery isn’t a destination, but a deliberate journey where expertise, purpose, and joy intertwine to build better businesses and a more fulfilling life. In this episode, host Lance Tyson sits down with William Buist— speaker, mentor, and the author of Intentional Mastery. Together, they discuss the art of intentional mastery and its profound impact on building better businesses. William’s latest book serves as the foundation of the discussion, where he explores the three distinct phases of intentional mastery – the beginning of mastery, masterful strategies, and mastering joy. William also brings us through his journey (the joy you have to find in it) and the meaning of powerful words such as purpose, communication, skill, and strategy. This episode is brought to you all the way from England! Tune in now to align passion with purpose on your journey of intentional mastery.

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Intentional Mastery With William Buist: Mentor, Speaker, & Author

I’m really excited about this episode. I’d like to introduce William Buist. He’s a speaker and mentor. He wrote a book called Intentional Mastery. I thought having William on this episode would be important because so many of our clients at Tyson Group and people who tune in to our show are looking to grow their own businesses or lead their businesses to be more successful. It could even be some folks who are in sales who are looking to ultimately advance their career or journey.

William, welcome to the program. I appreciate you being on from the UK.

Thank you, Lance. It’s great to be here. I am looking forward to a fun conversation.

William and I were catching up. I was telling him I was sucked down a rabbit hole of watching the History Channel show Vikings for the second time. A lot of it is about the history of England and things like that. I was telling him I was familiarizing myself with different locations in England. You said you’re right between where again?

I’m in between Oxford and Newby, right in the middle of England. It is a little bit North of the M4, for those who know that major motorway across the country.

As we were talking about your speaking business and mentoring, and we’re going to get into your book, what got you to a spot where people were acquiring your services and your advice? What got you here to write a book?

I started my own business in 2004. It was after a career in the insurance industry where I’d been running some big projects and putting teams together within a large organization in one of the big British banks. I got to realize that running a big project in a large organization is like running a small business on your own. I found that quite exciting, so I set up my own business.

There was an awful lot to learn early on. There were lots of things from the outside that you think will be easy to do and they’re not that easy. You have to learn, do the miles, and get the experience under your belt. That got me curious about how people, developers, or business owners become the experts and masters of what they do. What do those things look like? What effort do they need to make to make those transitions? Through the years that I’ve been running my own business, I’ve been watching, listening, and asking questions about the businesses that I’ve worked with to understand that transition and that journey. I got to write it all down as well in the book. That was quite exciting, too.

I‘m always curious about titles, being an author myself, I always go back and forth. I’m like, “Is this the right title? Does this represent the pathway?” You chose intentional mastery. Why that?

You’re right. We went backward and forward with my publisher, to and fro, playing with different possible titles. All of them were related to mastery in some form or another. The two words are important. First of all, mastery is about something that’s more of an expertise. We’ve all probably met people who we can recognize have got something special in the area of knowledge that they are specialists in. They stand out. They’re not just an expert. They are probably the experts. They are the world experts or the ones who are right at the top of the game. It’s usually something very narrow. We were talking before the show. You had a great example of somebody who’s a specialist in looking after log cabins.

That’s right.

It’s possible to narrow down the niche to something really small but know everything there is to know about it and then become well-known for that.

The more I thought about the log cabin example in your business, especially the title of the book, what is interesting is you look at these people who are expert goalkeepers in sport. They’ve mastered that. It could be somebody who’s a speaker on botany and they get paid millions of dollars to go speak on botany. I’m making that up. In the US, there’s a saying called the riches are in the niches. We say niches in the US, but that’s niche. When you say niche, you’re right there. By intentional, do you mean on purpose?

The intentional part was a recognition that when I looked at the people who had become masters, it wasn’t something that happened accidentally. It happened because they made decisions early on as they were developing. They were thinking, “What do I need to do to get more knowledge, skill, and experience in this topic?” Also, they were intentional about narrowing it down.

Football is a great example. You look at the Premier League in the UK. This is soccer we’re talking about here. This is the round ball rather than the oval one. There are players who play the front and the attack or strikers. There are players like goalkeepers who are there to stop the other team from scoring. They’re very different skills. If you take a goalkeeper in the premier division, he’d be mediocre if he was out on the field because his expertise is in soccer but his mastery is at goalkeeping.

The other thing about mastery is things happen organically for a reason. As I was talking to you about how I was learning the map of England watching the show, I even thought about that show and thought about the trades and somebody who forged a sword. You talk about this in the book. You talk about the journey in the book. Mastery is not something you do. It’s something you arrive at through a journey.

If somebody was forging a sword, and not to genderfy this at all, you’d be an apprentice or journeyman, and then ultimately, you’d become a master. People would come to you because you were the master of making a sword a certain way. Is that where the mastery part came with the title also? It’s a strong word.

The intentional part is that you can’t make those choices about which niche to choose without being intentional about it or without making a conscious decision. If you’re a school kid playing football, you might play in all the positions. There’s a point at which you say, “If I’m going to be really good here, I need to make a choice. I’m going to be a goalkeeper. I’m going to be a forward.” That’s the intentional part, and then you develop.

Intentional Mastery: You can’t make those choices about which niche to choose without being intentional about it, without making a conscious decision.

The words you used are great. I talk about people who right at the beginning of the journey are explorers. They know nothing, so they’re looking for knowledge. As they get that knowledge, they start to develop a bit of the skill. They are what I call novices. Novices make lots of mistakes. They learn from those mistakes. They’re building and developing the skill in the first place then they become practitioners.

Most of what we do in most things will be at the practitioner level. Our employees in the businesses of teams are good at what they do in the context they do it. They’ve got skill and knowledge. They’re doing a great job every day. Maybe what they need to move to expertise is experience. It’s no surprise to me that those two words, experience and expertise, are closely linked in terms of the origins of the word. The experts will have used that experience to be able to take and do the job, whatever it is, in almost any circumstance.

I agree. It’s interesting that you’re saying that because I’m big on the meanings of words. Too many people throw words around and they don’t know what they mean. I was talking to a group of executives. We were talking about decisive. They kept throwing that around like, “We got to be decisive.” I said, “Do you know what that word means in Latin and Greek?” They said, “No.” I said, “That means to cut off from.” It’s very similar to the word incision. It means to cut from. When you make a decision, you’re cutting from any other possibility. The word is very strong. Are you ready to make a decision or are you toying around with this? Your use of words there is outstanding.

For the audience, as we were talking in our pregame, William and I were talking about an example. My wife and I had made an investment in a log cabin. I didn’t know anything about log cabins and quickly stated. I realized that every year, for three months of the year, we battle carpenter bees. I noticed there are holes in the cabins. I sought out somebody who was an expert in log cabins. I didn’t realize that was a whole business.

When I talked to that gentleman, he did something else. He built a log cabin and decided there was a better way and make these connections. He would practice and they gained the experience. He is the foremost expert or the master. There are probably only ten of them around the world when I researched. You happen to be close by. That is that journey. That’s a wonderful example. Nobody thinks through it that way. They think they’re going to arrive and be this expert or master. It doesn’t happen that way. It takes a while.

We can end up in a career where we are doing a great job for the business. We are part of a great team doing great stuff. We’re doing the same things every day. Unless we step out and start saying, “How do I get new experience? How do I do this? The fact that I’m doing it in a way that works doesn’t mean it’s the best way. How do I get new insight?”

One of the things with mastery as opposed to expertise is that the masters are bringing insight from other aspects of life and other things they come across. As an example, you were talking earlier about the Vikings and watching the program again and learning about European and British history. There will be some insights that will trigger a thought in you about selling the coaching that you do that enables you to think, “There’s an analogy here. I can draw something from the way the Vikings built swords and apply it in the context of making a decision.”

If you make a sword with a strong blade that is sharp and stays sharp, you can make more decisive decisions and make them last longer. There’s something around that. With what the masters do, they make those connections that help other people to get hold of the understanding that they need. Your expert in carpenter bees, I’m sure, was explaining to you what was happening, what they were doing, why you needed to take action, and what sort of action you could take but in the language, you could understand without the knowledge that he has from the years of work that he has done it. That’s a little piece of mastery, too.

That is a great lesson there. As I was looking at your book, I was reflecting on myself and where my business is. I announced to my executive team that I was going to start to take a little bit of a different role in the business. I called it the five Rs. I was going to focus on Revenue, Relationships, Recognition, Recruiting, and the last thing was Refinement. That was a refinement of the whole business.

As I decided that I had to master not being Lance the salesperson or the trainer, and I don’t do all of our training because I do probably less than 20%, I realized with some of that time being spent, I got to master scaling a business. You broke your book into three parts. The first part is the beginning of mastery, and then you said masterful strategies and then mastering joy. Talk a little bit about that first grouping. I like that you broke it up and there are chapters inside of each of those sections. There was a flow to me there that I noticed immediately.

I think of that first piece in the beginning of mastery. You said, “You have to decide that you’re going to build a better business because your audience is those small to mid-size businesses and the people that operate those,” so those masters. You talk about the concept of mastery and then you get into purpose. Talk about that section. If you’re me as Lance the business owner or the present CEO of a small to mid-size training company, talk to me about that first piece.

The first chapter is about building a better business. I want to make it clear that better isn’t something I’ve defined. I’m not saying that there is a form of better that everybody should aspire to. Better is a very personal thing. For some people, a better business is a bigger business. For other people, a better business is one that gets better reviews on Trustpilot from its customers. It might be one does better in environmental work. It could mean any number of things to a business owner.

The first part of that first section is encouraging people to step back and think, “What does better mean for me and my business?” You’ve touched on that. You said you wanted refinement. The piece of what you talked about is about making your business better. You want to refine it. That’s important. The second part of this is thinking about why that is important. What’s the purpose behind that better business? What skills does it need? What expertise or mastery does it need to make that change to make it a better business? That’s what that whole first section explores and encourages people to think about and challenge themselves to define it.

As I read that, I said to myself, “What I feel William is saying to me at this point is I have a current situation and there’s a desired situation. I have to address the fact that there’s a gap there.” If that current situation and the desired situation are close together, I’ll probably do nothing. That might not make me a master. That might make me an operator. If the current and desired have a gap there, I’ll want to make that journey. It’s the should-be or the could-be or however you say it. Would you agree with that at some level?

Yeah, I do. This is why purpose is so important. You won’t make that journey if it’s not important to you at an emotional level as well.

Purpose is so important because you won’t make that journey if it’s not important to you at an emotional level as well.

From there, I like the next grouping. I was listening to something. It was masterful strategies. I was watching an interview. There’s a military leader in the US. He has a really good and colorful name, which is Mad Dog Mattis. He was the Marine Commandant during the Trump administration. I don’t want to get into politics. He was the Secretary of Defense and had left the organization. He had a lot of good quotes. He wrote a book that is on my list that I’m going to read.

He said that strategy is about priorities. That struck me. I put it in my Evernote. I said, “Your strategy is about prioritization.” Everybody looks for those 1 or 2 things to make something complex very simple. You said masterful strategies have six components. One is strategy, self, skill, system, and sales. I jumped on this word, which is signposting. I was like, “What the heck is signposting?” I read it and I go, “That’s like marketing.” It was a different word than I heard. We were talking about the difference. Even though we both speak English, some words mean little things differently. Talk about those masterful strategies a little bit.

I’ll start with the signposting thing. It is marketing, but it’s more than that. It’s thinking about all of the ways that the business communicates with its stakeholders. That might be marketing to new prospects, but it’s also about how you construct your communications with customer service emails and all that stuff, too.

I talk about signposting because a lot of businesses try to tell their prospects everything all at once. If you imagine driving down a freeway as you would in the States or a motorway as we do in the UK, if every destination that you could go to on that freeway was on every sign, you would never be able to read them all. They’d be far too complicated.

What we have in the UK, we have signs that say things like, “The West,” on the M4. If you’re heading out of London towards the West Country, it says, “The West.” That’s telling a driver that they’re on the right road. If they’re intending to head West, they know they’re on the right road. That’s okay. They don’t need to know that it’s near Bristol until they’re near Bristol. What I’m talking about in that section of the book is thinking about your communication so that you tell people what they need to know, but importantly, you tell it to them when they need to know it.

That was a deeper dive for me. Talk about some of the other things. I get excited when you say sales. Anything around sales, I wag my tail. Talk a little bit about the other connections there.

A business without sales isn’t going to last that long, so it’s really important.

A business without sales isn’t going to last that long.

I tell my customers all the time, “Sales solves a lot of problems.” At the end of the day, make a sale and everybody is happy. We had the youngest person on our staff. Her name is Stacy. She’s one of our newest salespeople. She made the first big sale of her career by herself with no help. She was ecstatic. Sales cures a lot of ails.

She’ll remember that first one for a long time.

You’d be proud of us. We celebrated on Slack. We called her. She’s out in California and we’re here. She was pretty jacked up about it. It was good stuff.

That leads to one of the other strategies, which is about good systems and having the means in place in the business so that you can be consistent. Good systems will make sure that if you’ve got great customer service, every customer gets it because you’re finding the same pattern.

A predictable process yields predictable results. I say this a lot of times and some people don’t realize it. I go, “Isn’t it amazing that there’s a company out there that produces millions of dollars per store and it is run by teenagers?” Somebody says, “Who’s that?” I go, “McDonald’s. McDonald’s is run by teenagers. Every store is run by a teenager. Do you ever think of why they’re so successful?” I was saying to one of my sons, “It is because everybody that works there knows when the beep goes off to take the fries out of the bin and pour a little salt on the box.” The systems are predictable. It’s a franchised way to think, but I agree. The system drives success.

Whether you love McDonald’s or hate them, you know what you’re going to get. The systems thinking in a nutshell works really well. Two others then. Skill is clearly important. You need not just the skill that you are a master in, but a business needs a whole range of skills. It’s got to be able to sell. It’s got to do customer service. It’s got to have accounts, be able to collect money, and all of those other skills. We’re not going to be good at all of them. Doing an audit and cross-checking that you’ve got all the skills you need in the business or maybe you buy in and outsource with other companies to provide them is an important strategy to make sure that everything runs smoothly.

The last one is the most important. It’s about the business owner and the business leader themselves looking after their own emotional awareness, their physical well-being, and their mental resilience. If you’re running a business and you’re not there because you’re ill, the business isn’t going to run as well and might even fall apart completely. You’ve got to be reasonably fit and healthy. You’ve got to be looking after yourself. One of the things I’ve seen over the years I’ve been running my business is the businesses that are successful have got healthy people at the helm.

Intentional Mastery: The most important thing about the business owner or the business leader is looking after their own emotional awareness, their physical well-being, and their mental resilience.

I would agree with that. I talk a lot even with my own clients about how it is pretty hard to lead an organization if you can’t lead yourself. It’s almost stoic thinking. Seneca said it. You’re going to struggle leading other people if you can’t lead yourself. That’s a holistic approach. It’s health and mindset. I was saying something to one of my clients. She was upset about some things. She was upset about her dating life and what was going on internally.

She goes, “I can’t even get this right.” I said to her, “Sometimes, your mind is like a bad neighborhood. It’s not good to be alone in it sometimes. You might need to talk to some people more about all kinds of things than this because you get so hyper-focused. It’s offsetting your personal life.” That’s where she was going.

It’s a really important point. It’s important for all of us to have the opportunity to take time away. Some things will bring us stress. If you run a business, there will be times when it’s stressful. There’s no escaping that. You need that time to step away and say, “What gives me joy?” It leads us into the last part of the book as well.

I’m sure your clients are always looking at markers that drive success. There are very natural markers like what’s revenue, what’s our profit margins, and all those things. There are two simple questions. I always ask one question. What’s your brutal truth? You could be like, “What do you mean?” What’s your brutal truth is your business or however you want to answer it. I don’t care. That’s not positive or negative.

With the other thing I always ask, you probably know this. I don’t know if you’ve ever thought about this. It’s interesting. I rank my own business. I have successes. How long could I go on vacation before the business turned into Lord of the Flies? It’s easy to say to go, but can you leave because you have your fingers and everything? I ask decision-makers all the time, “Could you go away and relax?” I know for myself, it takes three days before I calm down and unplug. Would you agree with that at some level?

Absolutely. My partner and I both enjoy skiing so we take time in the winter to go away skiing. The first day or two, there was always this hangover from the business. It is like a hangover. It’s like having drank too much the night before. There are all these things in your mind that you think, “I wish I’d done that before I’d gone away. I wish I cleared that bit up. Don’t send that email.” Nobody is really that worried about it.

This one thing is not going to kill it. If everything is a priority, nothing is a priority at the end of the day. Let’s get into that joy. You said making a difference, sharing insight, and being yourself. There were concepts in that very third section. Talk about that piece. You picked a word there that when I looked at the word, I was like, “I don’t know if I love the word joy.” As I started to read it, I thought, “I can understand why he wrote it that way.” Talk about that.

I don’t think being masterful or being a master at something could ever happen if it wasn’t something that brought you a lot of joy as well. It’s knowing that you’ve done a great job. I can see from our conversations and reading your books how much sales means to you. You are getting to see the joy in that whole process and in helping people to become better at selling. You talked about the person in your business who has made their first sale. I could see the joy and the pleasure you were taking from their success. To me, that’s the piece around mastering joy. If you are bringing something to the world through your talent and the skill that you’ve developed over a lifetime, it sure as hell should be bringing you joy. Otherwise, what’s the point?

Being masterful or being a master at something may not ever happen if it wasn’t something that brought you a lot of joy as well.

Intentional Mastery: Step Beyond your Expertise and Build Better Business by William Buist

Would you type pride in work to that joy, too?

Absolutely. Sometimes, people look at people who are making a big deal of the great work they’re doing and might even think it’s a little bit arrogant. This is about recognizing the effort that you’ve put in to get there.

Also, as I read through this, I hate to be the 50-year-old who says, “When I was younger, etc.” I don’t buy into that. As we all get older, it looks a little different and feels a little different, so it had to be different. I look more at what’s the same every time than different. Even coming up through the ranks myself, you would look at somebody who was a master at something or successful at something, however you defined it, and think sometimes they arrived there. We don’t respect the journey. If you said the current situation is everything from now and what has happened in the past, the history, there is pride of ownership and in delivery.

The guy that did the log cabin, we’ll go back to that. I might have to throw his name out there. He had great joy in educating me. I know more about log cabins. I know what’s great about my log cabin because he took pride and joy in educating me about log cabins. It wasn’t a waste of time because he made it sound interesting. He was an expert. He was a master at that. He even said, “Your log cabins look like Lincoln logs. Do you know what that means?” I go, “No. What does that mean?” They were set like one log was engineering another. He goes, “This is a good log cabin. It was engineered really well.” I’m like, “That’s great. I made a good investment.” I felt good. He took that pride in things.

I love our conversation. As you’re reading, there are the beginnings of mastery of purpose and intentionality with the title, then there are strategies. The strategy I took is you have to be able to lead yourself at some level and then know the direction you’re going. That last thing is you make a difference and have joy about it and have pride about it, but that comes from the journey. You don’t arrive there one day because it’s all on purpose. I appreciate you being on. Where can my audience connect with you and buy your book? If they wanted to ask you a question, how would they do that?

Thanks, Lance. I have an unusual surname. You can find me on LinkedIn. There are only 1 or 2 others with that surname, so I’m quite easy to track down. WilliamBuist.com is my website. You can reach me there. As far as the book, you can get the book on my website. You can find links there to buy that or it’s available at Amazon. It’s on Audiobooks as well. You can have a few hours of me reading the book to you if that’s your favor. It’s on Kindle too.

William Buist, Intentional Mastery: Step Beyond Your Expertise and Build a Better Business, I appreciate our time. I’m sure we will stay connected. Thank you so much for being on the show.

That’s great. Thank you very much, Lance. It was lovely to talk to you.

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William Buist enables business owners to become the masters of their markets, operate more effectively, and stand out from all their competitors. With a strategic focus on building better business daily, his clients are at the heart of their work, making better decisions and empowered to excel.

William thrives at supporting his clients as they develop a better, resonant understanding of their strategic intentions to create a company that is more aligned with their purpose. He knows that by asking the right questions, effective decisions will result. Those judgments will be based on a deeper, more complete understanding because of an unbiased analysis of the appropriate elements.

William prides himself on his well-honed skill, posing questions that unlock blocks and barriers. William is a speaker, business mentor, and author of “Intentional Mastery: Step Beyond Your Expertise and Build Better Business.” He is a keen photographer, walker, and skier.

William Buist works with business owners so they become masters in their markets and stand out from competitors. Through a daily focus on building better businesses, clients make better decisions and are empowered to excel. William is a speaker, author, and business mentor and enjoys photography and skiing.

Dan Lefton On Calculating Risks And Putting People First

In this episode, Lance Tyson has a profound talk with Dan Lefton, Chief Revenue Officer and EVP of the Detroit Pistons. Dan walks us through his professional journey, from his time in Philadelphia, to what landed him in Detroit, and everything in between! He brings tremendous wisdom not only from his mentors but also from his own personal experiences, from calculating the right amount of risk to standing his ground on issues that matter. One of Dan’s highest priorities is making sure he and his team provide solution-based thinking for partners and clients, and always putting their needs first.

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Dan Lefton On Calculating Risks And Putting People First

This is one of those episodes that I’m talking to somebody I’ve known for a while and we have a lot of laughs with each other. We both pride ourselves on being extremely good negotiators and we are always elbowing each other. I’d like to welcome Dan Lefton, Chief Revenue Officer for the Detroit Pistons, to the show. Dan, how are you doing?

I’m great, Lance. This is long overdue. I am looking forward to doing it.

We’re having dinner not long ago talking about this. I was like, “I can’t wait for this one.” I know the audience. Everybody knows what a chief revenue officer does, but my experience is different titles wear different hats. Tell everybody about your role now, how many people report up to you, the major goal of your job, and major KPI.

As you noted, there are a couple of traditional verticals that roll up to me, all revenue-driving. Our corporate partnerships department and engagement and service teams are under my purview. All ticketing, hospitality, and service as well. The one piece that might be a little bit different is that all of business intelligence is under my purview.

I love having that piece because our business intelligence unit is a couple of things that you might find interesting. One, that is one team within the Detroit Pistons that is 100% remote. When you think about coming out of the pandemic and what are some things that have changed, that team’s completely remote. We’ve got people from all over the US who are part of that team.

That team serves as an agency of record for the organization. Certainly, the majority of the time, they’re supporting revenue, helping with ticketing pricing, distribution strategy, the partnership side, providing research and insights, and then for the rest of the organization, whether it be finance, legal, or HR, providing support as well.

It sounds like the BI team or the Business Intelligence team is a little bit of a linchpin to help the organization turn or be agile.

The great part of it is with them having their proverbial hands within the organization and being sticky, it allows for that connectivity. Sometimes, you’ll find this in organizations, and we’re all guilty of this. As best as possible, it eliminates the silos that sometimes occur.

It does because you have real-time information and you’re making decisions not off of the field. The organization that owns the logistics and the strategy or the professionals that major in tactics are the amateurs. It definitely forces that. All in, how many souls report to you?

I’m lucky enough to have about 60 people under my purview.

How many direct reports up in your org chart, you personally?

It’s six that directly report to me, mainly the vice presidents of the different verticals.

You got to the Pistons in what year and in what role and then you’ve been named Chief Revenue Officer, correct?

As we go through my background, you’ll see a consistent theme that you can go home again. I had the pleasure of being at the Pistons when sports and entertainment were in ‘03 to ‘07. What you’re referring to now, back in June of 2021, is when I returned to the organization. When I joined the organization, I was Senior Vice President of Business Strategy. At that point, all the verticals I talked about at the outset were under my purview with the exception of the partnership team.

We’ll talk about that because you’re managing two different sales processes. One is a very consultative sale and the other is a B2B high-volume sale at some level, but it’s two distinct ways or places to sell. Let’s start off because you and I have known each other for many years at this point when I’m thinking back to New York, and we are both Philly guys, which is exciting. Coming out of school, how did you get into sports? What’s your first sales job? Is it a sales job? What does that look like?

I’ll dive into the background, but I thought you’d get a kick out of two stops in my sales career and sales being in my blood from the jump. One is junior year of high school, there’s a company called Junior Achievement. They broke the class into two different teams and you had to form your own company. I was fortunate enough to be voted President of the company. The name of the company, which I think you’re going to like, was called IBUSTTRAC. Early in my career, I’m already getting the acronyms in there. IBUSTTRAC stands for Intelligent But Unmotivated Students Trying To Run A Company. Sarcasm started it early for me.

At least you were in branding pretty early.

What we wanted to sell at the time was bottle openers that had our school logo. Right away, the principal shot that down. He’s like, “We’re not pushing beer products. Junior Achievement’s going to give us a grant. What are you guys thinking?” We then wanted t-shirts. The other company won the coin flip. Early in my career, I got comfortable with losing when it comes to luck, team performance, or any of that.

We wound up selling beach towels and we set the record for Junior Achievement. They couldn’t even produce the amount of towels that we sold in time. There were people who ordered towels. A year and a half later, and I’m in college at this point, and friends of my parents are like, “Was that a donation thing, or are we ever getting these beach towels?” That was my first foray into sales. I thought you’d appreciate that.

The second one was the summer of my sophomore year. I worked at a telemarketing firm. The reason I bring this up is twofold. One, what I was selling was 90-day trials for postage meters. Anyone who knows Lance on this show knows you hate sales scripts. On my first day, I was handed a 47-page sales script. I had to earn a few dollars so that I could go out and have some fun with my friends over the summer.

Now you got the Magna Carta.

“If they say this, then say that.” It was a foreign language. Fast forward, I decided, “No, I’m not doing this,” for a variety of reasons. I go, “This is summer. This isn’t school. I’m not studying.” What I was fascinated by was hearing the people around me and what they were saying on the phone. The ones that were following the script was click, next call.

There were 1 or 2 people. There was one guy. He was reclining in his chair. He had his feet up on the desk. He probably could have been a little bit more courteous to our manager walking the floor at the time, but he was breaking through and he was getting sales. Once you got a sale, all you needed to do was get somebody to say, “Yes, sign me up for the 90-day trial.” I went home that night and started tearing up the sales and I said, “It’s not a sales script. I need an outline. I need to do my homework. What are the reasons why someone could benefit from having a postage meter?”

 

Calculating Risk: Once you get a sale, all you need is to get somebody to sign up for your available trials.

I quickly found out none. All I needed to do was basically find a way to tell somebody, “This is a zero risk. Why don’t you sample it? That’s the best way you’re going to find out. I can tell you all these great benefits. I can do a needs analysis, but at the end of the day, why don’t you try it out? It doesn’t cost you anything.” I quickly became a top salesperson that summer alone. I outsold the person who had been there the year prior and was number one in the entire Northeast. I got that taste pretty early on.

Now, your original question. I started my career in college athletics, which I highly recommend in the sense that, akin to minor league sports, you’re doing everything. You run lean. My first job at Temple University was in marketing and promotions. It sounds glamorous. Most people out of school want to work in the marketing department. What I did for the first three months on the job was staple papers. I literally spent three months just stapling packets and making sure everyone in the office got one.

I said, “This is working in sports?” I step back and I go, “This is pretty good. When I’m out with friends, I can say I work in sports.” That job quickly pivoted to putting me on the phones. At the time, Temple University was going to be voted out of the East and the football program needed to average 20,000 fans a game. It didn’t matter if it was paid or comped.

We started a program called the Bobby Backer Bus Brigade. Bobby Wallace was the coach, highly touted, and had a lot of success at Division 1AA. I was calling people to send a free bus wherever they wanted to go and bring them to the game. The goal was to bring 50 buses to the game and we started having some success. There were some games where we were bringing 1,000 buses a game. You can imagine the expenses that rolled up, but that was my first job out of school. That transitioned in Temple University to ticket operations where I got my first taste of the box office and how important ticketing connectivity is in general.

How long were you at Temple?

I spent four and a half years at Temple University.

Were you an alum of Temple?

I wasn’t. I did my undergrad at Penn State. The great thing about working at Temple is they paid for my Master’s. I got my Master’s in Sports Education.

At the end of the day, you probably came out on the better end. I’m starting to see a theme here. You go back to your Pitney Bowes days, which is interesting, knowing you as a leader. With you, it’s always like a simple genius. What’s the most direct path? That obstacle sometimes is the way because that’s what you did with that script. It sounds like you’re also very mission-oriented too. When they hired Bobby Wallace, I was racking my brains thinking about it because I was like, “They finally got a good coach,” and it is Temple at the end of the day. No offense, Temple fans. I used to have Temple basketball tickets. I get it. I was always a big John Chaney fan.

When I was doing ticket operations, he wanted to make sure the only thing he cared about was that I didn’t mess up the four comps that he had behind the bench.

It’s important. You got to know where your bread’s butter is. From there, you go where? What’s the next move?

I was Director of Ticket Operations, which was an amazing opportunity given to me. In my mid-twenties, I’m running ticket operations. It sounds glamorous. I was a one-man band. I was a student worker. I knew I always had the dream of working in professional sports, especially the NBA. I had a great love for the game. I grew up a Sixers fan. I honed in on this website called Teamwork Online.

My boss at the time at Temple joked around and said, “Teamwork Online, that’s a resume graveyard.” You talk about being from Philly, the gentleman who called me when I applied to a bunch of different jobs, I applied for a job at Palace Sports Entertainment because I didn’t even know Detroit, Michigan. I was like, “I know Michigan football, but I didn’t know much about it.”

I applied online, and a guy by the name of Joe Barber called me because Joe grew up in the Northeast in New Jersey and was like, “It’d be cool to have somebody from the Northeast here.” I winded up getting hired in the group sales department working for a woman by the name of Sarah. I spent about four years at the Pistons and worked my way up to premium sales.

I had no clue that you had once worked for the Pistons. That’s news to me. Not that I’ve crept into your LinkedIn profile to see that, but I did not know that at all. You’re very familiar with Detroit. I didn’t realize you’ve lived there. Were Estes and Draco still at Powell’s at that point or they had exited?

They had left at that point. Tom Wilson was the President and CEO, one of the visionaries in this business.

Was Powell still in the Tampa Bay Lightning at that point?

Those guys were there. Correct.

You started group sales, which no offense to any group salespeople. Once dubbed a group salesperson, you never break your way out of that, which is interesting. What’s that transition look like at Palace?

In my career, as we go through some of the background stuff, I’ve been very fortunate to break some of the molds.

They’re box office people.

Sometimes, all the grumpy box office person. For me, it was learning another skillset and realizing how important it was understanding the connectivity.

Did you make the jump because of pay or were you ready from Temple?

I made the jump because I wanted to get into professional sports.

It was a career move. It wasn’t like, “I’m worried about pay. I’m worried about anything else.” You’re right, Detroit from Philly. It might as well be Mexico City, as far as I’m concerned. You’re not even thinking that on the East Coast.

You bring up a lot of good points. One, that move was two steps back to take the eventual one step forward. I was a Director at Temple, went in as an account executive, pretty junior. The only inside sales was “on the org chart” a little bit lower. The thought of from a pay standpoint, as a Director of Ticket Operations, I wasn’t independently wealthy. It was salary. It was no commission. Whereas I was going to a low-salary job and it was 90% commission.

It was a huge leap of faith not knowing anyone except for one person in Michigan. If you gave me a list of states, quite frankly at the time, and almost ignorantly, I probably would’ve put Michigan near the bottom of the list. The four years I spent there were some of the most rewarding and all the great things that Michigan and Detroit proper have to offer.

It’s interesting because I’ve trained more Millennials and Gen Z-ers than anybody could possibly imagine. I’m the guy who’s training all the younger folks. I think generations are more similar than they’re different. One thing about this generation is people want quick moves. At this point, you’re late twenties because you’re out of school and you’re over the midline. You take essentially a step backwards. At that point, a young Dan, is that a calculated risk? Were people telling you not to do it?

I need to bifurcate it into the family and friend circle versus industry people. The family and friend circle, “You’re going to be a plane ride away,” or, “What are you thinking?”

I got my Philly cup here. Especially Philly people, you talk about parochial, you move from Yeadon to Media. In Delaware County, you might as well move across state lines, so I can imagine.

Industry people were interesting. Dave O’Brien, the late athletic director and probably what turned into one of my first mentors in this industry, along with Chris who gave me my first start in sports, they both had a different take on it. They said, “Where do you want to go?” Dave said to me, “Do you want to be an athletic director? If you do, don’t leave.”

Chris said to me, “How much do you believe in you?” I said, “Excuse me, Chris?” He’s like, “How much do you believe in you?” It stuck with me because, at the end of the day, you got to bet on yourself. There’s going to be a lot of different times where you’re going to have options. One isn’t necessarily better than the other on paper. It’s more what’s best for you at that time.

There will be a lot of times when you will have options that aren’t necessarily better than the ones on paper.

For me, knowing that I wanted to get into professional sports, when I was at Temple, I sent out 126 resumes. I know people don’t send mail anymore, but that was every NFL, MLB, NHL team and NBA team. I heard back from 3 of them and 2 of them wanted to offer me an internship. You want to talk about taking a step back. The other one wanted to offer me a job where they were going to pay me $200 a week. Now I’m having the Pistons call me from applying online. I got to jump at this chance.

The other thing too, and I think it’s interesting if you’re reading this, is whether you’re in the pro sports industry or not, and this is not a knock on Dan, you’re on the pro sports side and you see somebody from the college side, it’s not necessarily, “Let me get somebody from pro sports. That’s a great move for us,” thus why he gets less than a 0.5% return rate on 143 prospecting emails or letters. That’s interesting.

I got a quick question for you in terms of your theory in sales because I want to get into Dan the sales guy in a second. You got the junior achievement stuff and you’ve moved from Temple, which is a massive move. It’s not Penn State. It’s not an easy sell. Are you more of a gambler or are you more of an odds guy?

It is where I’ve evolved. I started earlier in my career as much more of a gambler. Now, I truly believe in art and science. Maybe that’s the experience I’ve had on the BI side of things. Understanding where it can help support the sale, why not shrink the odds? The other thing being a gambler and what the science won’t always tell you is you got to always ask for the big sale. You talk about when we first met, I remember when you trained the first team ever when we worked together in terms of them starting at the top. Do your proper needs analysis and let them work you down, but don’t start in the middle or at a lower price. You don’t know anything. Don’t judge a book by its cover.

Always ask for the big sale.

Let’s go back to Palace. Group sales, four years there, what’s the trajectory? Start talking about Dan the sales guy there because no doubt you have to sell.

It was hard and I wasn’t great right out of the gate. I humbly bragged about IBUSTTRAC and Pitney Bowes. It was a real adjustment for me. I had Sarah Daniels as my manager. We had 6 other sellers, and interestingly enough, 4 of them were female sellers. I developed great relationships with all of them. Early on in the way the Palace was structured, it was a competitive environment to the point where in the beginning, I was going to lunch by myself. I’ve always been a real social person, always friends with everybody and diverse of friends that I had.

I remember it was being at a Boston market and I’d been at the job about 60 days or so. I go, “I have no friends. This is ridiculous.” I’m struggling a little bit with getting appointments. I remember thinking, “You’re blowing this. You’ve always wanted to work in professional sports.” All these are terrible excuses. “All the important categories are spoken for. I started in September. A lot of the fan experience packages that group sales are known for selling are booked. What are you doing? I’m blowing it.”

I remember thinking, “I got to reset my process. I got to stop looking at what others are doing. How am I going to define success? Let me win a day. Let me win a week. By the way, it might be nice if I socialize with some of the people there. They could rebuke me, but what am I standing on ceremony for people to come to my cube and talk to me? Who am I?” I put myself out there, allowed myself to be vulnerable, asked a lot of questions, and admitted things I didn’t know.

Calculating Risk: Learn how to put yourself out there and be vulnerable. Ask a lot of questions and admit to things you do not know.

This is the first a-ha leadership moment. Sarah Daniel was an empathetic leader who cared and wanted to make sure that I was comfortable in my chair. “How are you getting adjusted? What are you doing on the weekend,” and spending part of my one-on-one time not criticizing my lackluster sales numbers? Fast forward a year later, I’m the top group salesperson. Not only am I the top group salesperson, but I’m moving my way up the board and competing with some people who have been there for 10 to 15 years. They moved me over to premium sales, where I got my first glimpse into selling high-ticketed items, sweet leases, and premium tickets. I spent about two and a half years doing that at the Palace.

You make the decision to go. You get into some bad head space. I’m not a clinical psychologist but we’ve all been there. You looked in the mirror and said, “I better wake up because this isn’t going to bode well for me. It’s actually not who I am,” which is understandable. We all go through it, especially when you’re in a new spot like comfort zones, and then you move your way up.

At that point, what was it about your style, your personal signature on how you sell, and what’s still the same now for you? You sell ideas now, and I’m pretty sure like most chief revenue officers I know, you’re involved in enough deals at some point to bring it across, whether it’s coaching or FaceTime, so what’s the signature? What’s still the same about it?

It’s developing a process and being able to identify quickly what are things not to do. Don’t double down on those, move on quickly, and take each experience. For me, the principle that has worked and carried through now is developing relationships. Really care and listen. I know a lot of times people will say that, but more times than not, we’re in a situation where we politely shut up and then wait for our turn to speak. It’s taking and proving to the person on the other side not only have you listened, but you’ve got a thoughtful diagnosis for what they told you. When you follow up, you’re integrating some of that initial conversation. Ultimately, a lot of times, most people’s favorite topic is themselves or their or their family, or you and I are talking about our affinity for Philadelphia.

There will always be some bond that unites you with the person you’re trying to sell. That clicked for me and it became relationship selling. Sometimes, that can have a negative knock where it’s like, “Are you only a service person?” No, it’s relationship selling. When that person says, “You’ve been fantastic, how can I help you? What can I send you? Can I send you a gift card?” no. The best thing you can do is load me up with referrals or tell other people how great the experience with the organization and working with me is.

I was going to tag you with a follow-up question like relationship selling is cliché, but you blocked me off before I was going to do it because I think you said something there I’ve never heard before and I hope everybody read it. If you’re going to be in relationship selling, it’s a proving ground. I’ve never heard anybody say it like that before. You’re right. It’s not what you can do for me. It’s what I can do for you. It’s like that. It’s not a service mentality. It’s, “Let me prove to you that this could be valuable for you.” I like that concept.

It evolved over time, and it’s been honed and fine-tuned. You say “What is it that I still carry with me now?” It’s that aspect of it. It’s where people sometimes get tripped up that are good enough to get through the gatekeeper. They’re able to have that dialogue. They’re able to do the presentation. It’s asking for the sale. It’s saying, “Lance, based on everything we’ve discussed, this is a great fit. By the way, here’s what I want you to pay me. Here’s why you’re going to derive so much value from this investment. Think about it as an investment,” versus, “Here’s how much it’s going to cost on an annual basis.”

That’s the mix that you said before. Sales is half art and half science. I’m going to flip it over. You go back to those four years when you moved up the ladder. Before you take another step, group sales, which is a little bit different sales than selling a high-end premium item, is more of a customized and herding cat mentality because it takes a lot of logistics to do that. The other one is like, “I want you to buy something expensive that you might not need for your business but would augment it,” or you personally, what did you suck at? What were you bad at? Maybe even to this day, you’re like, “I struggle with that or I struggle with it then,” at least.

As I think about it, I smile and I go, “Maybe there’s more than one thing that I got to rethink this.” Where I always have to continually remind myself is to slow it down in terms of letting it breathe a little bit. I know I’m a good company here. One of the things that resonated with one of the times you were training, rolling up your sleeves, and getting on a call. You’re going back and forth. You’re battling objections, and all of a sudden, you pause and there’s dead air. I’m like, “What is Lance doing? Is he okay? Do I need to check on him?” All of a sudden, the person felt the need to go on more because you weren’t satisfied with what they told you.

This guy’s playing three-dimensional chess. That’s been an a-ha and something I constantly remind myself of. Let it breathe. Even if it’s a reaction that you don’t want to get, don’t negotiate against yourself. Sometimes we’re so anxious to prove we’re knowledgeable about our product, “Here’s 8,000 things I jotted down. I did all my research before calling you.” It will take time. If you’re not being rushed off the phone or you’re not being rushed through an appointment, let it breathe. My wife’s a big wine drinker. I don’t indulge in wine, but they tell you when you open a good bottle of wine, let it breathe for a little bit.

Don’t negotiate against yourself and be too anxious to prove your knowledge.

It’s interesting you said that. We’re going through massive growth at Tyson Group to the point we grew 66%. I told the team that 2023 is going to be the year of think of like Jake Tapper’s Bar Rescue. We’re going to stress-test ourselves. We came out like a bat out of hell the first month of the year and we’re debating on an org chart on a couple of things at the senior team.

I had one of my senior team members go, “Stop trying to sell me so hard.” I go, “I’m not actually trying to sell you anything right now. I’m trying to speed learn you a little bit on some things you’re not seeing, but it’s coming off heavy-handed.” Let it breathe, let it resonate. I should’ve given her 24 hours like, “I’m with you.” I still struggle. I get very excited and I get enthusiastic.

That’s what happens. I get excited too.

They want to move the needles. You’re there for four years. Where do you land at the Pistons and then what’s that next turn?

The Pistons were generous and knew more about the industry than I know now. The NBA does this annual sales and marketing meeting and it’s usually all sales leaders. For whatever reason, as a sales rep, I had indicated to my managers at the time that I had an interest in leadership. They brought me to the league meetings. You don’t see sales reps usually at these meetings. It’s usually candidly VP and above.

I met a gentleman by the name of Fred, well-known in the industry. I remember having a conversation with him and he said, “Let’s stay in touch,” that polite throwaway line where it’s like, “We’ve talked for ten minutes. There’s 8,000 other people here that I want to say hello to.” We actually did stay in touch. He had approached me about what working together could look like.

Later on, you might ask me, “What would I tell my younger self?” I wasn’t patient. Fred, we had had a conversation. There was a job that was open. He called me and he’s like, “You can interview for it. I don’t think you’re the right fit because there’s going to be something better down the line, but I need you to wait a couple of months. I need to navigate a few things.”

The Washington Commanders had an opening to sales sweeps. I went there, and six weeks into the job, Fred calls me and he’s like, “I created a job for you. Many people think of sales and service as separate. I’d love you to come in and be our assistant director of ticket services. I’d want you to manage all of our courtside accounts, but I also want you to help our director manage the department.” I just signed a lease on a place. I was working for Washington at the time. Early on, I knew that wasn’t going to be long-term for me where they were as an organization. To their credit, I raised it with my manager at the time and he was like, “If you think this is a great opportunity, you should explore it.”

I was in Washington for four months, which I don’t recommend people taking a job because the New Jersey Nets were such a great opportunity. Quite frankly, in September of 2007, when I joined the New Jersey Nets, one of the pitches was, “We’re going to be moving to Brooklyn in the next year or two,” which we can get into. Fast forward five years later, Brooklyn actually comes about. Working for the New Jersey Nets changed my life.

Now you’re in a risk move because you took a job with Washington. It can piss some people off because any of us in leadership now put ourselves in that position. You showed some impatience, but it came to fruition. You leave enough of an impression on Fred, who’s a great guy and then you come in at the Nets. You come as an assistant director. You’re managing a major book of accounts, I can imagine. The Nets, brand-wise, are not the Brooklyn Nets they are now. They’re out playing out Prudential.

We eventually played two seasons at Prudential, but we were playing at Continental Airlines arena.

I used to remember that airline. You got a little bit of a promise that you could be involved in something pretty new with the New Jersey Nets at the time moving up to Brooklyn.

It was fantastic. It allowed me to manage a staff, which I hadn’t done since my first job out of school. At the time, I was directly responsible for about 75% of the ticket revenue. It combined my love of sales and relationship selling, that stigma of service people. It was an a-ha moment that I carry with me now in terms of how I view service and retention roles and placing some of your best salespeople in there. Fred had told me, “One of the reasons we want you in this role is we’ve identified you as a high-level seller. We want to shift the mindset. We want to still provide best-in-class service, but we also want to be sales-minded when we do it.” That was a light bulb moment for me.

You’re quasi-leading or co-leading. You’re selling. What’s the first challenge around at the Nets’ end? There are two full-time jobs there.

Two very common challenges that young leaders will run into sometimes, especially those that are selling is that viewpoint of, “Are you competing against the people you’re managing? How do you show them that you’re putting their self-interest prior to your own but knowing that you have a number to hit?” Quite frankly, early on, I had a director, but a lot of my responsibilities were almost seen as co-directors and navigating that because it was a process where it was Fred and a few other people making that decision.

Calculating Risk: Young leaders usually make the mistake of competing against the people they are managing and failing to show that they are putting their interests prior to your own.

That dynamic with the director at the time was challenging because here I was viewed almost as Fred’s guy being brought in. My director at the time, who’s my direct boss, was showing me affording her the right level of respect, not if I’m getting emailed by other executives of the company, putting her in the copy line, or getting her the heads up. Some of it is ignorance or not realizing the cadence and, quite frankly, politics that exist in any corporate structure.

What’s interesting too is anytime you get a player-coach in sales, the hat you have to wear in sales is not the hat you wear in leadership because the obstacles are in the way, you got to get it done, you’re operating with speed, close the distance between lines. You have to navigate or negotiate the internal mechanisms of the cave drawings that you don’t know about that are in the dark and then what’s in front of you and how people act in front of you. It is not an easy way. It’s hard. You do that, and on top of that, you’re in a very live environment because there are a lot of leaders there. There’s a lot of things going on there at the Nets. What do you learn about yourself there? What’s the mirror moment for you?

The biggest one was I was introduced to one of my biggest mentors in the industry, Brett. For those who know Brett in the industry, Brett moves at a way different speed than anyone I’d ever been around. We’re talking warp speed. We’re talking race cars in the red at all times. I remember initially getting that audience with him and learning how to navigate managing up, but the importance is taking advantage of the opportunities and solutions-based thinking. I’ll never forget that huge mirror moment or a-ha for me. Fast forward a couple of years into my journey, at this point, I was a director overseeing the service department and being tapped to potentially be involved in the Brooklyn project, which is starting to come into focus a little bit. We have come off of 12 and 70 seasons and we’re thinking about renewals.

Is it about 2009?

2009 to 2010. It’s a Friday night. Brett burns the candle at both ends and it’s a full boardroom. There are people from marketing, sponsorship, and ticket sales, all leadership. Brett’s the only one in the room coming up with ideas from value adds on renewals to literally, “Let’s have Jerry West come to a game. Let’s have the Jonas Brothers perform in the atrium.” It is all things that, when you’re thinking to yourself, you’re like, “I don’t know. The Jonas Brothers are the most popular band in the world. They’re selling out stadiums. I don’t know if they’re going to do a private concert.”

Everything I was doing, I was being negative and I was shooting down ideas of the CEO. First of all, you have to learn how to unpack if you’re going to be a dissenting voice, but more important than that, provide solutions-based thinking. I remember Brett stopped the meeting and he gave it to me like no one’s ever given it to me before.

Lance, he lit me up. There were people who literally left the boardroom as he was going at me. I remember people were texting me afterward, “Are you okay?” Some people thought I was going to get fired. At 11:30 that night, Brett called me and said in a very calm tone, “You know how much I care about this business, how much I care about you, and you’ve got so much potential. I need to know that, number one, you’re all in.”

“Number two, if you’re ever in front of me and you disagree, you have the autonomy to do that. You better come up with your solutions. Don’t ever be in a situation where you’re shooting things down and you’ve got an empty holster.” It’s lived with me. It’s as impactful of a moment. It meant so much that he called me that night as well. It was the type of moment where I failed and took it as a valuable learning experience and a great lesson.

Don’t ever be in a situation where you shoot things down while having an empty holster.

There are a couple of things there. I don’t know a ton about Brett. I know him a little bit, but I do know there’s a lot of intent to what he does and I’m sure those heart and flower moments mean something when they come from him. That’s sincerity. There’s a lesson there. The second lesson is knowing how to play politics. Who’s in the room? That’s the next thing. The third thing that’s interesting about people that most of us don’t know is some people think out loud. You got to make sure you understand.

What it sounded like was he was trying to green light think, and that’s a business process that a lot of people weren’t even taught because you don’t red light think when you green light think so you don’t do judicial thinking when you’re green lighting. There are so many things that unpack there. At the end of the day, it comes down to sensory acuity, being acutely sensitive to your surroundings and what’s trying to be accomplished to make a decision. One of the things I’ve always loved about you, and that’s why I said mirror moment, is there are ten things to unpack right there. It’s lived with you for years.

It’s in my mind forever. I tell any person and any of my teammates to this day or anyone under my purview about that when they’re not providing solutions-based thinking. It was such a wildly impactful moment for me and made me significantly better in how I think about the business and even how I lead.

You’re now on both throes. It sounds like you’re starting to get to that point where you start being marked as one of the people who’s going to lead a big portion of the business. This is where we start talking. This is a start to meet. Brooklyn is now going to make the move. There’s a stadium going to be built, and then you get dubbed as one of the guys, if not the guy. Talk about that next transition for you.

I’m so appreciative as I look back now at direct managers and Fred and Brian who allowed me to author the ticketing business plan and so many amazing things come about.

Author or own?

I’d say author and co-owned because there were going to be several editors along the way. Certainly, both of them had a lot of experience, institutional knowledge, and understanding of the market. This thing from scratch, what is it going to look like? Brett had me partnered up with someone in the marketing department who was, at the time, owned by a woman by the name of Laura Castronovo. She now goes by the moniker of Laura Lefton.

We were working on this project. She was coming to it from a marketing lens and I was putting it together as a business plan for ticket sales strategy, knowing at the time lens that every team in the market was getting a new stadium or arena. Madison Square Garden was going through the restoration. You had both football teams getting new stadiums, both baseball teams, and we were going to be last to market.

We’re coming out of the recession too. It was great timing.

We needed to secure what would be similar to a PSL, a Personal Seat License, without doing a PSL. By the way, this was going to be a Frank Geary building and then it changed to more of an Ellerbe Beckett building that was going to model and take some of its cues from the Indiana Pacers Fieldhouse. At the time, it was Conseco Fieldhouse.

As I was putting this together with Laura at the time, the goalposts kept changing. One of the most rewarding things of my career was being able to make those adjustments and being able to lean on people like Brett, Fred, and Brian at the time for their insights and understanding of the true value of collaboration. From there, we created this all-access platform. As we opened the Barclay Center, we projected at the time 70% sellout to 90% sellout. We exceeded all of our projections and expectations at the time. The learnings, stops, and starts along the way were invaluable to have that experience and learn in real time.

I don’t know this, but I’m curious because there are those moments. Is this the point in your career that you start to get a seat at the table?

I have that mirror moment as you reflect and to still, fast forward, call it a year later, and be at the table with our general manager at the time and our CFO. Being the most junior person at that table was a remarkable thing and so beneficial and so many learnings along the way.

Some of my guests, I have some history with. Not every one of them. You and I do. We even had an infamous training on St. Patty’s Day on a Saturday. That was a serious commitment from everybody. I would call it extreme ownership from you, me, and all the salespeople. As a matter of fact, I was on the phone with Manny at Crypto.com, our old staples, and AEG and we’re talking about it. We’ll always have that Saturday morning at the end of the day.

I’m sure we’re going to talk about being culture-driven and what a culture guy I am. I’m such a culture guy. Saturday, a brand new team that I put together, only working with me for a month saying, “By the way, we’re going to work this Saturday.” It’s the biggest Saturday in Hoboken where a lot of them lived.

We’re on St. Patty’s Day. No doubt, but it was a serious commitment. You’re either compliant or committed and that’s it. I like that seat at the table because it felt that way. It felt like you were in the know. You knew what the objectives were. There were relationships going with the legends there and then there was that whole thing with Freddy and then Brett and you. I love that. Not many people can say they launched a stadium or an arena. You look at pro sports, not many. You launched that. I remember your career takes a turn then. With the next couple of years or year, you turn. You go somewhere else. Talk about that. That’s interesting.

It winds up being I’ve become less of a journeyman or a governor with four-year stints at these places. I spent six years, and the building opened. Being promoted to Vice President overseeing all premium seating, I decided that I was going to leave the team side and go out and start my own company with a former client of mine, Cole Rubin.

You’re how old at this point?

At that point, I’m 35.

For everybody that’s reading, if you’re an entrepreneur, you don’t usually go from a senior-level person. You’re usually very disgruntled and I know you weren’t disgruntled. You decide. You go from a job with a decent ladder with a net to a ladder and no net. That’s the move I look at when anybody makes that calculate risk or gamble.

It comes back to that. Lance, let me layer this on. It was spending all those years opening Barclay Center and crafting a sales plan. September 28th, 2012 when the building opened, my wife’s water broke. I’m not even there the night the building opens. I had a newborn and I’m going to leave. You’re right. I was wildly happy in Brooklyn. Did I want to own more things? Did I love the people that were there? Was there a chance to grow?

It would’ve been growing in place more than growing up the ladder, but I loved working with Brett. All the people there were terrific. They were in growth and expansion mode. At the time I’m leaving, two things happen. One, they make the infamous trade for Kevin Garnett and they determine that the Islanders are going to play there. There was a lot of opportunity. Here’s the a-ha moment, and we can transition into Dynasty Sports & Entertainment. The year that Barclay Center opened, I remember being at those NBA sales and marketing meetings.

There’s something about those meetings for me. I met Fred six years earlier, and then Commissioner Silver was talking about ticketing and the secondary market, one of the most brilliant minds in sports. I remember a lot of the things he was saying I disagreed with. I felt like the ticketing industry was ready for positive disruption.

What do I mean by positive disruption? This is where I have a fascination with Amazon and open distribution. Ticketing seemed like this gated off, hard to access, a lot of friction points, not to mention something as taboo as the secondary market and brokers being that person on the street that sometimes it’s selling you a real ticket, sometimes it’s selling you fake piece of paper. When I told the people in Brooklyn that I was going to leave, they were like, “What team are you going to?”

I said, “No, I’m going to start my own firm.” I called it a brokerage firm. Cole was like, “Don’t use the word broker.” Everyone was, “You’re leaving to be a ticket broker? Are you nuts?” As you’re saying earlier, are you taking that gamble? My wife at the time was at the NFL, the league office. I remember I kept asking her opinion because it was staying with Brooklyn.

I also had gotten another offer that was a lucrative offer in the market at Madison Square Garden. The third option was, do I do this new venture with Cole Rubin? I drove my wife crazy with this decision. Lance, you know me. I was very decisive and went back and forth. Brett was amazing during that time. Laura’s advice to me was, “You need to bet on yourself and trust your instincts.”

Calculating Risk: Bet on yourself and trust your instincts. Stop asking other people for their opinions.

She said, “You need to stop asking me my opinion. You have my blessing to do any 1 of the 3. Close your eyes. Fast forward a month. Fast forward six months. Fast forward two years from now. Which of the three is going to make you the happiest?” Lance, to this day, when people come to me and say they want to potentially leave or explore another opportunity, I have stolen Laura’s advice. I’ve made it my own. I’ve branded it Lefton’s advice. It was a decision that opened up a whole other part of the industry in business for me.

You go back to the original mentor and Laura, they meet in the middle, and say, “Bet on yourself,” because that’s what your guy at Temple told you. It’s interesting that the greatest investment you’ll ever make is in you. I love that. You’re at your new organization for how long?

I wind up being at Dynasty for almost five years.

2017, two years before the pandemic and then you wheel back again. I’m going to say this in a very nice way. You clear house a little bit at Brooklyn, right at Barclay. You come back as now you’re kind of the guy. If not kind of the guy but the guy.

There’s a guy by the name of Mike Zavodsky who calls me up and says he was about to be named Chief Revenue Officer. He said, “I don’t know anything about ticketing. I view you as an expert in this field. I’d love for you to be my partner and come back to Brooklyn. Come home. This is your chance. Business had sagged a little bit because of team performance and a variety of reasons.”

My initial reaction was, “Mike, I live five minutes from my office. Yes, I travel a decent amount for my job with Dynasty. I set my own hours. Cole had become not just a business partner but a dear and trusted friend. You’re crazy. I’ll help you find someone.” Mike is a hell of a seller and extremely persuasive. Brett had reached out to me as well.

What I appreciated was how transparent he was at the time about ownership and potentially there being a sale with the team and it could be accelerated but felt like this was a great opportunity. They can’t lose opportunity. What ultimately switched it for me was this, and it’s funny because I asked Laura again, “What do you think I should do? Here’s where my head is at.”

She goes, “It doesn’t matter what I think you should do. I know you’re already in Brooklyn.” I’m like, “What do you mean?” She goes, “You would not have even brought this up to me. It’s almost like a coach that goes into broadcasting. It’s in your DNA. You love being around large groups of people. You love leading, managing, coaching, and growing talent. This is checking every box.”

It was the type of thing where I thought about it and Mike was politely and patiently persistent. Basically, once I showed my hand, and you mentioned this earlier, the emotions were on my sleeve and I’m a pretty easy read. Once he knew that I had an interest, it was game over for him. He knew he was going to get me. You can negotiate, but at the end of the day, he knew that this touched on so many important things to me. I went back in January of 2018.

You’re back to center again and you’re there another 3 or 4 years, right up to the pandemic-ish.

Right through the pandemic and overseeing all ticketing hospitality. It was the first piece that I got of tasting analytics on the team side. It was ticket analytics for the organization.

From there, there was no other stop between there and Detroit.

There wasn’t. It’s an important thing to acknowledge, I got fired from Brooklyn. You’re in this industry long enough, you’re going to get fired from jobs. New ownership and leadership came in. Coming right out of the pandemic, a lot of organizations did that audit. What was tough wasn’t me getting let go. If you’re high enough up in an organization, you got to realize that people want to surround themselves with their own people.

There were eighteen of my colleagues who were also let go. In that time, a year earlier, Mike Zavodsky was named Chief Business Officer of the Detroit Pistons. Mike called me and asked me if I’d be interested in going to Detroit. As usual, my first answer to Mike was no way. After I get let go at Brooklyn, Mike calls me again and checks in on me as a friend. “Would you potentially have an interest in coming to Detroit?” What’s unique about this is the opportunity was amazing. It was being able to work for Mike, but being introduced to Arn Tellem, who’s our Vice Chairman and a legend in this industry. I wanted to try to make the opportunity work. However, with three kids and Laura being firmly established as a Vice President at the NFL, we’re not looking to relocate.

The real conversation became, “Could I commute and take the job?” Pre-pandemic, that probably sounds outrageous and crazy, but I now have been with the Pistons for a year and a half. Monday through Thursday, I fly in on Mondays, leave on Thursday nights, and work remotely on Fridays and did that 42 times.

As we land back in Detroit, I don’t know if you’ve ever thought about this, but it’s interesting. You took it upon yourself two times in your career to do some Junior Achievement and Dynasty. The other times in your career, you have gone back to the same spot that you started in twice. You did it with Detroit and you did it with Brooklyn, two different stints there.

There was only a little detour at the Commanders, which then were the Washington Redskins. Not one time, and I do a lot of these interviews, have I heard you talk about chasing a career. It was always this bet and a potential opportunity with no guarantee because each time you get to Detroit first, you got to wean your way up. You meet somebody.

The other thing that’s interesting is Dan’s not taking advice from a ton of people. He has a few people he’s mentioned in his life, 3 or 4 mentors. My dad used to say all five people you’re tight with, and I’m sure you take incomings from a lot, but you got some core folks there that you brought up. There’s this consistent trend. Each place you left, they brought you back. However you left it must’ve been pretty good. Not a lot of people get asked to come back a second time. Your reputation is good, especially in Detroit because there was distance between you were there the first time, but your reputation is usually your reputation at the end of the day.

Relationship business, Detroit is almost a completely different organization. Even Brooklyn coming back five years later looked completely different. You’re right. I have a lot of people that I feel affectionately about in this industry. It was a tight inner circle. You’ll be shocked to know that it’s usually a relationship and years of knowing the person. The only asterisk I put on that is David Levy, the legendary Turner Broadcasting CEO. He was CEO at BSE Global for 55 days. David is probably somebody in this industry I trust and respect as much as anybody.

He gave me a ton of advice and was an amazing human being, even as I was leaving Brooklyn. He never went more than 8 or 9 days without reaching out, whether via text or a phone call and consistently giving me advice and saying, “Don’t even talk. Great. Here’s the way you should be thinking about things and here’s the questions you need to ask yourself.” I’m fortunate in that instance to have him and Brett, both of them firmly in my corner but also providing amazing advice coupled with Laura, my wife, but also somebody who understands the ins and outs of this industry as well as anybody I’ve ever been around.

I think a couple of things as we bring this bird down for a landing. I love the journey. What I learned most about you is a lot of introspection that comes from you and a lot of understanding yourself. I talk about those mirror moments because I usually find somebody successful in sales or leadership has exceptional personal leadership because that’s where it all stems from. If you can’t lead you, you can’t do anything else.

At the end of the day, you can’t sell a concept because you’re not believable yourself. You definitely are, Dan. That’s why I love the interview because it was a deep thought and a deep progression that way. I know you have kids, but let’s say you have a niece or nephew come to you. We act differently sometimes. There is a little intensity with our kids. If you had to say to a niece and nephew that were 7 or 8 years old and they said, “Uncle Dan, what’s success mean?” what do you say to the 7, 8, or 9-year-old?

Your mirror talk is why people need to pick up your book because of ethos, pathos, and logos. I digress. I had one plug-in there.

I appreciate the plug. We’re here to sell books.

For me, success has so many different forms. It’s intertwined sometimes with happiness. For me, I’m fortunate. I’ve been in sales roles where there’s the proverbial scoreboard and you know whether you’ve won or lost in hitting numbers. As I’ve advanced in my career, success is legacy building. That’s what you’re able to do with the people that you’re fortunate enough to manage and lead.

Success is legacy building. It is all about what you can do with the people you are fortunate enough to manage and lead.

Also, being able to provide insights, counsel, and real teaching because people are complex, either diverse or unique. For me, part of that legacy, I’ve referenced the NBA meetings probably four different times. Hopefully, the league will appreciate it. One thing that’s been glaring throughout my career is the diversity of it and understanding having a wife who’s worked in the industry for over two decades and being intentional. It’s part of why I admire you so much in terms of the amount of female leaders you have in your organization.

Success for me now has taken on the tenor of being intentional and making sure that people who maybe weren’t afforded a lot of the opportunity. I’ve been fortunate with people giving me, calling me, and relationships that I forge, and, hopefully, some of the success is the reason, but being very intentional about providing a pathway for underrepresented people in revenue-generating roles. Still, in sports and entertainment, we’ve got a lot of catching up to do with the rest of the world.

Sometimes, people think sports entertainment is a real big industry, but it’s a very ancestral industry. Everybody knows everybody, and sometimes it looks like that too. It is being intentional. I talked to Kristin Bernert on the show and we talked a lot about that. I would concur. Second question, what’s your business song? What’s that song? You got Pearl Jam behind you. Did you go into a big deal? You’re going into an intense conversation. What’s that song in the back of your head? What are you playing in your iPhone headset?

Anyone watching for an extended period of time will say, “What does this background mean?” We can address the Pearl Jam thing. There’s a deep love of Pearl Jam. No matter what type of day I’m having, Pearl Jam is the soundtrack of my life. I even wanted to name one of my kids’ middle names to be Vedder, but my wife said, “No way. That’s where I’m drawing the line.” You can never go wrong with any Pearl Jam song. For me, it’s Rearview Mirror. It’s the ultimate. It’s the gamut of emotions that run in and it’s suitable for any moment.

Last question, you can’t say any of my books, but if you gift a book or if you do gift books, what book do you usually gift to somebody?

Your books are terrific and I won’t cheat, but in real life, I would take more of the Phil Jackson approach based on the person probably gifted, but if I had to be broader, I would say it would be Walter Isaacson’s biography of Steve Jobs.

Steve Jobs

I actually have his biography of Benjamin Franklin right up here.

It’s incredible. Jobs is a wildly fascinating human. A lot of what not to do in leadership. You can easily say he’s the Thomas Edison of our day. It’s like he was the king of think different, innovate or die. Apple and Blackberry used to be a real thing. If you remember in 2007, the market cap, right before the release of the iPhone, Blackberry was worth $60 billion. Apple was worth $75 billion. Their valuations now, Blackberry’s $4 billion, and Apple is $2.5 trillion. To me, that book is so raw and it talks about the psychology. I highly recommend it. It’s the type of thing where, to me, it’s the ultimate gift that you can give somebody.

I love Isaacson as an author, so I’m going to get that book. love this interview. This is awesome. I can’t wait to get this out into the world. Dan, thanks for being a good friend. Thanks for being on my show. I am looking forward to talking to you soon.

Likewise. Be well, Lance.

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About Dan Lefton

As Chief Revenue Officer, Dan Lefton provides oversight for all revenue, including partnership sales & activation, ticket sales & service, and business intelligence for the Detroit Pistons. In his 24-year career, Lefton has become an industry-leading ticket and hospitality sales expert, as well as being known for his strong leadership in growing and developing talent while building best-in-class culture.

Lefton has overseen record revenue growth and sustainability throughout his career and has established himself as a go-to leader and mentor throughout the sports and entertainment industry. Since returning to the Detroit Pistons in June 2021, Lefton has overseen historic revenue growth in both ticket sales and corporate partnerships.

Lefton was the visionary behind the Bet Rivers Backcourt Club, on-court suites, which allowed the team to create and sell two entitlements in addition to creating a one-of-a-kind premium experience. In addition to the revenue success, he has been instrumental in building out the business intelligence team for the organization. The BI team has also played a crucial role in providing data and analytic oversight of sales, marketing, finance, programming, and human resources.

Lefton previously worked at BSE Global (Brooklyn Nets) as Senior Vice President of Sales, where he oversaw record revenue and played a key role in the Nets’ move to Barclays Center. Lefton was the the architect behind the extremely successful “All-Access” program that led to record attendance and allowed the organization to exceed all ticket and suite projections.

Lefton also co-founded Dynasty Sports & Entertainment (DSE) in 2013, which provided a pricing, distribution and inventory management platform in the sports and entertainment space. Lefton successfully transformed DSE into the industry-leading secondary market partner and open distributor to various teams, venues, and ticket exchanges. Lefton has also previously worked for Palace Sports and Entertainment (Detroit Pistons) from 2003-2007 and began a distinguished career at Temple University in the Athletic Department.

Strategies to Find the Right Talent with Spencer Ambrosius

Business is just like sports; you need the right strategies with the right people to succeed. In this episode of Against The Sales Odds, Lance sits down with Spencer Ambrosius, the SVP of Ticket Sales and Service for Ilitch Sports + Entertainment. Spencer walks us through his career and what has helped him succeed, from his time as a collegiate athlete to the business side of professional sports. Spencer has been through various roles in his career that have invoked many different qualities that have helped shape his leadership style. From mentors to creating his own style, Spencer is constantly looking for two things: hard work and coachability—two qualities that all leaders should take into account when searching for new talent.

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Creating The Right Strategies To Find The Right Talent With Spencer Ambrosius

Hiring The Right People With Spencer Ambrosius: SVP Of Ticket Sales & Service With Ilitch Sports + Entertainment.

I am excited about this episode. I have Spencer Ambrosius, who is the Senior VP of Ticket Sales for Ilitch Sports + Entertainment, if you don’t know who Illitch is, that would be the Detroit Tigers and the Red Wings. Spencer, I love that you are on here. This is great.

Thanks.

We are going to talk about leadership, sales, and all kinds of things. I’m going to integrate the fact that I did some homework on Spencer, a Quarterback in college. I want to know how that ties into some things. We got talking about that. Spencer, big role, SVP. How many people report to you?

There are about 150 total between the 2 teams. There’s also some ancillary private events business and some support functions there. We have a good crew here. It’s good people all the way through. We will talk more about that.

That’s important. Talent is the name of the game right now. How long in Detroit? How long have you been in this position?

I got here in 2019. I got a few months in before that pandemic shut down, and then we have been rebuilding since that 2020 period that everybody in this industry had to navigate through. We are back up and running. We have been back in the office full-time for a couple of years. It seems like it’s been quicker than that, but it’s been a great run so far.

I did some work up there, but 2 to 3 months into the pandemic before it started. Right at that last quarter is when you started.

At the time when I first came out, I was the Vice President of Ticket Sales for the Red Wing specifically. We had a couple of months run up until that first Red Wing season, and then everything changed. It was about half a year of thinking things were going to run the way a typical sports team or a sports business operates before everything changed. It could have been worse timing, but it was a blessing in disguise in a weird way. In 2020, the Red Wings were the worst team in hockey. The Tigers were the worst team in baseball. I say this half-jokingly.

If you are going to go through a true rebuild on the ice and the field, you might as well do it when fans can’t watch you play. On the business side, it allowed us to rethink the way we are operating and hit the reset button without going through that awkward change cycle of adoption on the fly. True reset button, back up and running, and it’s a little bit of a different operation now.

It sounds like what you are saying is in a little bit of a rebuild and reset. We will get to that. You are from where? How does Spencer get to SVP of two major brands? Where did you start? Where did you go to school? What was your first job coming out of school? What does that all look like?

I would call it a hometown team. I’m from four hours north in Traverse City, Michigan, the cherry capital of the world in the greater pinky region of the state of Michigan.

You can tell that you went to public schools because they teach everything about Michigan.

I did not. I went to a private school. The key part of the story, through that process, playing football growing up and getting exposed to some great people and great leaders through my youth, I went on to play football in college. I say that it was Division III football in Rhode Island, a small school called Salve Regina University. When I say I played football, I use that term loosely as well. I was a four-year varsity letter winner. Minimal action. A lot of great things that you can learn through playing sports as we know. Overcoming adversity, leadership, and a lot of the things that I learned through it.

Overcoming adversity and leadership are some of the things that you can learn as an athlete.

Through student-athletes, especially Division 3. Both my sons played Division 3. You are truly a student-athlete. It is a lot of work. You don’t get all the perks that you get in other places.

You got that right. That’s a big part of the discipline, the work ethic, and the teamwork. It could go on and on. As great of a school as that was. A lot of the things that I apply now are more from those days of grinding on a practice field for the chance to see action in a Division III football game. That was some real-life experience.

Yeah, because everybody plays D3. I’m not arguing it’s a different level of commitment. It’s a character thing because your crowds aren’t huge. You are not getting media time. You are probably, scholarship-wise, if anything, maybe there’s some academic stuff there, but it’s not like you are getting a big scholarship. I love scholarship but it’s not about that. It’s a different commitment to it. I would say there are different loves of the game.

Zero regrets from that time. A lot of great people I’m still in contact with, but when you are half-joking. I’m serious about this. I was not a good athlete. I was not very athletically gifted to be on that field. I don’t think I could have played another position besides quarterback realistically. I was usually the smallest, slowest, and weakest guy. My high school career was I was a game manager. At the college level, there are way better athletes, but if you can find a way to surround yourself with good people and put them in a good position to be successful and find a way to win as a team. I didn’t know it at the time, but the reason I have been able to find a leadership career path in this industry is from that mentality. Approaching sales management like a quarterback to me is one of the best analogies. It comes a little more naturally because that’s all I had in my playing days.

Find a way to surround yourself with good people and put them in a good position to be successful. Find a way to win as a team.

I love that because that’s what sales management is. I was talking to an executive in the MLS and we were talking about the factors that dictate success and sales management. There are probably seven factors to think about. You will look at the talent. You got to look at how you lead, but then you got to look at how you manage because that’s the accountability.

What process are we going to use? What offense are we going to run? What technology is going to help us win? There’s a big argument right now like, “How is AI going to affect things?” You have to play it out because it is the technology, it’s like using a new golf club, but how does that fit? Who asked the better question? It’s about seeing the field, no pun intended. When you left school, what was your first job out of school? What did you do?

I think a very stereotypical approach in this industry. I wanted to work in sports. Sales was not a passion of mine growing up. It was not a dream job, but I quickly found out that that’s where people are hiring and those of us with liberal arts educations.

I forgot to ask you that. What was the degree? I have the Liberal Arts too.

I have a Liberal Arts degree and Marketing.

Not a BS in marketing, but a BA in marketing.

BA in Marketing. I thought I wanted to do advertising and figure out who our fans are and how we get in front of them. Ultimately, that’s what I’m doing now. I do think there was a little bit of a method to the madness. I didn’t fully know how it worked at the time but it sure worked out to this point. I took an inside sales representative role with the Atlanta Hawks and joined that team surrounded by great people and great leaders.

Who was on that team at the time it seemed like a lot of you were together at that point. When I say a lot of you, a lot of our network, my network, and yours. Who are some of the people on inside sales then?

On the inside sales team. It was a team led by Corey Breton, Erik Platt, John Adler, and Chris Wettig I’m going to miss some people and I apologize for that.

Was Doss down there at the time?

Doss was there at the time. He was too big time for us.

I hope he’s reading this.

A lot of good folks were all over the place now. I just had a wedding. They were all there. That’s the best part about this industry. It was a giant networking event.

You and Corey Breton are like the Michigan mafia. There are a couple of you because he is a Michigan guy too.

Yeah, we all tried to get out, but I’m back.

There’s nothing wrong with that. Was Baldwin at Atlanta then too?

I missed Baldwin. I missed Travis Apple. I ended up working with Dave here in Detroit. You could probably keep naming folks.

What was the biggest thing there? What was that big learning thing? Inside sales? Did you get promoted there? Did you move somewhere else? What was that?

It was full immersion. I’m humble enough to admit I did not know what I was getting myself into. I had no previous training. I had never sold anything. I leaned on the basics. Corey told me before I started, “Just attack every day like it’s your interview.” I know he tells that to everybody. I internalized that and I made sure I was going to win a job. Every day, I came into the office.

What the Hawks do a great job of, and I know they still do, something I have taken with me and implemented, is hardcore training and development. They make sure you have all the tools you need. It’s that two-week onboarding before you ever start selling anything. Not just the product knowledge, but every situation you are going to encounter, you are briefed on it. Once you get started, there’s on-the-fly training and coaching.

Even though I’d never sold anything, I knew I was a coachable person and I knew I was going to outwork anybody. If you tell me the measurable KPIs that I need to hit, I am going to crush those. Even if there weren’t results, I would give you the most activity. I think that helped. It was not a natural process for me in any way, but I was savvy enough to know that if I do the things they are telling me, I’m going to find success.

There’s no doubt. There are a couple of things unpacked. One person, Erik, for instance, has moved over to sponsorship and he’s taken that same mentality, which is the right mentality even with his sponsorship team. Secondly, if you tune in to this, the biggest difference between playing sports, pro sports for instance, or college sports as opposed to being in sales is, that you spend 90% of your time in sports practicing and prepping and a limited amount of time playing when you put the ratio together. In sales, you spend 90% of your time playing the game, and then maybe 10% preparing. Any moment you can take to prep and prepare, you have to leverage that. If not, you are practicing in front of an opportunity. That’s not a good spot.

That’s exactly right. It’s a good way to at least be aware of it as you are going through it. There’s the initial training, the on-the-fly training, the self-training, and development, and then there’s leaning on your peers and learning from their mistakes. That whole approach of, “I’m going to make mistakes. I better hurry up and make them, learn from them, and vow to never make the same mistake twice.” Eventually, if you take enough reps, you will become more comfortable pretty quickly.

I got weird at that point. I thought everyone was doing this, but they weren’t. I would reach out to the directors, like Erik’s boss and Kyle Brunson, or whoever was part of the leadership group at that time. I would ask them, “If I came in early or if I came in at lunchtime, can I come to make phone calls in front of you and you give me on-the-spot feedback? We will put them on speakerphone, even though we are not allowed to call businesses yet. Let me start practicing my B2B calls and you coach me up.” College athletes do those types of things. Nowadays, I feel like it would be easy to stand out. It’s easier said than done. It’s not an easy or comfortable thing to do. As an inside sales rep, you shouldn’t be comfortable anyway.

No, you shouldn’t be. Sales are not comfortable. Like I said, I was at Crypto.com with AEG. It’s a tough market there. The market is annotated with hospitality options. What are you doing to stand out? There’s a group of, I would call them mostly the five-percenters that are in any team. I would count leaders who expect a little bit more from themselves. I don’t think it takes a ton to separate yourself from the average. It’s a couple of extra steps. It’s watching that film because, for pound per pound, I don’t see much difference in talent. Very rarely, you see somebody that blows you away with talent. It’s usually those little things. That’s why I believe salespeople and leaders at some point can be built. I don’t think it’s always a born exercise. That’s exactly what you are saying.

That was what I needed at least. There were people who were way more natural than me. Even now, kudos to them. I was never able to find success that way. To this day, if I’m going to be training somebody, I’m going to approach it as if they have no prior knowledge, and then get that baseline and build from there.

Creating The Right Strategies: When training somebody, approach it as if they have no prior knowledge and get that baseline instead of a master in the little things.

It’s like mastering the little things. There are little things that we all do well. If you can facilitate a sales meeting, you can facilitate a meeting with ownership, you can facilitate a meeting with clients, you can facilitate a meeting with your peers or people that report to you. There are carryovers to everything. From there, how long are you at the Hawks? What does the transition look like from there?

It’s been about three years. I took the new business sales route and immediately knew. I took more gratification in helping other people find success than my own sales number on the board. I was that rep who was helping the inside sales team. I went through their leadership training program a couple of times. It became pretty clear that that was the path I wanted to take. There was not an internal opportunity with the Atlanta Hawks to manage an inside sales team at the time. I had an opportunity in Cleveland with the Cavaliers. I jumped up to Cleveland and worked with some great people there.

Who were you reporting up to then? I’m trying to think when everyone’s crossed paths.

Mitch Reed, Erik Cloud, and Deanna Windler were there, and Brandon Lawrence was there at the time.

I was just with Danny. He’s with AEG now. That was the whole group there. How long were you in Cleveland?

I did that for a year. That was another one of those. I thought I would be there a lot longer. I managed an inside sales team by myself with sixteen people and this was the LeBron return year. There wasn’t a lot of Cavs help needed. There was more focus on the Cleveland Gladiators, the Lake Erie Monsters, and the Cleveland State University men’s basketball Canton Charge. It was an organizational approach for this inside sales team which taught me a lot about the balance and getting people to focus on the parts of the business that need the most help instead of just the easy inbound calls for the Cavs at the time. It was a fun situation to be in because you had that experience working for a good team. It was the last time worked for it.

It sounds like you were mission-oriented like, “You are sold.” You said, “Leadership is for me. This game management that I did in high school.” You knew early on that that’s the trend you wanted to go. I understand sales have sold. I have done it for a few years. I take great pride in helping people get there. Early on, you realized your leadership style or your leadership signature was what? What was it?

I used the example of Alabama football. If I could be Nick Saban, that would be a much more fun team for me to coach than my football, the Salve Regina University Seahawks. There are a lot more gaps you have to cover there. If you can get the best people however you can go invest in the best people. That was my cheat code to success. That’s the number one thing. We have to have the best people. What does that mean is it a whole other conversation?

Invest in the best people. That’s a cheat code to success.

There are levels of that. You can be looking for attitude. It could be competency. It can be a blend. It could be something very specific skill you are looking for that fits into the system.

You need a little bit of everything. In football, you have eleven players on the field who can’t all be running backs. You need each position to be the best. Alabama is known for having every position as the best player on the field. Once you have them, then you invest in them, make sure they know what to do on every play, and then put them in the best position to be successful while keeping them motivated and keeping them accountable. You will start stacking up wins that way.

Creating The Right Strategies: Invest in the best players once you have them. Ensure they know what to do on every play and put them in the best position to be successful while keeping them motivated and accountable. You’ll start stacking up wins that way.

Your selling then becomes about how well you recruit.

That’s it. That’s my biggest sale. The only thing I can brag about is being able to surround myself with great people, and then let them go to work. We had an awesome group in Cleveland. They did a great job of getting pulled in these different directions with the organizational approach there. That set them up for future success.

If you are going to use Alabama as an example, it is good because I have six Rs that I manage a company. It’s revenue, managing core relationships, recognition of the organization, and refinement, and one of them is recruiting. I have to be the Chief Recruiting Officer. I have to sell that dream. On the flip side of that, I believe in decentralized leadership. If we are going to describe it, you take Seal teams or any special operators. It’s all cover move. If you are going to cover a move, everybody has to know what their job is. Talk to that a little bit. It seems like you said to let them go three times.

You put in the guidelines and process. You manage very specific expectations, then you let them do their work. You let them do their jobs, and then your job is not to tell them what they are doing right or wrong. Your job is to be right there with them and help them change course when needed or to put the best leads in front of them. Whatever it may be, whatever the business is calling for, you are getting them going. Get them to be self-sufficient. You put fuel in the car but you still have to drive it.

With your style of leadership, you have to have a lot of trust. I find leaders trust two ways. It’s either I hire somebody and they incrementally can build trust with me, or you are the type of leader that says, “I will give you all the trust and you can chip away at it.” Which one are you?

It goes back to those characteristics you are looking for when you are hiring these people. They have to be people that you can trust. Until there’s a reason not to trust someone, I trust them.

You are hiring a character or a person that fits onto the team. You are giving them the KPIs because you brought it up before. You said, “I’m going to give the key forum indicators. That would tell them automatically what they are doing. I stay out of their way until needed unless they need me situationally.” It’s what you are saying.

For the most part. There is continuous development, but it’s not necessarily like, “Here’s what you are doing. You will make this many calls by this time, and then we will talk about it.” It’s not necessarily that.

Not at all, because then you are going against the grain because most people that you would interview, I’m always coaching people all the time. You will appreciate this. You hired a good guy named SJ who we both know. If I’m managing him or anybody else, I’m sitting there or I’m having breakfast with him early and saying, “How do you want to be managed? How do you want to be led? How do you want to be communicated to?” I bet within three questions, somebody like that goes, “I don’t want to be micromanaged.” That’s usually what it comes down to. It sounds like you air a little bit more not to micro-managing.

Yeah, but part of quarterbacking a team is you still have to keep a pulse on where everyone is at. It doesn’t mean you need to micromanage them. Even back when I was playing quarterback, I trusted that everyone in the huddle knew the play. I would still tell them to play. For certain individuals, I would remind them to snap count several times on the way up to the line of scrimmage. Just to ensure that everything’s going to go off without a hitch.

That’s being a maestro or an orchestra leader. That’s directing. I like what you said. The profound thing is that even though we are using sports analogies here, I trust everybody knows the play. I trust we all know the play because that’s different than having to play. We are all on the same page there. That’s well said. You go to the Cavs, you go to where, and then what’s the involvement? Now, you are starting to probably get into some bigger roles.

I was very happy in Cleveland at the time. A lot of good things going on. I was a young kid. I was in what I thought was a good role I aspired to be in. The Cavs went all the way to the championship. They lost in the finals to the Warriors that year, but that was such a fun ride to be a part of. I was pretty locked in there, then I got this call and it was from Corey Breton again whom I had such immense trust in that I had to take that call. He told me, “There’s this thing going on in LA. It’s part of Legends. It’s a startup MLS franchise.”

If anybody else calls me with that, I will probably stop right there because I’m not a soccer guy. I’m not a West Coast guy. I have fair skin. I don’t do well in the sun, but I trusted Corey. If he said, “You got to take a look at this.” I owed him that. I will never forget. I flew out to Los Angeles and it was true startup mode. This was out of one of Peter Guber’s closets from Mandalay Entertainment. There are eight people starting this thing. It was an opportunity for me. It’s now known as Los Angeles Football Club, but this was 2015. This was years before the first-ever game. There was no stadium. There were no players, teams, colors, or announcements even that this was happening. The whole pitch was, “I got to help start that from scratch.”

I was cocky enough at the time not to realize how daunting that is. I was like, “Sign me up for that.” It was amazing. Looking back now, some of the things we had to do were crazy at the time. It was the most gratifying thing ever three years later when that building was sold out, rocking, and the whole vision came together. Still, the most gratifying thing I have been through.

What was the biggest thing leadership-wise? That’s a whole different deal. That’s launching a startup almost and then scaling up. Leadership-wise, what happens?

The exposure was incredible because up to that point, I’m an inside sales manager and I’m running someone else’s play essentially. Here it was, I got exposure to the entire business because we were all in one room. Everything that went into building an initial marketing campaign, the design influences of the stadium, the venue operations. I was there the day we hired a first-ever HR person. That taught me so much about business.

Yeah, because you started getting this 360-degree view that you never got. You are not focused on the revenue piece. You are focused on total management at this point.

Designing a website. We all had to do more than our job title dictated because we were a lean entrepreneurial team with great visionaries and people like Rich Orosco and the marketing crew there with Corey and Kam Florence.

I can remember training there. We were in that closed room at that time. I remember the slide. Was it that time? It was that team.

The Legends Group. It was like the Rose Bowl. I remember that.

That was a while ago. We are getting old. You get this 360-degree view. When you did that and you got all this exposure, is there something you wanted more from there? Was it just like, “I got this experience? I’m going to put it back and fold it into how I think about things?”

That’s the beautiful part of Legends. I met a lot of people and learned a lot about all the projects and the concept of a new stadium project. We did have a lot of success by implementing a lot of the best practices that work everywhere else and applying them there. The next thing coming down the line was SoFi Stadium. That was my next step. It was more so to the Legends dynamic. We were white-labeling as LAFC employees essentially. Let’s do this again on a much bigger scale with SoFi Stadium.

My role at that time, here’s where it gets complicated, I was the general manager of the Los Angeles Chargers. I was the public-facing title, which is a very confusing title in this industry. It was overseeing the transition from San Diego to Los Angeles with that step in between the temporary stadium at Dignity Health Sports Park, but then the premium inventory,

You ripped that one off. Dignity Health. Do you remember that one?

The Chargers team only premium inventory at SoFi Stadium.

Who were you reporting up to then?

Todd Fleming.

You are reporting right to the team. That’s what I thought.

Then it was Jim Rushton with the Chargers. There’s a little bit of that sitting in the middle of that dynamic.

That was a day-to-day triage, I remember. Your whole crew with the transition, you were triaging priorities between Legends and Chargers.

Yeah, there was the Legends presence and Legends also was representing the Rams and dual team suites group. Greg Kish, Forrester, and then Kam Florence again. For some of these folks, I was in a different capacity while at the same time representing the best interest of the Chargers. It was very heavy, in those early days. We had to fill that temporary stadium while putting that plan in place for the bigger venue as messy as it was.

They may have just moved up from San Diego. Like a traffic cop, there are a lot of things flying. I’m not trying to say that’s all it was, but I remember conversations with Fleming. That was tough all in for you guys.

The scope of the project and everyone would acknowledge this. It was as challenging as it gets. Fortunately, for me, I wasn’t that far removed from those entrepreneurial days with LAFC. At least now we had access to significant resources. You have to make sure you are building a team of people who are versatile and can change on the fly because you are always getting pulled in different directions. I have nothing bad to say about that experience because when things get complicated now, it’s still not as challenging as some of the things that we encountered in LA.

If I’m listening to what you are saying and have a familiarity with the project, also with my company and myself being involved. I heard General “Mad Dog” Mattis say, and it’s the simplest thing I ever heard on strategy. He said, “Strategy is knowing your priorities.” What a way to know priorities. For everybody reading if you don’t understand this, I need to repeat what Spencer is saying. He’s working for an organization that is part of the Shield, so the Chargers. On top of that, they are moving from one city to another, which is unprecedented because it doesn’t happen all the time. It may have happened four times. He’s then working for a big agency that is representing them, Legends. That’s huge in and of itself.

On top of that, jockeying, negotiating, and positioning with another major sports brand. Not just one who is cranky that owns like the Nuggets, the Rockies, and the Rams. That’s why I’m saying he’s playing down what he did. What I’m telling you all, this is a major stuff. This is no joke. You have to know your priorities. Wouldn’t you agree with this? Conflicting priorities at all times.

When you put it that way, you make it sound a lot more.

You were in the mix, but just knowing, watching it, and being involved with a lot of it myself, a lot of those groups did not agree.

That’s where it comes down to what’s important now. It’s easy to get distracted by all of the complexities. Jim Rushton, I know he’s still with the Chargers. He was very good about making it clear what the priorities are. Ultimately, as the agency representative, that’s the client and what I would view as boss number one. Meanwhile, through Legends, I have another important boss, Todd Fleming, and the rest of that group. We have our priorities as an organization. It would come down to communication with my bosses. If I didn’t help manage the right information, it could be very confusing.

Agreed. You just said the most critical thing, it’s managing up. I know Jim and Todd. People get to that level, all of us have egos, and egos get away. Not in a negative way. I look at ego as a level of confidence in knowing who you are. Ego ties into EQ, but managing up is critical. Now, Spencer and I don’t even know this, going into this, that makes so much sense to the role you are in now. I know there are a couple of steps in between, but let’s get back to where you are here. You now also are at the spot where you have an organization. The Ilitch is a very successful business in restaurants. You can’t argue.

I just bought a lake house in Southern Ohio and Little Caesars is down there. It’s a mainstay. It’s a major corporation. On top of that, how successful that family has been and to have major properties that built a brand new arena in Detroit. If you haven’t been to Detroit, it’s not what’s in your head. Detroit has changed dramatically, and then another state.

Now, that makes sense as to how you can manage that because I didn’t think about that experience to go into this. How did your level, I guess my specific question is, and I don’t mean to over-commentary because I’m fascinated by the story. That job to here or whatever you want to mention in between there too because we have levels of leadership. How did that affect how you strategize things? Let’s talk about people too, because there’s a strategy around that.

It’s changed so much over the years. The exposure to all these different things. You learn pretty quickly by being in a high-pressure situation what type of people you want to surround yourself with. That people components, keeps coming back to that because you need people that are coachable and hardworking, but that can handle some adversity and that can handle that stress management. What are they going to do? What’s that fight-or-flight instinct?

Is that the number one thing you look for in somebody? Their critical problem-solving skills or can they handle stress in adversity?

It depends on the role, I would say, but it’s certainly up there. I’m going to stick with the basics. Number one, are you coachable and are you hardworking?

I don’t think you can coach unless you are coachable.

Those to me are the basic bare minimum. You have to check those boxes. Those other intrinsic characteristics are like, “Explain to me a time you have been through adversity and how you handled it.” That will tell me more than some of your standard interview questions. When things do get complicated, especially if I’m hiring a vice president of ticket sales, I need to know how they are going to react when everything goes wrong. When an organizational priority contradicts their individual goal, how do they let that affect the team, and how does that message get protected from certain people? If you can keep your sales team distraction-free, motivated, and hungry and you are fending off all of the potential distractions. That’s a big characteristic. That’s going to set you up for success.

Creating The Right Strategies: Keep your sales team distraction-free, motivated, and hungry.

You and I are very similar in this way because the hardworking thing, you get people to describe. Everybody’s dealt the hand they can deal with, and then the coachable thing is it’s hard to lead or be led if you are not coachable. There’s a big difference between being a good listener and being coachable. Can you take action?

The one thing you said that everybody should look for, in particular, and I’m not saying this is right or wrong, I look at stressful jobs. Air traffic controllers and servers are ranked the two most stressful jobs you can have multiple times. I look for people who are servers in their lives because I know if they could serve tables, they have a way to prioritize and things like that.

The other thing I think that’s missed and you probably do this at some level is, that I like to ask people, “How do you critically problem solve? What’s your process? Tell me your steps.” People who are good at it have a frame at some level. Probably good at defining the problem, the causes, and finding possible solutions. It’s something in that mix. You and I are a lot like that way. I love that.

For a few minutes, as we start bringing this down for a landing, there’s a war for talent out there. You are in a major metro. You are looking for people who meet baseline characteristics. You are probably looking for a very good diverse workforce and things like that. Give your prognosis because every leader I hear is like, “I can’t find good people.” What’s your answer to that? What’s your process? Talk about that for a second.

It certainly was easier. It seemed to be a lot easier a few years ago. I don’t think that means there aren’t good people out there. I just think that they are highly coveted and their priorities are different than they used to be. Back when I worked in the NBA, the NBA did a great job of teaching us what the trends are and what the motivators are for the up-and-coming graduating class if you are hiring people. At the time, money was the number four biggest motivator.

One of the biggest things is being a part of something bigger than yourself. It’s just like any other sales pitch, you need to know what’s important to them, and then you need to spend your time talking about those things and making sure they understand those opportunities that we have access to. Detroit to me is the epitome of being a part of something bigger than yourself. There is a renaissance going on here in the city.

One of the biggest things is being a part of something bigger than yourself.

The Ilitch family, the Red Wings, the Tigers, Fox Theater, and our other amphitheaters, are at the heart of it. In the district Detroit, you do have an opportunity to make a big impact here. I believe that the people that are coming from all over the country to be a part of this thing, align on that as well and they get fired up for that.

Ilitch is very mission-oriented when it relates to that. You don’t invest that in those properties without being mission-oriented to like I said, the Renaissance. I was with somebody in LA. I won’t name the person but she’s a manager. I was telling her, “We got going on in the marathon.” She goes, “I’m from Michigan. There’s an alliance and allegiance of Michigan and people from Detroit.”

We are a prideful bunch. We can work with that. We can channel that into selling sports tickets.

I like how you tie the way into that because as you and I are talking, it sounds like as a leader, recruiting is something you do. I believe you recruit people twice. Once to come there, and then the second time to stay.

I will call it what it is. I want everyone who works here to be well-known industry-wide. A lot of times what that means is they are going to get recruited externally regularly. That’s okay. Ultimately, that means something right is going on here and that we have good people. I am aware of it. I welcome it. Hopefully, they realize that there is a vision here and they will end up staying here. Some of the great people that we have here make my job a lot easier, but they are empowering that next generation and there’s a lot of good stuff happening.

I love our interview. As we bring this down to the landing, when I do these selfishly, I get to know people a lot better. The only thing that’d be better is if we were sitting at a bar getting to know each other like this. Wherever or having a cup of coffee somewhere. I love this mission-oriented. Number one, you said without a shadow of a doubt, “I had to get better at everything. I took jobs that maybe didn’t always fit this, but I knew I wanted to be in leadership and leverage what I did.”

The other thing is the evolution of all that and especially that crux. The crux of moving your career is, to go back to that part of the interview. Think about major brands that were conflicting and you are in the line of fire. As simple as that sounds, as simple as genius, managing up and knowing priorities, I think you said it in a very subtle way, “I got good at that.” It immediately proposed to me like, “Now, I get why Spencer has moved up in another 2 major brands and 2 major leagues with a major owner that has other businesses all of a sudden.

I don’t take that word, I said anybody lightly triage is your ability, like an emergency room. That nurse has to decide who is the priority. I love that. It’s something that you can acquire too, but I think it’s dealing with stress and pressure. The last couple of questions. I ask everybody this. Speed round. Besides my books, if you don’t gift books, what book do you gift the most?

I do gift books. All of our up-and-coming leaders, I make them read Leadership and Self-Deception. If I’m giving one, it’s that one. I don’t know if I need to say any more about that.

Leadership and Self-Deception: Getting Out of the Box

Anybody should get that book. I have two copies here. Scotty O’Neill first exposed me to the book. It takes how to win friends and puts it on a level of steroids. With EQ in it, there are so many dimensions of it.

Self-realization. It’s huge.

The second thing, if you had a song for sales or leadership for you that was a pump-up song, what’s your jam? Just for yourself. What’s on that playlist? What’s your go-to?

Don’t Stop Believing. That’s our song here in Detroit.

It is. Little Journey. It’s on mine too. I was growing up when it came out, so it still does it for me. Let’s end with this. I didn’t ask you. If you don’t mind me to get personal. Do you have kids?

I do. I have two little ones.

Think of your kids or maybe nieces or nephews and you got to put them in an age bracket. Say they are 7, 8, or 9, so they are just starting to form this mentality. They said, “What does it need to be successful?” Remember, you have to speak to a 7, 8, or 9-year-old, so you can’t give this great quote. It has to be a 7, 8, or, 9-year-old.

I’m trying to picture my kid as a seven-year-old. It’s hard. He’s only two.

That would be very hard. Think of a niece or nephew if you had one or remember when you are first or second grade.

What is success? It’s being proud of your accomplishments. That’s scalable.

No matter where you are.

If you can be proud of something you accomplished, then you are successful at that.

You are successful if you can be proud of something you accomplished.

It’s a great interview. I’m so excited to have you on. I hope we continue our friendship here. This is good. This is great to learn about you.

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About Spencer Ambrosius

Spencer Ambrosius was promoted to Senior Vice President of Ticket Sales and Servicess for Ilitch Sports + Entertainment (IS+E) in September 2022.

Ambrosius leads all ticket and premium sales and retention efforts and private event sales and service across Ilitch Sports + Entertainment companies and properties, including the Detroit Red Wings and Detroit Tigers.

Ambrosius grew up in Traverse City, Mich., and previously held the title of Vice President of Ticket Sales and service with the Red Wings.

Ambrosius has more than 10 years of professional sports ticket sales and service experience. Before joining IS+E, he served as General Manager at Legends, managing the agency’s work with the Los Angeles Chargers. He was also the Director of Ticket Sales and Service for Los Angeles FC (LAFC)/Legends and manager of Inside Sales and Organizational Recruiting for the Cleveland Cavaliers. He began his full-time career in ticket sales and service roles with the Atlanta Hawks.

Ambrosius earned his Bachelor of Arts in marketing from Salve Regina University in Newport, RI, where he was a four-year letterwinner and quarterback on the football team. Ambrosius and his wife, Melissa, reside in Metro Detroit with their two young children, Max and Madison.

The Obstacle Is The Way: Lessons On Success With Marc Jackson

Success is tasteless without the sweetness and bitterness of the journey. The obstacle could be the way to your success. In this episode, Lance Tyson sits down with the Vice President of Ticketing, Sales and Service for the Denver Broncos, Marc Jackson, to take us across his journey as a collegiate athlete who played football at The University of Illinois. Marc talks about the work ethic and lessons he learned on the field and how they translate to the business side of professional sports in his current and past roles. Through his experience, he indulges us with great advice and his definition of success while bringing many lessons that have been passed down from family and mentors to help him succeed in his career. Marc brings so much value to this conversation, so let’s hit that play button and be inspired to move forward beyond the obstacles.

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The Obstacle Is The Way: Lessons On Success With Marc Jackson

I’m excited about this episode of the show because our guest is a personification of Against The Sales Odds with the way he approaches his business. I got Marc Jackson on. He’s the Vice President of Ticket Sales in service for the Denver Broncos. He is a dear friend of mine. I spent days before COVID and all of COVID with him. He was my guy. He was the last meeting before COVID. We started it. We were at that little tiny table in New York together, and we were making fun of COVID that we didn’t even think it was real. Within 24 hours, they shut the NBA down. That was how it went down with us.

It was a quick 180. We hear the reports one thing or another and it was like, “This is real.”

It was 24 hours. It was your last vendor meeting. I landed in Columbus from New York City, and they shut the NBA down. You were at Madison Square Garden at the time. It was the Big East Tournament. They started shutting games down that day. I will always remember Marc from that, and then we spent a lot of time together in COVID virtually.

In fact, there’s a lot bad that came out of COVID, but for us professionally at the Garden, with our sales skills, we developed that at an accelerated rate in large part due to the partnership with the Tyson Group. It felt like I was back at school in camp. It was 2 a day or 3 a day. We were repping. It was groups. It was inside. It was seasons. It was fun.

It was so hard during that time.

We did not let that time go to waste. We leaned into training and development, and made sure we came out stronger.

We switched everything over to virtual learning. That was the whole thing. We were testing what we were going to do and making these 180s. Marc was at Madison Square Garden at the time and the VP there. We converted everything over and went hard. We mastered the 60 to 90-minute session and got out of there. Anything more than that, everybody’s head was going to explode. That was in COVID. Since then, you’ve taken a bigger role with the NFL and the Denver Broncos. Tell everybody about your job and who reports up to you, and go from there.

If there’s a seat with a number on it, that’s me. I do ticketing sales and service for the Denver Broncos. That’s suites. That’s season tickets. That’s all ticketing opportunities. That’s service. That’s operations. That’s suite services, customer service, and club services from the field all the way to our 500-level and everything in between.

What does that total revenue look like for your team?

It’s high, without getting too technical. It’s not as high as I would like it to be. It’s certainly not as high as it was at the Garden because that was multi-property whereas this is just one. We’ve got our eye on the number one spot here in Denver, and we are going to chase it.

There you go. I love it. Tell about the group that reports to you. What does that look like? How many people are in that org chart up underneath you?

There are three directors. There’s a senior director of premium sales and service, a director of customer service, and then a senior director of ticket operations. Underneath them, there are a number of managers as well like club service managers. We’ve got some managers in ticketing operations as well. From there, it’s the most important people, which are the individual contributors and the people that make this thing work.

We have 5 club service reps, 3 premium service reps, and 10 reserve customer service reps. In our operations team, we have a total of 6 people. That includes the senior director and some of the managers as well. Those are the most important people within my group. I’m the least important. They’re the most important. They’re the ones that make things happen. It is roughly about 33 to 35 people.

From a business standpoint, we’re going to do a deeper dive. By the time you were brought into the Broncos and picked a couple of things, sales weren’t where they needed to be.

It was the middle of COVID. The folks that brought me in, their grand design was to elevate not only our strategies and processes but also the customer experience. Something that made me a good fit for this organization at the time is as you’re well aware of the work that we did together in New York, as well as Charlotte, the thing that I focus on is training, development, strategy, process, and maximizing every opportunity in between all of those buzzwords while also elevating the fan culture.

That’s your culture and your superpower. I want to get into that. If one theme came out of this with Marc, it is his ability to build a culture of coaching, learning, and training. Not every organization has that. Some people check that off the list or they do it when they need to. That’s built into the mentality of any team I’ve ever worked with you on. At this point, you and I are going on 15 to 20 years that we worked together with three different organizations. Charlotte was Bobcat at the time.

Bobcats, Hornets, and then Madison Square Garden.

Let’s go backward. Everybody that tunes in to this is like, “How does Marc get here? What does that journey look like?” Tell a little bit of background coming out of school, what you did in school, and maybe that first job.

I was a student-athlete. I went to school at the University of Illinois. I was a student-athlete there. I was a football player there during the Ron Turner era. I was fortunate that my brother was on the squad with me. My father was on the staff, as well on the opposite side of the ball. Coming out of school, I was less prepared because I had most of my eggs in one basket that ultimately didn’t pan out.

Was the goal to play football?

Correct, but that doesn’t always happen. When it came time for me to put my cleats on a wire like Marshon, I had to figure some things out. Luckily, for whatever reason, I’ve been able to build relationships throughout my life. Some of my friends whom I would consider family were working in Cleveland with the Cavaliers organization. They helped me build a resume, which got it over to the folks in Phoenix Suns in the hands of Mike Tomon, Jeff Ianello, and Drew Cloud, that organization or that regime at the time in Phoenix. After hearing about what they were all about and the program that they had in place, I was like, “It was either move back to Chicago or pack my things and move out to Phoenix, Arizona.” I didn’t know anybody out there, but it was a gamble I was willing to take. It was a calculated risk, if you will.

This is an important part of the story. I am fortunate enough to know you. I know your pop’s had a dramatic impact on how you played football and you and your brother’s mentality. We’ve talked a lot about your dad over the years. I know how it translated on the football field because you don’t play at high a level without it. I can imagine that. With what he taught you, how did that carry over into business?

It had a different lens and a different language. My nephew is a registered freshman at Oregon. He is a linebacker. He’s doing great. I try to talk to him about some of the things. I know that his father, my brother, gives him a football perspective. I talk to him using the language of business, but I’m relating it to football. It was something that my dad did well with me using both sides of the coin.

Your dad had a solid career in football. He knew the business side of football too. That’s the thing that I got from you about your dad. It was a couple of years ago that you lost your dad. Talk about that lens.

He was the one that pushed me to go. He was about to move to New Jersey to coach with Schiano at Rutgers. He was like, “This is going to be scary. It’s going to be humbling. You’re going to have some tough challenges, but you should go.” Mom was not happy with me going out west to Phoenix by myself, but he was a strong supporter of it. In his own way, he would tell me, “You’ve done this at a high level. You might’ve been playing in it on a different court, a different surface, or a different field. The arena might look different, but what you did to be successful at being a student-athlete, apply the same things to this opportunity. That’s extra championship lifts, extra workouts, and more treatment if you’re ailing.

Make sure that you invest in your body and your resources. As a student-athlete, that’s one of the most important ones you have. Watch film. As student-athletes, we have to watch films not only with ourselves, but with our teammates, our position, the defense, our position coach, our coordinator, and all of those things. I applied all of those things towards ticketing.

Make sure that you invest in your body and resource.

I’d come in early. I’d stay late. I would watch films if you will, taking reps or taking reps with Corey Breton or anybody. That helped me because this was one of my first real-life experiences as an adult, not being an athlete no more. It allowed me to have a familiar transition from something that I had been intimately familiar with from the second grade to something completely new. It helped me transition into that.

You go to Phoenix. It’s that hard work mentality or that threat mentality. You looked at the system or the process, or what they were building in Phoenix. What did you notice about it that you’re like, “This is a good fit for me.” There are some players there, Tomon, Drew Cloud, and Ianello, who we were talking about in our pre-game. You and I both have Tomon and Coleman.

Nic Barlage’s and John Walker. There were dawgs everywhere. Kyle Hudson. Karlis Kezbers. There were absolute sharks that were out there like Michael Wandell all throughout that organization. To me, it was familiar with a different language. It was about the team. It was about hard work. It was about putting in the time and effort. Even if you didn’t succeed, it was about the champion, the guy, gal, or teammate who was making plays, so I could relate to that. Eugene Wilson would make a play. I didn’t make it, but I’m cheering him on. It was very familiar to me with how Tomon, Drew, and Io built the culture. It reminded me of the locker room that I left.

Every one of those hard strikes on Tomon and Io, they are prep guys. I was with AEG and Michele Kajivara. She got Tomon later. She goes, “I learn more from Tomon and his principle-based leadership and what to look for.” Tomon was all about the prep side. That was his game and still is. You go inside sales there. How are you as a salesperson? Rank yourself straight up from the beginning.

Let’s be honest. I came from the locker room to the phone. I was not good. I was probably an HR nightmare. This was my first rundown, taking earrings out of my ear, cutting off corn rows, and jumping into inside sales. I’m very thankful for how patient Ianello, Tomon, and Drew Cloud are. A big shout out to Corey Breton because he helped me tremendously.

There is no doubt. Corey is solid.

They helped me polish some of the rough edges around what was going on with me. When I first started, I was trash, but I was willing to put the work in. I was like, “This is what I got to do. I’m going to do it, but I’m also going to be a sledgehammer with it. I’m coming in like Jack Ham or Night Train Lane.” It was one speed and there was zero finesse. Over time, I started to learn how to position myself. I learned a different language in the sense of how to articulate words differently and position them differently. It’s still English, but I mean the sales language.

It’s a sequence too. Sometimes sales language is reverse language because you’re starting off from somebody else’s view as opposed to your own view. How long were you in that inside team? Where did you go from there?

Obstacle Is The Way: Sometimes, sales language is a reversing language because you start from somebody else’s view.

I was there for nine months. I became an account executive. I did that for a year and became a senior account executive. Tomon takes an opportunity with Greg Economou in Charlotte.

You were there for three years.

I was in Phoenix for three years.

Before you hop on this next piece, you become what as a salesperson? Take a sentence and freaking describe that. You go from what and you become what?

I started off as overwhelmed. By the time I left, I was a dawg.

I asked about it before this interview. I’m not going to tell you who, but I heard somebody say it was blunt-force trauma in the beginning, and then you became the tip of a sword.

That’s what I mean. They used the phrase dawg.

I understand completely what you’re saying.

This is for anybody tuning in. It’s like Justin Simmons, safety, Broncos, dawg. It’s like PS2. That’s the frame of reference that I’m using here. I became very skilled at this as an individual contributor.

I also like the verbiage. I listen to a lot of leaders and individual contributors as a way to describe a teammate. You don’t always have to be in leadership. There are individual heroic contributors, and that’s what that is. You start setting your eyes on Charlotte because Tomon makes the move there. Did you get recruited there?

Yeah. I had some opportunities to assist with helping future inside sales classes come in and develop. We had programs to allow us some elementary leadership opportunities with some of our other properties in Phoenix. I gravitated towards that. I’m not sure if it’s because that’s what I consider the family business. I didn’t have a whistle around my neck, but it was coaching. It was development. It was training. It was helping people aspire and ascend to greater heights and do it quickly. That opportunity presented itself and I jumped at it. This is in early ’08.

You had done some of that stuff at Phoenix. You were starting to get into mentoring and coaching some of the younger folks that were coming in, and then that opportunity started to open up in Charlotte.

It opened itself up in Charlotte, so I jumped. Tomon had an opportunity available, so I was ready to jump on it. I took on that opportunity. Let’s say the directive was overhauled. What we wanted to do was not just replicate what we did in Phoenix, which was frankly a replication of Cleveland to an extent.

There was a similar playbook going on.

We wanted to create our own version of it. We had a lot of talented people come through those doors like Dino and Agnes. Nic Barlage didn’t report to me. He was a partner in helping rebuild everything. Dino, Greg Allen, Jamie Weinstein, Cam Florenson, and Yao Williams, and Mike Lahey. There’s plenty that I’m not naming because we don’t have enough time for it.

For those folks that aren’t in the pro sports, at least half of the people Marc’s naming are in some significant leadership role at this point with a sports team or a sports franchise, which is a big deal. These are big brands.

Our leadership changed over not only at the top from Bob Johnson to Michael Jordan, but we also had leadership change over as well. Tomon left and Flemming came in. He left, and then Flavil Hampsten came in. That was also a game-changer. It is like we had Bill Walsh and then all of a sudden, we had Bill Parcells. Those are two different trees or whatnot, but also highly successful. Having seen multiple different ways of performing in this business at a consistently elevated level was also extremely beneficial because it gave me some diversity. It gave me a different way to approach and break down and build things back up.

At this point, how would you define your leadership signature? You described figuring out how to sell and starting to get into more of this leadership piece. How would you define it? Even if you use a comparison with an analogy with a coach, who do you become?

I’m not going to make an analogy because I have too much respect for the coaches and things of that nature. I’m still trying to chase Chief. I’m still trying to chase my pops. He was the best coach I’ve ever been around. I’ve been around football for a long time. He is who I’m aspiring to be as a professional.

Who was he as a coach?

He knew the Xs and Os. He knew he could break everything down. In fact, that’s what we used to do. As kids, instead of outside playing tag or whatnot, we were breaking down football strategies. The Xs and Os were still always secondary. It was always about the team. It was always about the individual. It was like, “How do we invest in individuals in a way that trust becomes second nature?” The level of trust is so high that it enables us to do great things together.

You know you’re the priority. You need to have that in order to get individuals. Like football, we’re recruiting people from all over the country who have various diverse backgrounds, priorities, and all of those other things. We have to get them to shed those individual agendas for the collective good. That is what being a football coach is. It is then putting them in a position to make plays.

Xs and Os are secondary. It becomes about trust.

That takes time. That takes investment. That takes resources. You can’t have a transactional outlook in terms of relationships with teammates. You can, but it’s not sustainable. I’ve always tried to invest in people. I get calls.

Trust takes time, investment, and resources. You can’t have a transactional outlook in terms of relationships with teammates because it’s not sustainable.

It’s your number one priority. I’m not talking from a training standpoint. I’m talking about spending time with them. It’s an investment. Training is a piece of the bigger picture.

I had lunch with somebody who’s got his first inside sales manager opportunity out here in Denver from New York. I had the honor and privilege of helping him through that process and being a sounding board. I was not telling him what to do or anything like that, but being an ear and giving him some, “Think about it this way,” or “Have you thought about it this way?”

I get more geeked up about that than anything. That’s why I’ve been able to be successful so far in this business. With my limited success, I attribute it to that. That’s the type of coach my pops was, and that was the type of man he was. It was always about like, “We are going to work hard. It’s going to be difficult. There are going to be good days and bad days, but we are going to do it together. We are going to watch the film. We are going to celebrate or we are going to make corrections. We are going to turn the tape off and we are going to go to work again.” That’s who I aspire to be as a leader.

From our extensive conversations, you taught me the practice coach and game coach. I forget what day it was, but you were saying it one day and I was taking notes. I’m like, “That’s what it is.” That has to be a commitment to the player because it’s not about the game. It’s about the other stuff. It’s that investment.

This is 2008, 2007, and 2009. You take off from here because you move right up into the Charlotte organization. Michael Jordan has taken over the team at this point. You move up and skyrocket up. Talk about the next three roles you had. When I met you then, at that point, Flavil had taken over the organization.

I got there as a manager. When I left, I was vice president of all of the new sales groups. I was running with my guy Jacob Gallagher who was overseeing groups and service at the time. He is now the CRO there. Opportunities presented themselves because we were invested. We did the work. We were committed. We put the time and the effort in, and the results happened. We weren’t successful with every initiative that we did, but we were far more successful. I credit a lot of that to Fred Whitfield for giving us the direction and opening up the lane.

Pete Guellie was as important in that entire process for all of us. He was EVP at the time, and then Flavil as well who was more hands-on with us. I don’t know what I did in the form of life, but I’ve always had super strong leadership. I’ll put that against anybody else in the biz of what I had in Charlotte and what I had in Phoenix. Everybody bought into it, so it gave us the opportunity to earn that success.

I would challenge you on one thing that you’re not giving yourself enough credit for. You manage up. I don’t think you’re compliant. You’re committed. I’ve always seen it this way. Even watching you and KB work together, you force who’s above you to engage with you. You would not last in an organization if somebody wasn’t willing to engage with you. It’d be lights out.

That’s a fair statement. I don’t like doing things with one foot in and one foot out.

I talked to you enough about jobs where you’re like, “That isn’t going to work for me.”

That’s a priority for me. It’s not only the vision, but the relationship that I would have and that individual would have with said direct report and owner. It’s highly important.

You go to an executive position here though. You get this basis of your dad’s signature and strategy that Xs and Os are second and people are first. Ultimately, you want to build trust, and that will get us to the Xs and Os. I see that as a line that comes backward on it. Everybody thinks it’s about this, but it’s about that.

You create the gap.

That’s exactly right. You worked your way up in the organization. What’s that timeframe?

It was pretty quick. I was in Charlotte for eight years. When we set the foundation, 8, 9, 10, and then once we had had a couple of seasons to set the foundation, it took off like a rocket. The thing that I am most proud of is the people that came through and that are still doing it at a high level, but also that what we built has lasted. They’re continuing to have success on the business side.

There are people still there. That’s a foundation. That’s one organization where people have stayed there. You get a shot big time. I can remember a conversation with you early on. You’re hell-bent. You’re like, “I’m bringing every principal, even knocking on doors in New York City.” You get recruited by arguably the most famous arena.

It’s the most famous arena in the world.

Nothing trumps Madison Square Garden.

I’m biased, but it’s the biggest platform and stage in sports and entertainment.

Obstacle Is The Way: Madison Square is the biggest platform on stage in Sports and Entertainment.

For everybody, if they are not in sports because people tuning in to this are in sports, help them understand all the brands that are the heart of MSG. I don’t think everybody understands all the brands. When I started to work with you, I didn’t even understand all the brands. I’m like, “Holy moly.” MSG in and of itself is a brand.

MSG itself as a venue is a brand. The ones that people are most familiar with are the New York Knicks and the New York Rangers. At the time when I got there, the New York Liberty was also part of that. The Westchester Knicks is the G-League Team. When I was there, there were about 280 events at the Garden on the main floor annually. There were somewhere between 40 to 50 in the Hulu Theater at the time. I don’t know what it is now called. In the theater underneath the Garden, there were about 40 to 50 of those a year. Sometimes, it was running congruently with the stuff that was above it.

On top of a railroad station.

On top of Penn Station. Also, don’t forget that we had the Christmas Spectacular. It was 200 events in 8 weeks from Thanksgiving to the last week of December. You’ve got Radio City Music Hall. You had the Beacon Theater. They had an interest in several other properties. At the time, they had other venues in Chicago, LA, and Boston. It’s massive. I can’t speak to the portfolio now because I’ve been away for a couple of years, but it was massive. It was the largest project that I had ever done at the time and still have ever worked on.

You got hired into what role there, and what year was that?

This was 2016. I got hired under the same title. It was the vice president of ticketing. I’m overseeing new sales for the Knicks, the Rangers, the Liberty, and then all operations for Westchester. I am being a support for some of the other things like venue tours, groups, and suites. I’ve got counterparts that lead those various departments. My team helps with those services, operations, strategies, and all the stuff that I’m helping support.

What was the business challenge there? I’m trying to think back and I know what it is. There were some challenges there. You weren’t just pressing the accelerator and picking up where they left off. You had to go into a little bit of a reset with some things. Not to air dirty laundry, but there were some things going on there.

The nice part about New York though that was different than Charlotte was that it had a track record of strong leadership. When we got to Charlotte, we had to strip it down and start from scratch. At the Garden, we didn’t have to do that. We had to put some guardrails up. We did have to press reset on people’s lenses and outlooks. It was more that than anything.

You had some hiring to do too. You had to fill a lot of seats.

I was in New York from ‘16 to ‘20. When I started there, I had something like 30 people that I was reporting to. By the time I left, it was over 60. Ultimately, we did have to do a ton of recruiting and things of that nature. There were pieces of a puzzle in place, and we had to reset the board. Even to what they’re doing now, the transition when I was there to where Brendan Long and Jamie are doing, which Jamie’s sitting at the head, it is in the best position it’s been at including me. It’s probably running better than it has under the last 2, 3, or 4 regimes due to Jamie.

I love Jamie. Also, there’s a bedrock there that you laid and a foundation. Your philosophy starts to evolve here. At least what I saw is you start going from building salespeople, but then you put a hard bent on you were developing leaders. I’m not saying you didn’t do it at Charlotte. You did it, but you start to get laser-focused and say, “I’m going to draw oil from the top down.”

You spent a lot of effort in there. You and I laid out all kinds of plans for that. That affected positively situational awareness. The other thing I want to mention too, and I want to overtake what Marc is saying here. Not only was it the biggest platform and the portfolio was big, but the expectations from ownership are high. They are invested. They’re in your business. They know their numbers. To give you a perspective, do they own Cablevision?

They did. You have known me for a long time. I like to gas people up. People deserve their flowers. We had a lot of good people over there, and they had to be on their game because the expectations were high. It was completely independent of whether the product was successful or not. We had to win. There was a lot of pressure to do so, but I enjoyed that.

We built a team and a culture that enjoyed the high-pressure, high-reward type of environment and culture. It permeated through the entire ticketing department. It wasn’t just my side of the business. It was also on the service side. It was also on the strategy and operations side. Everybody had had those high expectations. We all gravitated towards that. To your point earlier of focusing on building leaders, it was a conscious decision for me. I was like, “We’ve been able to build folks from 0 to 10. Can we build the manager or the new manager from 10 to 100?”

That was a necessity too. You and I have a lot of good talks. At the Garden between 280 events, it’s almost every other day. It’s sometimes twice a day. You have two major league sports teams there. You have Billy Joel and a residency there. It is vast. It’s massive. It becomes this logistical decision-making matrix where it’s almost like cover and move. Your salespeople have to be extremely good at making decisions. You couldn’t be in every decision. You had to trust your leaders and managers to critically problem solve and be able to coach in the moment. You had every technology at your fingertips. They had to become trainers themselves.

They are extremely good communicators. That was a big thing of also being able to see the board, read the board, and react accordingly. Understanding where our North Star is and knowing that we can’t always take a step towards there, sometimes, we’re like, “Based on where we’re at and where we’re at on the board, and what’s presented in front of us,”

whether it was a challenge and the opportunity, “We may have to take a side step in order for us to take a step forward or take a step back in order to take two steps forward. It could also be that we are taking three steps forward.” Being able to help with that process in terms of the growth of managers, directors, and whatnot was a fun process. I enjoyed it because we helped design the game plan together.

I wish I had pictures of you sitting with your leaders in your office. I can remember so many times you game-planning out. It was almost like a sandwich. At the beginning of the day and end of the day, you are orchestrating. On top of that, so everybody knows this, Marc’s boss, Kristin Bernert, gave no quarter. She’s the president of the crew. She was dealing with ownership.

I felt you were teaching your people to manage up to you because you had to manage up. That’s where I go back to what I said before. Don’t ever sell yourself short or any of you because managing up is the hardest thing to do. You are either committed or compliant. You are not compliant. That’s why I go back to how your dad raised you with everything you’ve told me.

Marc helped my son choose his college to go play hockey in. He spent an hour on the phone with him one day as he was struggling. When Marc gives advice, he’s not patty caking with people either. You always remind me that the obstacle is the way. The obstacles in front of you. That’s how you have to go. There’s nothing else other than that.

The obstacle is the way.

I had to pull some old tricks. I was telling him a lot of things that my older brother Bobby was telling me. I was like, “Try to remember some of those things.”

We were in an Uber. I was ordering appetizers at the table. I’ll always be grateful because he went on to win a national championship because you helped him choose that college.

I was so excited when he told me.

Marc did it. That’s my thing. If I could summarize that piece, you go from building the troops, those individual contributors, and then start building leaders.

We did build it. We collaborated together. You and I helped to design, “This is what we want to do. This is how we want to do it. This is the timeframe that we think we can do it in.” Whether it was KB or Abs, they were like, “Yes.” They were bought in. They gave us the runway to go. It is about learning how to manage up. The first thing you learn as leaders is managing down. It’s managing your team and how to deal with that. Nobody ever focuses on teaching you how to manage up, not only up to you but also above you.

Obstacle Is The Way: Learning how to manage down is the first thing you learn as a leader. Nobody ever really focuses on teaching you how to manage up.

No doubt. That’s political. That’s knowing when to say stuff. That’s when to hold your role. There are so many things there. That’s a grind. I always thought you did that well. I thought of anything you got out of MSG. I would watch you. I’d have dinner with you and you’d be like, “These are the five ways you got to look at it.” Even Brandon, one of his leaders, works for me now. Brandon is good at that stuff. He’s good at seeing the whole picture and then knowing what a spot is. He knows where he is. You taught me, “This is exactly how you have to communicate to Brandon. If you don’t sandwich it this way, he’ll bite back on you.”

It’s like kickoff coverage. You got to run through. You got to have your head on the slope. You have to know where your points are. You have to keep it inside and in front. Don’t overrun it. It’s like kickoff coverage all the time. Taking things that I was familiar with and trying to apply to this made it easier for me to understand it and transition. I still do it to this day.

I know you do. The people that love you, including me, it’s a testament to relationships. As we bring this down for landing, there are a couple of things I want to remind everybody. Everything in your life is translatable. Like your dad said in the beginning, “Let’s look at it from this lens. It’s a different lens. These are the things you’re going to do that’s the same.”

Secondly, it is the building of the individual contributor and then Dad said, “The Xs and Os are important, but they’re secondary to us building the talent, the team, and the individual contributors to get to a point of trust.” The last thing is this uncomfortable, “The obstacle is the way,” and that constructive tension of managing up. You and I debate about stuff, but we trust each other. That’s where it goes. That goes with your people, too. I have the last three speed questions to bring this down for a landing. You’re going into a big sale. You’re going into a big meeting. What’s that song? What is it?

Everything in your life is translatable.

I don’t think I have a song. I’m going to put on Jeezy’s first studio album, TM 101.

Are you running it?

Yeah. I’m going to put it on repeat. When I leave the office from the time I get to the meeting, I’m going to go through every track.

I’m into that too because you get a beater genre. To me, there’s always a certain thud that I have to hear every time. Let’s move it to a book you’re gifting the most or reading right now.

When you started talking about relationships and whatnot, I got a book from Jeff Ianello. I didn’t pick it up when he gave it to me. I picked it up last week or so, so I’m only 20 or 30 pages in. It’s called The Splendid and the Vile. It is fantastic.

You might be tuning in to this. This is also on video. Marc pulled his copy out and I pulled my copy out that Jeff Ianello gave me. I didn’t read it right away, but I got sucked into the damn book. It’s a good title too. It’s a great title.

It’s a great title, The Splendid and the Vile. I was like, “What is this?” I started reading and was like, “Let me park right here quickly because I’m going to be on this one.”

The Splendid and the Vile: A Saga of Churchill, Family, and Defiance During the Blitz

No doubt. For everybody tuning in, it’s about Winston Churchill and how he brought England through specifically in the period when England was getting bombed by the Germans. It’s that period. It is a book on leadership and perseverance.

Also decision-making and communication.

You’re going to laugh your ass off reading the book. He spends a lot of time in the bathtub. This cat is in the bathtub making decisions. At the time, they called people secretaries. He has a cigar. I picture the cigar in his mouth. This is the last question. I’m going to change my question here. What’s your brother’s name?

Bobby.

Bobby’s son plays for Oregon.

Yeah. Devon Jackson.

This is young Marc and young Bobby at 7 and 8 years old. Pops is sitting you down and you guys are looking at a film. Marc or Bobby says to dad, “What’s success?” What does Dad say? If he were here, what would he say to 7 and 8-year-old Bobby and Marc, not a 15-year-old?

The answer would be different at fifteen. I’m going to give you both. We’re two years apart. At 7 and 9, he would’ve told his family.

Everything you’ve told me about you has carried through from how you spend time with Mom and all that stuff.

That’s how we approach the business. You can probably call six different cities and I’m sure that there’s somebody that I’ve worked with or whatnot. That’s how we approach this thing. The 17 and 15-year-old versions of Bobby and myself would be impacted. Impact can be taken in a lot of different ways.

You made me think of something. I don’t categorize you as a business friend. I categorize you as a friend, but you are the only person business that has talked to my brother and my son. You and I spent time with my brother on the phone one time.

I’m like, “I’m part of the Tyson Group.”

No doubt. This is such a great interview. Thanks for taking time with me as always. I can’t wait until this gets out. FYI too, after the unfortunate incident with George Floyd, Marc and I did an episode on DE&I. You can email my company. Marc gave me a perspective I never had. Marc is the only person I’ve interviewed twice.

I’m looking forward to the third time.

No doubt. I appreciate it. I love you as always. I can’t wait to get this out. Thanks for being on.

We’ll talk soon.

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About Marc Jackson

Marc Jackson

Vice President, Ticket Sales & Service Denver Broncos Football Club

Marc Jackson serves as Vice President of ticketing Sales & Service for the Denver Broncos Football Club, having joined the organization in September 2020.

In his role, Jackson leads all ticketing initiatives, including service and retention, business development, and operations.

Prior to Denver, Jackson served as Vice President of season Membership Sales for Madison Square Garden for four years. During his tenure, he led all ticket sales initiatives for the New York Knicks, New York Rangers, New York Liberty, and the Westchester Knicks.

Before joining Madison Square Garden, Jackson spent eight years with the Charlotte Hornets (2008- 2016). His responsibilities included suite and premium sales, season membership sales, plus inside sales.

Jackson helped transform the Hornets’ ticket sales program, guiding Charlotte toward multiple Top 3 NBA rankings in new full-season tickets.

In 2005, Jackson began his career with the Phoenix Suns organization as a sales rep focusing on the Suns (NBA), Mercury (WNBA), Roadrunners (ECHL), and live events.

A Chicago native, Jackson is a 2003 University of Illinois graduate, where he was a three-year starter and a member of the 2001 University of Illinois Big Ten football championship team. He now resides in Denver, Colorado.